What is Feminine Beauty? 7 Tips To Achieve Superior Femininity

What is feminine beauty? Is it the perfect placement of your facial features? Is it the perfect floral dress on the perfectly poised woman?

Absolutely not.

Feminine beauty is the quality of softness, vulnerability and the flow of feminine energy that runs through your body.

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Feminine Beauty: Radiating Your True Femininity & Unique Beauty

Women – and especially feminine women who are comfortable with themselves –  are beautiful. Not just celebrities or beauty icons; all women.

I’m not going to launch in to a discussion about beauty is in the eye of the beholder, because it is, and you and I know this.

I’m going to give you reasons why you are beautiful, and why all women are, subject to a few things.

No, I don’t mean your figure or how symmetrical your features are. I’m talking about the intangible beauty that you can radiate through your feminine energy! 

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Why are women beautiful?

  • Women give life
  • We nurture
  • We worry for the ones we love
  • We give unconditional love
  • Sing, laugh, play,
  • Bathe sensually
  • Dance; and most importantly…
  • We give masculine men a reason to work, provide, go to war, run, hunt, and risk their lives.

Such is the saying:

“Behind Every Great Man Is An Amazing Woman”

Although a woman need not always be behind a man; a woman’s femininity can certainly propel a man to do more, and become more.

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Does Feminine Energy Inspire Men?

Men need a source of feminine energy!


Because it gives them what they lack by default within themselves. This doesn’t mean that men don’t also have feminine energy within them, they definitely do!

But it means that very few men can “out-feminine” you by defaults. As such, they perceive some value in your feminine beauty and feminine energy.

The more masculine the man, the more he needs your depth of feminine energy in a relationship.

If he loves her, then she is his source of inspiration. She is his reason to provide more and better.

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This probably seems a bit old-fashioned, but if you look in to history and read about natural or man made disasters, you will find that often, men shielded women from danger/death.

Of course, if you’re resentful, jaded or pessimistic, you’ll also find a lot of examples of where men did not shield women from danger, but rather, saved only themselves.

You can find both examples. But for now, we’re focusing on the ones where men ‘saved’ women.

No matter how jaded or disappointed you feel in men, many men still cannot help but be inspired by vulnerable, feminine women.

It doesn’t always appear to be so common in today’s society where women are becoming more masculine and men are becoming more feminine.

(MORE: Read my article about What Is femininity?)

Even I have had a male friend who stood behind me in a challenging situation (long ago in my past), and I’m sure other women may have had this experience too.

I have female friends who have been forced to take charge of a threatening situation (such as a potential robbery) because the man was screaming and more afraid than she was.

These situations are unfortunate, but we can all attract the kind of chivalrous man that we want in to our lives. 

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Cultivate Feminine Beauty To Attract Masculine Men

No matter what you look like, if you can cultivate within yourself that rare feminine energy, it won’t be the answer to everything in love and dating, but you can give yourself a much better chance of forever being worshiped by a man.

You will make your man (and other men around you) feel more like men, make them happy, and give them the opportunity to thrive through your energy of love, devotion and the rainbow of emotions that you embody.

There really is nothing more beautiful than a woman who knows herself and is comfortable with herself. This includes being at home in her femininity.

Having said this, feminine beauty comes in many forms.

Tall, short, dark hair, light hair, dark skin, light skin, freckles or no freckles, dark eyes, light eyes, big-breasted or small breasted (yes it’s true, you don’t have to be big breasted to be beautiful!!), and of course you can find beautiful women in any continent or country in the world.

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What Is The Silent Killer Of Natural Feminine Beauty?

There is one hindrance to your feminine beauty (or your beauty altogether), and that is a lack of health. If you are unhealthy, or know there are habits you must curb in order to achieve your best beauty, then curb them!

Find the reason behind your unhealthy habits, find what deeper needs you are trying to meet by continuing these negative habits and meet those needs in other ways.

Radiating health = beauty.

Most women aren’t consciously aware of it (they’re more focused on makeup, nice shoes and lovely clothes), but the answer to real beauty and attractiveness is in your inner health.

Because with maximum health, you can reach your full potential. You can express the genes you were born with, and accomplish anything you wish to wish much more ease.

If you’re healthy, your skin will glow, your body will take care of you (when you take care of it), your hair will be strong and healthy, your nails will be strong, and you will achieve a good level of fitness much easier, and be happier too.

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The Media’s Image Of Feminine Beauty

As you and I both know, the media is constantly feeding us with images of what is “considered” to be beautiful women.

Yes, there are many beautiful famous women, but there is also a high level of interference with celebrities in photo shoots. You will be shocked to know how much photoshopping is done, and to what dangerous extent it is done.

There are still many women and young girls who will laugh this off, but the movie stars and models that you and I admire are just like you and I.

Without the makeup and glamour, and the help of modern technology, they have imperfections as well.

You and I may look at a picture of a famous model and think she is perfect, but look a little longer, whilst altering the mental angle through which you are looking at the picture, and you will see that they can be faulted, too, if we wanted to fault them.

Now, I’m not asking you to look for the imperfections in people normally, this would be silly!

I’m saying this because we all see something through a set of filters. If you look in the mirror and think you look horrible, it’s because you have that filter through which you see yourself.

Even if you have good and bad days (there are triggers for the bad days – you just don’t consciously know this yet). At the end of the day, you have to believe you are beautiful in order to radiate your true beauty.

Yes, Scarlet Johansson may seem perfect to some people, and the same goes with other celebrities such as Jessica Alba, Salma Hayek, Halle Berry or Reese Witherspoon.

The difference is that these celebrities have to take care of themselves. It’s a part of their job description.

This is why they excel at it, and the rest of us often ‘let it go’. Because our livelihoods do not depend on our image.

Unfortunately, most everyday women do not find enough reasons to STAY HEALTHY and to take care of themselves and take pride in their appearance.

If we all took so much care of ourselves, you will be surprised how much more radiance you can have. The little things such as:

  • Drinking too much coffee
  • Drinking too much alcohol
  • Eating too many processed vegetable fats
  • Eating sugary refined foods; and
  • Smoking

These habits all amount to a whole lot of health damage over time! Of course, health includes emotional, spiritual and physical health.

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The Mindset Behind Authentic Feminine Beauty

The true and correct mindset behind feminine beauty is this: knowing that your femininity exists no matter what, so you are and always will be beautiful!

Even if you have bad days.

Remember this:

The women in your life who you think are stunning – it may be a friend, colleague or relative, are not immune to doubts about their beauty. It’s really not ‘just you’.

So we really need to take care of our sisters. Even if you think a woman is confident and think she is the best, and you feel like ‘nothing’ compared to her, I promise you, she is not immune to feelings that she is not enough either.

We have all been subjected to pain in our lives, and all women have been subjected to reasons why they “shouldn’t feel” beautiful.

AND it doesn’t matter if she is what you consider to be ultimate beauty!

There is always a reference that says certain features that we have are not OK, or not beautiful enough. Or desirable enough. Or special enough. For example, the woman who has really long legs – it is likely that she is tall.

The flip side is, some people may consider this unattractive because a woman ought to be smaller and not taller than a man.

The same goes with a shorter girl; from one perspective, she is nice and curvy, and from someone else’s perspective, she may be ‘less’ because she is not tall, like models are.

You can bet the famous models have had these issues as well, perhaps while they were growing up, being so much taller than everyone else.

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What Is The Key To Feminine Beauty?

…Know that true beauty is in your imperfections & uniqueness.

Know that no one can ever be you.

Even if you have features that you don’t like, and even if you have ‘down’ days or ’emo’ days, you are still worthy, and you are still beautiful because feminine beauty isn’t perfect.

Remember: Men Don’t Fall In Love With Perfect Women.

Feminine beauty relies on your ability to radiate your unique personality and emotions regardless of how you feel.

Remember above how we established that feminine beauty is the quality of softness, vulnerability and the flow of feminine energy that runs through your body?

Well, none of this easy to control, and that’s why it’s beautiful. You can have a bad day and still be beautiful because you’re ‘at one’ with life and comfortable with your feminine vulnerability.

Beauty comes in many forms. It all depends where you focus. You could always find reasons to think this or that feature is ‘not beautiful’, but you could also find references to say they are beautiful.

To be a goddess and a beautiful feminine woman, you do not have to look like any particular kind of woman, you just have to look like you!

Goddess fabulousness comes with practice and an awareness of what true beauty is, so don’t run around trying to achieve a certain look.

Plus, there’s something not quite right about a woman who changes everything about her appearance. Natural is beautiful. It means you are happy with what you have been given.

And, some women think that their friends or other women around them seem to be more noticed by men, and that this must mean they are more beautiful. It may mean they are more attractive, but good news: you can control this!

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How To Exude Ultimate Feminine Beauty

In my own experience, when researching topics on what to write, I have spoken to many men about the importance of physical beauty in a relationship with a woman. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”)

So far, all of them say it is very important. However, although I know this about men and agree it is true, it is important to remember that men often see beauty not just as a purely physical package.

The PHYSICAL package comes down to what you project from the inside out. If Angelina Jolie or Halle Berry were dull and boring, do you think they would still be as alluring in their movie roles?

So, Here Are 7 Tips To Bring Out Your Feminine Beauty:

#1: Accentuate what you feel are your BEST characteristics.

  • If you love your tan, wear colors that contrast it really well (it draws men’s eyes). Pale colours work really well for tanned skin.
  • If you love your pale skin, wear bright and contrasting colours that bring out your pale skin. (Pale colours tend to not do your skin much justice, but I’m sure there are exceptions).
  • If you have gorgeous long hair, curl it! Curls are incredibly feminine (but be sure to use heat protector!)
  • If you love your eyes, find out what colors complement the color of your eyes (with this, you should wear eye shadow that complements your eye color and/or on the opposite of the color spectrum).

    For example if you have blue eyes, orange, warm pinks and purple work great, if you have brown eyes you can use pretty much any color, if you have green or hazel eyes, greens purples and browns are great.

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#2: Cultivate an innocence about you.

Innocence is very important for us women who want to become more feminine. Why? Because in today’s society where women are becoming more masculine and self-focused, women don’t have the innocence of a little girl anymore. Sure, you’re not 8 years old anymore, but you can still be playful and child-like!

Many women are complaining about how they’ve been ‘burnt’, and how they will never trust a man again. 

Not a good attitude to have; give the great men a chance! Innocence keeps things variety-filled interesting. He can then have more fun with you, like you were children, almost.

Playfulness is next to godliness. And playfulness is great for creating and maintaining fun, excitement and passion in your relationship. 

#3: Find reasons to be Grateful & happy.

That way, you’re endlessly great to be around; as you’re a positive influence just by enjoying yourself and your life!

Gratefulness is an emotional resource that you can use to help stave off depression, victim mentality, and negative thinking (which makes you a bummer to be in a relationship with).

Drawing on gratefulness as a resource makes you more high value as a woman, and therefore more exciting for a man to be around.

It’s a miracle that you are here, and every day people are experiencing miracles everywhere.

As you can see, I’ve included a few points on achieving beauty that are not purely physical like “wear make up”.

It’s nowhere near as important as who you really are inside, my lovely! You’ve heard it before, but it’s true. No particular ‘look’ gives you any ‘fascinating’ factor, or an added ‘seductive’ factor.

This is all energy you put out. And, for example, as much as many women think they want larger breasts, the fact is, cows have large breasts! If men just wanted breasts, they could go to a farm! It was my wonderful man who first confided in me about this 

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#4: Wear clothes that are feminine, but suit you personally. 

You don’t have to dress feminine for the sake of it, but rather, dress feminine because it makes you feel soft, beautiful and vulnerable.

You don’t have to “dress your age”.

Sure, a micro-mini skirt doesn’t look great on an 90 year old woman, but micro minis aren’t the greatest garment anyway.

You don’t want to reveal too much! If you’re 40 or 50, you can still wear gorgeous dresses a bit above the knee to show off your legs. It’s particularly great if you have a fit body.

Age is not a determiner of what you can and cannot wear. Don’t be influenced by these limitations put in place by OTHER women who feel unworthy deep down inside. They’re afraid of being judged, that’s all!

You can still wear florals, bright colors, girly dresses and heels at any age!

As long as you don’t act ‘old’. Acting old all the time is a bit boring for men. You may think they just prefer younger women.

No, men like youthful women. Hugh Jackman and Christian Bale are both examples of high value men married to women quite a bit older than them.

Not to mention the plethora of everyday men dating and marrying women older than them!

(Read my article about how other women reject their femininity)

#5: Accessorize well.

But I mean, don’t over do it. You don’t have to go for chunky jewelry or over-accessorizing.

Just stay true to what you like, you don’t need to follow the trends. You will blend in if you do!

If you don’t prefer high heels, you can choose a tiny kitten heel or a more comfortable wedge. You may not notice the difference it makes, but it does accentuate your feminine figure and your legs – even just slightly, with a tiny heel.

I also don’t prefer to see women/girls dressing in skimpy clothing.

Some women feel it’s fantastic because they get all this attention from men. Sure you do, but for all the wrong reasons! Remember, what is freely available does not equal to special!

Skimpy clothing has become a way for women to out-compete each other for cheap male attention. But you don’t need to do that, because that’s not the competition you’re trying to win!

You’re wanting to achieve real feminine beauty, not draw fleeting looks from desperate men who talk a good game but have no real interest in your soul!

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#6: wear natural make-up.

Makeup can be sued for two reasons:

  1. To Hide yourself; and
  2. To accentuate your features.

Most women wear makeup for the first reason. You don’t need to! Be happy with your features! Who you are under all. themakeup is ok.

The goal here is to accentuate your best features, rather than hide your features. This is also one of the pet hates of good men: they hate women hiding. They see it as cheating, dishonest and it reflects on a woman’s insecurity.

It’s ok to be ok with how you look without makeup. Simply wear it for fun, not as a necessity!

Also: make sure your foundation suits your skin color! Too many women make the mistake of wearing the wrong color! It looks a little strange, and does women no justice, does it?


Men love a woman who smiles. It indicates feminine warmth and .

So women who walk around looking unhealthy, tired and depressed aren’t going to be at their most attractive.

It’s all about the energy that you project. What you put out, you get back.

If you believe everyone is against you or out to get you, you’ll get a whole different energy back than if you believe that there is plenty of love and excitement in life! 

Have FUN! Enjoy yourself.

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If you want to be supported by a warm community of high value feminine women, then join our Facebook Group. (It’s free and so incredibly valuable!) CLICK HERE TO join thousands of other women in our “High Value Feminine Women” Community.

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