The 4 Qualities Of A Feminine Goddess

Want to know how to be a goddess? The differences between a feminine goddess and an ordinary woman who doesn’t stand out, are:

  • Her mindset
  • Her values
  • And the value she adds to the people she cares about.

And how she shows these differences is through four areas of ‘practise’ (which we will discuss below).

But for now, let us quickly establish what a goddess actually is.

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How To Be A Feminine Goddess

What Is A Feminine Goddess?

Here’s the definition of a goddess:

A female God or Deity. A woman of extraordinary beauty and charm. A greatly admired or adored woman.

From this definition, we can gather that what makes a woman a goddess is a woman who adds real value to people’s lives, and she is also someone whom others look up to.

So how to be a goddess? There are four aspects…

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How To Be A Goddess: 4 Main Aspects

There are four main aspects of what makes a woman a goddess.

  1. Leadership
  2. Feminine energy.
  3. Presence
  4. Charisma

Let’s take a look at what these 4 aspects of ‘how to be a goddess’ are now, shall we?

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#1: Leadership

No woman can ever truly be a goddess without being a leader. What this means is that you can’t be arrested by peer pressure or “groupthink” and still be considered a goddess.


Because a goddess isn’t an ordinary woman, as we established above already. Simply put, a goddess needs to have her own direction and her own internal compass.

No woman can be a goddess if she doesn’t have deep connection to her own gut feelings, intuition and internal compass.

Because often in life, people will lead you to places that aren’t good. Whether that be encouraging you to make bad health decisions, bringing you down to their level, or just wanting you to ‘conform’ for no reason other than for the sake of fitting in.

You have to pave your own way, because this is the only way to be extraordinary, but also live an extraordinary life.

A goddess (going by the definition above), is someone who is greatly admired, among other things.

If you are going to be greatly admired, then you will need to have courage. And courage comes through raking responsibility for your decisions and your life path.

When you lead the way, you are showing others the courage that also exists inside of them, all by example.

You must lead people into higher good. You cannot be a follower.

I don’t mean you should go out and start manipulating people. I mean that you should be absolutely untouchable in your personal conviction. If you believe in something and you know it to be right, you need to stand up for it.

“If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything.” – Malcolm X.

It doesn’t matter whether you are religious or not, you can still care about more than yourself, still choose to listen to your intuition, and you can still stand for what is right.

If you do this through thick and thin, your energy will contribute to nurturing others, making people smarter, happier, more aware and you’ll just make the world a better place. 

Whatever you believe in, you don’t have to force it upon people to lead them. You just have to have people’s best interests at heart.

You can achieve that if you discover what is possible by giving, rather than holding back.

The majority of the people you meet in your life will have low standards for themselves.

To be a leader, you must have the highest standards for yourself. You must not settle for anything less than you can be, do or become.

You can be a leader and still be a feminine woman. Leadership doesn’t mean being masculine all the time, leadership simply means you:

  • Believe when everyone else doubts.
  • Inspire people.
  • Lead rather than follow.
  • Become an example of what is good, do good and don’t exude negative energy.
  • Care for others when no-one else will.
  • Never ever give up.
  • Follow your dreams with absolute conviction.
  • Love even when people don’t deserve it.
  • Give without expecting anything back.
  • Seek understanding rather than resorting to quick, easy and subjective conclusions.
  • Teach others what you know, and add value even when you feel they are in ‘competition’, and even when you are afraid. Give others access to the resources that you have.
  • Never settle for anything less than you can be.
  • Give and do more than anyone else can possibly do expect of you!

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#2: Feminine Energy

Your looks fade. All our looks fade, no matter how beautiful we are. So the first way to show feminine energy is through how you show up.

The second way to give off feminine energy is through your feminine appearance, but it is not on par with the first way. It is a secondary consideration, because anyone can dress feminine and lovely, but often the well dressed women are not the most feminine goddesses.

Just like how the most masculine looking men on the outside (tall and/or imposing/ good muscle tone, macho gait, etc), aren’t always the most high achieving, high value men.

Bottom line:

Both matter, but prioritise cultivating deep feminine energy within your body and soul first.

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How To Be More Feminine from the Inside:

  • Focus on allowing yourself to feel. Thinking is important too, but it’s often just a way to avoid feeling.
  • Notice the pleasure and pain in your body and show it.
  • Practise free (non choreographed) dance in your own home, to different types of music.
  • Relinquish your rules. Rules will ruin your feminine energy.
  • Do everything with grace and passion! If you’re dull, unemotional and invulnerable, it cancels out any other efforts you make!

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And now on to the second part, your feminine appearance:

How To Be More Feminine From The OUTSIDE

This is all about the outer appearance that makes you more feminine. Here’s how to accomplish a goddess-like image from the outside…

  • Pay attention to your hair. I can’t stress enough how much a strong mane of hair helps. It needs to be healthy and well taken care of. (If you have curly hair, that’s perfect! Health is everything and it shows through your skin and hair the fastest). Feminine women do not find taking care of their hair a chore. They revel in the femininity and beauty that their hair gives them.
    Brush your hair regularly and condition it. See this post for more information on conditioning your hair.
  • Taking really good care of your skin. Drinking lots and lots of water. If you’re thirsty, you’re already dehydrated. Drink water regularly and avoid getting dehydrated. This will help you flush out any unwanted toxins in your body and keep your body clean.
  • Most real men are attracted to the presence in a woman’s eyes and her smile. Use these to your advantage!
  • Wearing a nice lipstick helps. Nude colors are great, as they look natural and makes you look even more alluring and mysterious because it doesn’t seem like you’re wearing any lipstick.

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#3: Presence

Having presence means your energy is noticeable. It means that when you are with people, especially your man, you put your whole heart and soul in to being with them.

Many of us, due to stress or just due to an inability to offer ourselves emotionally, try to look like we’re present and listening, but then we just look in to space. So be 110% present.

What is presence?

Well it’s really simple.

You offer yourself instead of trying to escape emotionally or push people away. It’s something you give.

Presence also means that you can command people’s attention without being boisterous or obnoxious. It means people will turn their heads and listen to you. Not because you’re odd, or offensive, but because you’re amazing.

#4: Feminine Charisma

Charisma is a personal quality or spiritual power that gives you influence over others.

Having charisma means that it doesn’t matter what happens to you, or what’s going on in your life, or how easy it is to give up on things, etc, there is always something more inside of you.

How do you show charisma?

Well, consider charisma to be a spiritual quality in your personality. A spiritual quality centred around empathising with others, understanding other people’s pain, and having compassion.

The spirit is a vital part of having presence and charisma. The spirit is the part of you that is present, but cannot be seen.

The spirit represents consciousness, and your spirit transcends any physical beauty and lasts for much longer than you can live. You can wow any audience, and you can wow any man with your charisma, or spiritual quality.

Let’s face it, physical beauty fades. Your spirit will not. It doesn’t matter what happens to you on the outside, no-one can take away what you embody in your heart and soul.

Yes, physical beauty has its value as all young women know, but only so much.

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What Makes A Woman A goddess?

Simply put, it’s who she is and it’s how she shows up, as well as the value she has to add to others.

So on your journey to learning how to be a goddess, remember that this is all about becoming more self-aware.

You’re not being fake or manipulative. You’re bringing out more of yourself and you’re learning to show the traits of a high value, feminine goddess.

A truly feminine woman has un-shakeable confidence and knows that there is more to her than what is visible.

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