Article updated 2018
Your Ideal Relationship: Creating Lasting Love, Passion
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – RUMI
Hi there lovely! Welcome back, and remember to stay feminine, fun and free!
One of the best things about being in, or having an intimate relationship is that it intensifies emotion. This, of course, is also what makes relationships so potentially painful. But, the purpose of a relationships is to magnify our emotions.
It is in our intimate relationships that we will encounter and experience the most fear. Fear of not being enough, fear of being left, fear of not being able to fulfill your partner’s needs as much as somebody else could, fear of being judged, fear of betrayal, fear of uncertainty, etc. And for men, there are just as many challenges as there are for women. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”)
We all have experienced these fears at some point, and usually, fear will stay with us, but we can work with that fear. Fear can be good sometimes, as it is there to protect us, naturally. However, more often than not fear gets in the way of a passionate and long-lasting intimate relationship. As you already know, the divorce rate is very high nowadays, and I don’t want You to be in that part of the statistics. (read my article about how to deal with fear of being alone)
Much like what I discussed in my previous post ‘what is love? Giving Love to a Man’, this post will delve in to your responsibilities in a relationship. Of course, one of the best things you can do for your intimate relationship is to take responsibility – rather than point the finger.
Part of taking responsibility is to get excited about fulfilling your man’s needs. In my last post, I talked about the 6 human needs. If you want to, use those as a guide to thinking about this, but otherwise if you don’t want to, just think about what your partner really needs, and fulfill them!
Make it a must to fulfill his needs in a variety of ways as well. His needs entail things like his fears, desires, rules, beliefs, etc. Once you understand how he works, and what makes him tick, you will make it easier for yourself to know how to fulfill his needs. The best thing about this is that he won’t know what him him! He’ll be over the moon that his woman understands him so well! And most of all, makes him happy 🙂
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Become devoted to fulfilling his needs, and discovering new and better ways to meet his needs. Then, you would have created a raving fan of him! Also, once you get in touch with your core femininity, and feel free to express it to the fullest, you will be the yin to his yang. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”)
This is really about giving. Giving beyond yourself. A lot of women (and men) who say they choose to be single, or cannot commit to someone, have trouble doing this. They won’t get beyond their own fears! If you want the fairytale, you will need to do this 🙂 and best of all, when you can master fulfilling his needs, not only are you incredibly happy in your relationship, but you become an example to others! You will give off a wonderful energy, and other couples will want to be like you. Your children and their children will smile as they recall how in love you and your man were. Love is eternal. Even if you can create it just in your relationship, the vibes will flow and other people will pick up on that. (read my article about how to be submissive for love)
It’s rare these days for children to have two parents who are still together, let alone having parents who are still together, and passionately in love and happy!
Most people want to feel loved. And want to be in love. The only problem is, not everyone wants to work for it (which you will need to do in a long-term relationship). It’s like women (and men) who say they want to achieve a nice, healthy and fit body. But they don’t want to exercise.
I know that you have very high standards for yourself, and you’re a generous person who wants to give, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this! Whoever your man is, he is very lucky! And if you don’t have one yet, you’re about to make one very happy man! 🙂
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