Article updated 2018
Ah, the elusive Knight in shining armour. I’m sure we’ve all heard of this saying and I for one, have heard a lot of women talk about finding their knight in shining armour. Or waiting for a man to come and ‘sweep’ them off their feet, and take them to a magical place. It’s a lovely image, isn’t it? To be the woman being protected, taken care of and loved devotedly by the knight, or swept up in to the arms of the ‘perfect’ man, whatever he might be like 😉
I have news for you, lovely.
You CAN have this for yourself. It is possible, women have had this before, and you can have it, too! The only thing is – there are few keys you need to possess before unlocking the door to this magical experience! (read my article about what’s keeping you single)
Firstly – scrap the ‘waiting’ for your ‘one’, or your ‘knight’. Waiting will get you nowhere in life. Luckily for you, I’m going to give you a key – a well kept secret that the women you envy; the ones with the most passionate, loving, devoted boyfriends or husbands already know, whether consciously or subconsciously. (By the way, I’m not talking about the men who are ‘whipped’ or answer to their girlfriend or wife’s every demand, and are, in effect a little afraid of their woman). I’m talking about a genuinely caring, strong and devoted man who takes great care of his woman. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”)
The secret or key, is a simple piece of knowledge.
To ATTRACT the kind of man you want, you need to BECOME the kind of person you want to attract in your relationship.
By this I mean you need to become the kind of woman this kind of man craves to be with! A strong man who is driven, successful, ambitious, loving, caring, compassionate, fit, healthy, truly masculine and real is not going to want to devote his life to a woman or girl who is simply waiting for what he has to offer, all the while sitting in front of the TV with some comfort food instead of taking a good look at herself and thinking about adding more VALUE to the life of others, and consciously giving more and more every day.
In other words, holding herself to the highest standard. Now I’m not saying you sit in front of the couch with comfort food, that was purely for illustration purposes.
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To own and keep that truly masculine kind of man who all women want to be with is really not easy. The good news is though, that once you start practicing the techniques that I will be showing you, it can become a habit, and it will get easier and easier.
Then before you know it, you’ll be the envy of every woman 🙂
So, what about some small action steps? These are exciting.
In the next week or so, I want you to think about whether there are any women out there who are already with the kind of man you would love to be with. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”)
I also want you to think about whether there are any men or women who are in the kind of relationship that you want to be in (be careful here, what you think you want may not be what you really want, so consider this carefully in your own time).
Then, I’d like you to approach these people, both the man and the woman, and find out more about their journey in finding their one. So, you could consider questions like:
(to the man):
“What makes you so devoted to her?”
“What do you love about her?”
“What makes you so passionate about her, or what makes your relationship so passionate/loving?”
Then, to the woman, you could ask the same thing, expect of course, replacing the ‘her’ with ‘him’ 🙂
Please do note though, that you might very well get more out of the woman than the man in some cases, as men are not as vocal about these things as women are.
I assure you though that he DOES have feelings, and even if you cannot get much out of him verbally, just watch him carefully and take note of the way he responds to your questions and his facial expressions when you are talking about his girl. You could really learn A LOT!!
So, go on, do a case study or two (or three). It is fun and will be intriguing, and might very well inspire you to model more of the traits in the woman you speak to 🙂 after all, it’s great to have something to go by!
Also, if you haven’t taken my How Feminine Am I quiz, please do try! It’s fun!
And do you want to know what naturally attracts a man? Click here to learn the 17 Attraction Triggers
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Renee is the founder of The Feminine Woman & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. Together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog, they have positively influenced the lives of over 15 million women through their free articles and videos as well as 10’s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
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