Like many women, you’re probably wondering about what light and dark feminine energy is.
As mentioned in my earlier article on The dark Side of Femininity, feminine energy has both a dark and a light dimension.
This means that if you want to give off feminine energy or become more feminine, the first thing you need to understand is that it’s not one-dimensional.
Because when most people think of feminine energy, other than floral dresses and makeup, they think of a woman who emanates:
- Warmth
- Sweetness
- Delicateness
- Softness
- Sensuality
But honestly?
That’s not all there is to authentic femininity.
The majority of us are aware of what the light feminine is – it has been well talked about, nurtured and praised by society as well as in books.
Many people are expressing that they are confused as to what dark femininity is, how to embody it and why it is so crucial for women to embrace their dark side. I also talk extensively about dark vs light feminine energy in my program “Attraction Control Monthly”.
But let’s talk more about what dark and light feminine energy actually is.
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What Is Dark Feminine & What Is Light Feminine?
The first thing to understand is that your dark feminine side is not really encouraged by society (and there are sound justifications for this).
With this in mind, I thought it would be good to divulge a bit about what dark femininity is, and see if you can resonate with it.
Instead of discussing pure theories, I wanted to just give you a quick visual example of each, so that you can get a bit of a feel for what both the light and the dark feminine really are.
There are traits that are typical of the dark feminine energy, and traits that are typical of the light feminine energy.
Let’s look at these traits now. So here we go…
For the light feminine, the example I’m going to use is Drew Barrymore in the movie, The Wedding Singer. Here is a quick video of her:
Three Traits that are Common To The Light Feminine:
- Angelic
- Conservative
- Feels love
For the Dark Feminine, the example I’m going to use is British actress Liz Hurley. Here is a quick video of her…..
three traits that are common to the dark feminine:
- Devilish
- Liberal
- Plays with Desire
Still wondering about light vs dark feminine?
One of the major differences lies in the value systems of both the light feminine spirit and dark feminine spirit.
Dark Vs Light Feminine
Quick Question: When watching the above videos, can you notice the differences between the light and the dark feminine?
It’s really not just about sex or at all about your physical looks, as many people might think.
It’s about how comfortable you are expressing and embodying the parts of you that other people typically want to suppress in themselves for the sake of staying safe and gaining approval.
Light And Dark Feminine Energy: How To Embody Both
If you want to be dark feminine, here’s what you need to focus on:
Screw what people think.
If you want to be light feminine, here’s what you need to do:
Do the right thing.
And if you want to learn more about how to embody your dark feminine, I recommend you use the dark feminine art of high value banter to create emotional attraction and emotional connection with men.
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Light and dark also exists in the masculine energy. Out of curiosity, some men love to fight. Is this light or dark masculine, what do you think?
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