Ah, the elusive Knight in shining armour. I’m sure we’ve all heard of this saying and I for one, have heard a lot of women talk about finding their knight in shining armour.
Or waiting for a man to come and ‘sweep’ them off their feet, and take them to a magical place.
It’s a lovely image, isn’t it? To be the woman being protected, taken care of and loved devotedly by the knight, or swept up in to the arms of the ‘perfect’ man.
Well, I have news for you, lovely.
You CAN Have A Knight In Shining Armour
You CAN have this for yourself. It is possible, plenty of women have had this before, and you can have it, too!
The only thing is – there are few keys you need to possess before unlocking the door to this magical experience!
Firstly – scrap the ‘waiting’ for your ‘one’, or your ‘knight’. Waiting will get you nowhere in life.
Luckily for you, I’m going to give you a key – a well kept secret that the women you envy; the ones with the most passionate, loving, devoted boyfriends or husbands already know, whether consciously or subconsciously.
(By the way, I’m not talking about the men who are ‘whipped’ or answer to their girlfriend or wife’s every demand, and are, in effect a little afraid of their woman).
I’m talking about a genuinely caring, strong and devoted man who takes great care of his woman.
The secret or key, is a simple piece of knowledge.
To ATTRACT the kind of man you want, you need THIS
You need to BECOME the kind of person you want to attract in your relationship.
By this I mean you need to become the kind of woman that this kind of man craves to be with!
A strong man who is driven, successful, ambitious, loving, caring, compassionate, fit, healthy, truly masculine and real is not going to want to devote his life to a woman or girl who is simply waiting to absorb what he has to offer.
Most of us know a lot about what we want in a man, yet know little about what he wants in us. In fact, I’d suggest that most women are a bit afraid of confronting this reality.
“What if I don’t have what men want?”
“Shouldn’t HE do what it takes to have ME? I’m the woman, after all, and he’s the man!”
All the while she is sitting in front of the TV with some comfort food instead of thinking about adding more VALUE to the life of others.
In other words, holding herself to the highest standard. Now I’m not saying you sit in front of the couch with comfort food, that was purely for illustration purposes.
What It Takes to ‘OWN’ A Knight In Shining Armour
To own and keep that truly masculine kind of man who all women want to be with is really not easy, but once you ‘get’ the concept of value, it’s not too hard either.
The good news is though, that once you start practicing the techniques that I will be showing you, it can become a habit, and it will get easier and easier.
Then before you know it, you’ll be the envy of every woman.
So, what about some small action steps?
But I am saying that we need to know just as much about how to add value to a man as we do about how to take value.
MORE: 3 Undercover Ways To Be More High Value Over Other Women & Make Him Want YOU.
How To Build Your Value & Keep A Good Man
Here are some of the exercises I want you to do in order to build your value as a woman.
- In the next week or so, I want you to think about whether there are any women out there who are already with the kind of man you would love to be with.
- Then, I want you to think about whether there are any men or women who are in the kind of relationship that you want to be in.
- Then, I’d like you to gently approach these people and find out more about their journey in finding their one. So, here are the questions you can ask them:
(to the man):
“What makes you so devoted to her?”
“What do you love about her?”
“What makes you so passionate about her, or what makes your relationship so passionate/loving?”
Then, to the woman, you could ask the same thing, expect of course, replacing the ‘her’ with ‘him’.
Please do note though, that you might very well get more out of the woman than the man in many cases, because men aren’t always very good at articulating their heart’s desires.
Because men usually have no clue what they want consciously, as they respond to how a woman shows up. So they make their decisions about devoting themselves to the woman based on how she makes them feel.
If you find a man who can articulate why he loves his woman so much, and what made him devote himself to her, then consider that a win!
So, go on, do your own case study or two. It is fun and intriguing, and might very well inspire you to model more of the traits in the woman you speak to.
After all, it’s great to have something to be inspired by.
Also, if you haven’t taken my How Feminine Am I quiz, you should! It’s fun!
And do you want to know what naturally attracts a man? Click here to learn the 17 Attraction Triggers
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Renee is the founder of The Feminine Woman & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. Together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog, they have positively influenced the lives of over 15 million women through their free articles and videos as well as 10’s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
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