Here’s a list of recent articles on The Feminine Woman…

The Real Pain of When Men Pull Away & How To React in A High Value Way

5 Insights into Men that Will Ease Your Worries

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Can a BROKE or JOBLESS Man Still be High Value?

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 11 Comments

The more jaded and less innocent you are, in general, the more likely it is that you may laugh at the idea that a broke man could be high value. The less jaded you are, in general, the more likely you are to agree that it’s possible for a man to be broke, jobless and still be high value. Knowing that so many women have been stuck in bad relationships footing the bill for toxic and unambitious men, I don’t take this subject lightly. I know there are bad quality men out there with zero gumption or integrity, who don’t…

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Is it Really “Feminine” to Receive? (And other crazy myths about masculine & feminine energy)

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love | 2 Comments

They may not say it outright, but it’s clear that a lot of ladies out there have a subconscious belief that in order to be “feminine”, they must ever initiate with a man, never get angry, never feel aggressive, or have any kind of seemingly unacceptable or unpleasant energy, lest that come across as “masculine”. Instead, feminine energy is mistakenly assumed by a lot of women to be always warm, soft and passive. It’s supposed to “receive” from men, rather than “give”, because giving is what the masculine is all about. That’s just not true. First of all, giving and…

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How to be Vulnerable Without Being Needy

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 2 Comments

How does one show vulnerability without crossing over into needy territory? I’m not meaning to be flippant, but the short answer to that question is BE vulnerable. Let me share an example with you. Imagine a homeless man. He’s all alone in the street, without food, water, shelter and human companionship. He sleeps on the park bench during freezing winter nights and his mental health is all but ruined. Imagine him feeling the plight of his situation. He sinks into a despair so great that he cannot hold back his emotion. So he starts to really feel his sorrow and…

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3 Reasons why it is High Value For Women To OFFER To Pay On the First Date

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 9 Comments

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking I’ve lost the plot. Maybe you’re thinking I’m anti-woman or that I don’t want the best for my fellow sisters out there. Nope. How could I suggest something so absurd? Good question! Because I’ve learned through painful experience that if you want to invest in the right people (or the right man) it’s important to think outside the box. Over the years I’ve realised that there is something very intelligent about offering to pay on the first date. No, I’m not suggesting that you become a provider.  I am not suggesting that…

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Should A Man Provide for A Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK?

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 24 Comments

Should the Man Provide for a Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK? This question, or some variation of it, keeps circulating in my facebook group for High Value Feminine Women.  Due to the fact that this question produces polarising discussion, there’s always a small number of women who inevitably insult other women for having 50/50 relationships.  I understand. Some women have been through the wringer with the wrong kinds of men, and after having these experiences, they assume that because their ex boyfriend who asked for 50/50 used and abused them, that the problem is the 50/50 setup, and that…

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Women Who Date for Resources VS Women Who Date for True Love

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 14 Comments

Are you searching for true love, or are you searching for resources? There’s a huge difference between a woman who is searching for true love, versus a woman who is searching for resources. Why? Because there’s an enormous difference in the type of man these two types of women would attract. There’s also a difference in the amount of fulfilment, power and success they would both feel with men and dating. Of course, true love is a resource in and of itself. However, when you’re searching for true love, by default you actually ADD value; you give value and resources,…

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8 Shocking Reasons Why Rotational Dating Can Be Low Value

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 16 Comments

Over the last 10 years, rotational dating theory or circular dating has become the stock standard advice given to women. “Date more men!” “Build your man funnel!” “Get more men in your rotation!”, they say. It’s coming up to 10 years I’ve been doing this work with women in all parts of the world, and in that time I’ve also come to notice some patterns. Which means I have noticed that in the world of relationship and dating advice, the advice generally falls into two opposing categories. These two opposing categories come down to: 1: Advice designed to make you…

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The No.1 Trait of Dating Profiles that Men Fall in Love With

By | All, Attraction, Finding Love | No Comments

Let’s talk about the number 1 trait of dating profiles that men fall in love with…It’s certainly not photos of you in skimpy clothing or suggestive poses. (Unless attracting sleazebags is a part of your game plan.) And it’s certainly not a 47 point checklist of what you’re looking for in a man in your bio. In fact, when it comes to dating profiles, most people (men and women) have no clue what to put down. Do I say I love my family? Do I list down my hobbies? Should I mention how I’m not into playing mind games or…

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Why Being Feminine is NOT Always High Value

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 9 Comments

🥶 One of the difficult things about doing what I do is that I see women sometimes get attached to “myopic” ideas that no longer serve them, and especially don’t serve the men that they come into contact with. I can’t blame them, I was there once too. One of these particular ideas is that feminine energy and “being feminine” is somehow everything. Why? Well perhaps in their mind “masculine men are attracted to feminine women.” Well, in one sense, that’s true. But when you really think and detach from the idea – when you zoom out, you see that…

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Why the 80/20 Rule of Contacting a Man will Likely Make You LOSE Him

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 19 Comments

In our Facebook group, there’s been a lot of advice given around from women, and one of these pieces of advice is to let a man initiate contact with you 80% of the time, and you initiate contact with him 20% of the time. This advice is usually given from women in the group (not myself nor David) in response to questions along the lines of, “Should I initiate contact with a man?” Some women take this rule further, claiming that they never initiate with a man, and they don’t only use this rule in the dating stages, but also…

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Relationship Timeline: Men VS Women

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love | 3 Comments

There are huge inherent differences between the relationship timelines of men and women. So as women, we need to know why the timelines are different and what it means for you. Here’s the truth: Men can father children pretty much throughout their whole lives. The world record holder for the oldest man to father a child is a 93 year old Indian farmer. Imagine that!  To us women, that concept can be so foreign because we have our womb and our ovaries, and they do have an expiry date for doing the job of bearing children successfully. We are…

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Polyamory: 10 Reasons Why It Would Never Work Long-Term

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 13 Comments

There are 10 good reasons Why Polyamory would Never Work Long-Term… yes I will probably get some flack from the poly communities, but put your thinking cap on and hear me out as to why polyamory isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be.  Polyamorous relationships are getting more and more popular each day. Social media and dating apps has changed the way we date and find a partner. It’s caused our culture to value distractions, selfishness and instant gratification rather than real emotional connection. It’s caused us to treat the opposite sex like candy, and as an avenue through which…

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How Your Refusal to Grieve Makes You A ‘One of Many’ Type of Woman

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 19 Comments

💔💔 I know many of us have been burned by a man (or men) in the past. However, it’s one thing to grieve, process and appreciate exactly what happened in our past – coming out of that experience more aware, emotionally calibrated to men and better at protecting our investment with men in the future. It’s another to refuse to grieve, process and feel – instead choosing to blame the male gender overall for being sh*t. That approach, though easy, just leads to gutlessness and invulnerability. It also leads to resentment and defensiveness, killing our chances of showing up high…

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The Women Men Commit to Versus the Women Men Leave

By | Commitment, Relationship Issues | 2 Comments

Let me share something important with you. There is a huge difference between the types of women that men commit to, versus the types of women that men leave. And the difference is not what you think it is. I used to know this woman who was absolutely drop dead gorgeous. Everywhere she went, she turned heads. On top of that, she had a great bubbly personality, so all the guys loved to talk and interact with her. Yet, all throughout her life, she kept attracting men and relationships that were subpar, damaging, and even toxic! She had a boyfriend…

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