The Feminine Woman - Dating & Relationship Advice for Women

Jun 30

Can a BROKE or JOBLESS Man Still be High Value?

By Renee Wade | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 11 Comments

The more jaded and less innocent you are, in general, the more likely it is that you may laugh at the idea that a broke man could be high value. The less jaded you are, in general, the more likely you are to agree that it’s possible for a man to be broke, jobless and still be high value. Knowing that so many women have been stuck in bad relationships footing the bill for toxic and unambitious men, I don’t take this subject lightly. I know there are bad quality men out there with zero gumption or integrity, who don’t…

Jun 21

Is it Really “Feminine” to Receive? (And other crazy myths about masculine & feminine energy)

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love | 2 Comments

They may not say it outright, but it’s clear that a lot of ladies out there have a subconscious belief that in order to be “feminine”, they must ever initiate with a man, never get angry, never feel aggressive, or have any kind of seemingly unacceptable or unpleasant energy, lest that come across as “masculine”. Instead, feminine energy is mistakenly assumed by a lot of women to be always warm, soft and passive. It’s supposed to “receive” from men, rather than “give”, because giving is what the masculine is all about. That’s just not true. First of all, giving and…

May 19

How to be Vulnerable Without Being Needy

By Renee Wade | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 2 Comments

How does one show vulnerability without crossing over into needy territory? I’m not meaning to be flippant, but the short answer to that question is BE vulnerable. Let me share an example with you. Imagine a homeless man. He’s all alone in the street, without food, water, shelter and human companionship. He sleeps on the park bench during freezing winter nights and his mental health is all but ruined. Imagine him feeling the plight of his situation. He sinks into a despair so great that he cannot hold back his emotion. So he starts to really feel his sorrow and…

May 08

3 Reasons why it is High Value For Women To OFFER To Pay On the First Date

By Renee Wade | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 9 Comments

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking I’ve lost the plot. Maybe you’re thinking I’m anti-woman or that I don’t want the best for my fellow sisters out there. Nope. How could I suggest something so absurd? Good question! Because I’ve learned through painful experience that if you want to invest in the right people (or the right man) it’s important to think outside the box. Over the years I’ve realised that there is something very intelligent about offering to pay on the first date. No, I’m not suggesting that you become a provider. I am not suggesting that…

May 01

Should A Man Provide for A Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK?

By Renee Wade | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 24 Comments

Should the Man Provide for a Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK? This question, or some variation of it, keeps circulating in my facebook group for High Value Feminine Women. Due to the fact that this question produces polarising discussion, there’s always a small number of women who inevitably insult other women for having 50/50 relationships. I understand. Some women have been through the wringer with the wrong kinds of men, and after having these experiences, they assume that because their ex boyfriend who asked for 50/50 used and abused them, that the problem is the 50/50 setup, and that…

Apr 07

Women Who Date for Resources VS Women Who Date for True Love

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 14 Comments

Are you searching for true love, or are you searching for resources? There’s a huge difference between a woman who is searching for true love, versus a woman who is searching for resources. Why? Because there’s an enormous difference in the type of man these two types of women would attract. There’s also a difference in the amount of fulfilment, power and success they would both feel with men and dating. Of course, true love is a resource in and of itself. However, when you’re searching for true love, by default you actually ADD value; you give value and resources,…

Jan 24

8 Shocking Reasons Why Rotational Dating Can Be Low Value

By Renee Wade | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 16 Comments

Over the last 10 years, rotational dating theory or circular dating has become the stock standard advice given to women. “Date more men!” “Build your man funnel!” “Get more men in your rotation!”, they say. It’s coming up to 10 years I’ve been doing this work with women in all parts of the world, and in that time I’ve also come to notice some patterns. Which means I have noticed that in the world of relationship and dating advice, the advice generally falls into two opposing categories. These two opposing categories come down to: 1: Advice designed to make you…