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There are 3 main aspects of a Goddess:

1. Leadership

2. Feminine appearance

3. Presence and Charisma

The Definition of a Goddess: A female God or Deity. A woman of extraordinary beauty and charm. A greatly admired or adored woman.

1) Leadership

No woman can ever truly be a Goddess without being a leader. You must lead people into higher good. You cannot be a follower. I don’t mean manipulating people. I mean being absolutely untouchable in your personal conviction. It doesn’t matter whether you are religious or not, you can make people happier, and make the world a better place. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”)

Whatever you believe in, you don’t have to force it upon people to lead them. You just have to have everybody’s best interests at heart. Discover what is possible by giving, rather than holding back. You do not need to ‘compete’ with people, or judge them.

If you didn’t know this before, know it now. The majority of the people you meet in your life will have low standards for themselves. To be a leader, you must have the highest standards for yourself. You must not settle for anything less than you can be, do or become. You can be a leader and still be a feminine woman. Leadership doesn’t mean being masculine, leadership simply means you:

Believe when everyone else doubts.

Inspire people.

Lead rather than follow.

Become an example of what is good, do good and don’t exude negative energy.

Care for others when no-one else will.

Never ever give up.

Follow your dreams with absolute conviction.

Love even when people don’t deserve it.

Give without expecting anything back.

Seek understanding rather than resorting to quick, easy and subjective conclusions.

Teach others what you know, and add value even when you feel they are in ‘competition’, and even when you are afraid. Give others access to the resources that you have.

Never settle for anything less than you can be.

Give and do more than anyone else can possibly do expect of you!

2) Feminine Appearance

This is all about the outer appearance that makes you more feminine.

– I can’t stress enough how much a strong mane of hair helps. It needs to be healthy and well taken care of. (If you have curly hair, that’s perfect! Health is everything and it shows through your skin and hair the fastest). Feminine women do not find taking care of their hair a chore. They revel in the femininity and beauty that their hair gives them. Brush your hair regularly and condition it. See this post for more information on conditioning your hair.

– Taking really good care of your skin. Drinking lots and lots of water. If you’re thirsty, you’re already dehydrated. Drink water regularly and avoid getting dehydrated. This will help you flush out any unwanted toxins in your body and keep your body clean.

– Most real men are attracted to a woman’s eyes and her smile. Use these!

– Wearing a nice lipstick helps. Nude colors are great, as they look natural and makes you look even more alluring and mysterious because it doesn’t seem like you’re wearing any lipstick.

– Do everything with grace and passion! If you’re dull, it cancels out any other efforts you make!

3) Presence and Charisma

Having presence means your energy is noticeable. It means that when you are with people, especially your man, you put your whole heart and soul in to being with them. Not that you try to look like you’re listening and then look in to space – but be 110% present.

Presence also means that you can command people’s attention without being boisterous or obnoxious. It means people will turn their heads and listen to you. Not because you’re odd, or offensive, but because you’re amazing 😉

What is the ONE thing you can say to ANY man that will capture his attention, trigger his curiosity and make him hang onto every word you say! Click here to find out right now…

Charisma is a personal quality or spiritual power that gives you influence over others. It doesn’t matter what happens to you, or what’s going on in your life, or how easy it is to give up on things, etc, there is always something more inside of you. A spiritual quality in your personality that understands people’s pain, and that has compassion.

The spirit is a vital part of having presence and charisma. The spirit is the part of you that is present, but cannot be seen. The spirit represents consciousness, and your spirit transcends any physical beauty and lasts for much longer than you can live. You can wow any audience, and you can wow any man with your charisma, or spiritual quality.

Let’s face it, physical beauty fades. Your spirit will not. It doesn’t matter what happens to you on the outside, no-one can take away what you embody in your heart and soul. Yes, physical beauty has it’s value, but only so much. A woman can grow her hair long, and do everything that makes her look feminine regardless of the placement of her  physical facial features! (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”)

Remember that this is all about becoming more self-aware. You’re not being fake, manipulative or ‘not yourself’. You’re bringing out more of yourself. A truly feminine woman has un-shakeable confidence and knows that there is more to her than what is visible. Femininity starts from within. 🙂 (read my article about how to be feminine)

If you haven’t downloaded the “Goddess Report”, click here to get it for free.

You are a goddess and you can attract any man, but what triggers attraction? Click here to find out the 17 Attraction Triggers and get him hooked.

By the way, I’ve just published my brand new DVD titled “Becoming His One & Only!”… and right now it’s FREE for you to get a copy. Click HERE to find out more details and how you can get your man to fall deeper in love with you and beg you to be his one and only. 

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Happened to come across this article and could not look away. I am in a very deep rut right now, so getting to this level won’t be easy. But, these are qualifications I can strive for. Thank you! Very powerful words, I would love to keep following you 🙂

Veronica Mertel
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Veronica Mertel

Thanks Renee!

Super Janice
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Super Janice

How can I know whether I’m feminine or not?

Najat
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Najat

I am a little sad about my hair and sad about thinking like this… My hair is so tightly curly and shrinks and even though i take good care of it and live healthy it doesn’t get past a few inches under my shoulders stretched out, when it shrinks it’s over my shoulders. I just want flowing curls/waves that run down my back.. But it’s a two hour job to flat iron my hair and I don’t think extensions are really feminine, i just think about when your man is running his hand through your hair and feels the extensions,… Read more »

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Jennifer Schonberg

hi rennee
I am a male but for a long time been into understanding femininity and by gods grace been blessed with a uberfeminine goddess for my wife. Being an astrologer i am curious about sun sign, kindly let me know.

Donna
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Really loved this article! Think the advice is amazingly good! Thank you for sharing! x

keith
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keith

I looked under your heading “who is Renee” but no answer? who are you? and whats your back ground? do you have kind of qualifications? What makes you the person who can advise or is this reading dribble?

Cherry
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Cherry

Hi Rene,

Beautiful article! You gave me lots of inspirations!

Nina
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Nina

Hey Renee,
I’d be very curious to know, did you or other women from here noticed a change in their physical body after really changing from the inside and beeing more feminine ? I believe that it can heal a lot of things on the external level as well if we take on the responsibility to change ourselves. Maybe it could have an impact on the hormones balance, on the skin…? Did anyone experienced that?

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Anais

Reading this validates what I already knew. I’ve recently realized I have zero charisma and all the women I know in healthy relationships have tons of charisma, charm and playfulness. So the men never get tired of them and will adore them forever, and they always have an easy time finding a good man. Whenever I attempt such things it comes off awkward and unnatural. I get a feeling it turns men off and makes them judge me thinking I’m awkward and they see there’s something wrong with me. It’s no wonder I can’t attract any good men for a… Read more »

Riv
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Riv

Aww, hon, I don’t believe this for a second. I’m sorry you feel this way, and I used to feel the same. I was hard, cold, and very cerebral (in reality, just completely terrified of rejection). When I was growing up, when I was validated and loved, it was based on my brain, scathing wit, and future career paths — most involving the title “Dr.” I was never validated on beauty of heart, kindness, or anything energetic or feminine. Thus I grew up thinking that I was only good for my brain. Sometimes I actually wondered (really!!) if I was… Read more »

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Joan

I absolutely love your post. I was looking up confidence today, and this really hit home. It made it easy I was struggling. I’m trying to be a leader but I always feel out of place. So I guess I have to stop trying.

It wasn’t just what you were saying but I can tell you are passionate about it. I’m writing this down in my little book that I take with me everywhere. If you don’t mind of course.

Thank you Riv

Marianne
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Marianne

Renee…I love your articles and have found them to be so helpful in discovering the sheer joy of living and loving my authentic feminine self. I do take issue with articles on having long hair. Oh how I would love that. But as a recent breast cancer survivor, with my hair finally growing back in, it is difficult to feel.feminine every time i see my reflection. And then to read such emphasis on long luxurious hair as being a staple for femininity…it makes me so sad. Can a woman not still be sexy and desirable without a long mane? I… Read more »

Leigh
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Leigh

Marianne, your inner strength MORE than makes up for the lack of long hair. 🙂
Congratulations on surviving the battle.

And yes, you can be such a sexy beast with the shortest of hair. I know many women that have short hairstyles that are absolutely foxy.

I think the most attractive thing is a woman that isnt afraid of who and what she is. Wear your scars with pride. Speak to people, strangers, friends (anyone who wants to listen!) about your experience with vitality, tenderness, vulnerability and strength.

With love
Leigh

Somebody
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Somebody

Yes, you CAN have short hair and still look externally feminine. For example, I had a female school teacher with short hair, but she’s VERY feminine. How? Wear skirts and/or dresses, earrings, a necklace, bracelet(s), and some foundation and eyeliner. This person in particular almost always wears floral motifs too.

But only take my advice if you REALLY care about your external appearance, because your internal femininity is WAYYY more important.

Sarah
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I found your blog posts today and I love them! As a woman coming into her feminine power, beauty and grace, it’s amazing reading a blog that feels written with feminine love 🙂

Donetta
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Donetta

I have learned a lot about how men work and think by reading a lot of these articles on the feminine woman page. I appreciate the information; it really helps to add comfort and enjoyment in my relationship with my man.

Joy
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Joy

Hi that is exactly how I feel! All your tips are spot on, x love and peace. Joy x

Sally
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Hi! My name is Sally. I always get your e-mails but I have not responded or left a comment yet. I am slowly learning to accept that I am vulnerable, that I don’t have to be able to do everything, that I should ask for help when I need it. Reading your blogs help me become more open, I am still understanding what feminine energy is. I really want to become interconnected to that feminine energy to attract the masculine energy and have a long term relationship. I am really trying now. Thank-you for writing. Looking forward to more of… Read more »

Pris
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Pris

I’m really loving your blog, Renee! 🙂

Besides helping me to understand men better, it also inspires me to be a better self.
I love to read inspiring and motivational books, and really find myself enriched loads.

What you said is absolutely true, although physical looks are impt, the inner self is what makes someone really beautiful and this is the beauty that last for decades.

I’m working towards it… ^^ Thank you so much!

Andrew Sindler
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Andrew Sindler

I decided that the grammar and spelling in my previous post left the message too incoherent to clearly understand in a quick manner and so I am posting an edited version. This is a incredibly sexist approach to teaching self-improvement. A human cannot be a God/Godess. So that would imply that you must be using the term with some level irony. The only problem is you are not using it ironically. You are using the word Goddess as if it were a given and an attainable status to reach for. This is like calling Bill Clinton or Warren Buffett or… Read more »

Somebody
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Somebody

And you can’t even spell “Goddess” correctly. It has 2 “d”s, not just one.

Andrew Sindler
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Andrew Sindler

Please ignore the unusual level of typos in my post. I mean premise rather than “presence”. “Being” should not have been in the second to last sentence.

Andrew Sindler
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Andrew Sindler

This is an incredibly sexist approach to teaching self-improvement. A human cannot be a God/Godess. So that would imply that you must be using the term with some level irony. The only problem is you are not using it ironically. You are using the word Goddess as if it were a given and an attainable status to be reached. This is like calling Bill Clinton or Warren Buffett or Bill Gates Gods and instructing men to learn from their example and they too can be Gods. The underlying presence that being attaining desired human qualities a woman can attain god-like… Read more »

rania
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rania

hi! I read your newsletter with joy everytime.i like the way you see things. You are different from other sites. But what i dont like about your perspective is that you seem to ignore the fact that there are some very bad men out there and no matter how you keep control over yourself and how charming you are, your techniques will fail if the man is psycho and immature. No?!

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