If you want to have men attracted to you and committed to you in the long run, then you have to become more than just a one dimensional woman.
What is a one dimensional person?
A one dimensional person is someone who makes certain parts of themselves wrong, or ‘unworthy’.
Similarly, a one dimensional person is someone who uses up so much of their available energy on one domain that they can’t be the full range of personalities inside of them.
A common way that one dimensional people use up their energy is through worry and anxiety.
They spend so much of their excess energy on anxiety that they lose other, super important parts of their personality, like:
- Their dark side.
- Their playful side.
- Their wild side.
- Their vulnerable side.
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Indeed, You Have To Become “Multi-Dimensional”.
If you want to lose commitment from a man, and lose the passion and attraction he feels for you, then the quickest way to do is, is being one dimensional.
In other words, be “boring”.
One of the biggest mistakes many women (and men) make in their relationship is to be continually showing up as one kind of person.
Or being the same person over and over.
This is kind of like the nice guy who is always just nice, or the kind and caring woman who is always just kind and caring.
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Bring A Fresh ‘Flavour’ (Energy) To Your Relationship
How would you feel if you were to eat the same food every single day for the rest of your life?
How would you feel if you were going to be confined to only one location for the rest of your life?
My point? It’s that we all need variety. The human body needs variety.
We get sick of what is always familiar and available to us.
This is so important in an intimate relationship… let me explain why.
If you’re always showing up to be “one type” of person…whatever that type may be, then you’ll get boring eventually.
It’s what I call…being “one dimensional”.
People who are one dimensional can’t see life from another angle. They’re stuck in their own limited idea of their own identity.
This is very restrictive and unhealthy for their own soul, not to mention for their partner.
Simply put:
The more connected you are to different parts of yourself, the less you dissociate from parts of yourself that you deem “undesirable” or worthy of judgement, the less value you’ll have to give.
Every high value woman can connect with her man and with people on multiple levels or dimensions.
When you refuse to do this – when you have too many rules – you lose the chance to offer great value (and therefore show up high value).
Boredom Will Kill The Best Relationships
Boredom and relationships don’t go too well together. In fact, boredom is one of those silent killers that don’t really appear in front of your face.
Rather, it just sits in the corner and does all the damage.
If you are not multi-dimensional, or don’t have many sides to you, then your relationship will eventually become boring.
It may be fine at the start, (most relationships are…) but give it some time, and boredom will set in.
When boredom kicks in, then the relationship is in trouble. Passion dissipates, as the relationship spirals downwards towards an end.
This Is Why Embodying Different Parts Of Yourself Is So Important.
Being a feminine woman, the most important personalities you need are the light feminine and the dark feminine. Having both will give you depth and prevent any boredom from settling into your relationship.
This is what the meaning of a multi dimensional woman: you are dar and light feminine.
You are also willing and able to be in your masculine when you need to be too!
(See: Why Being Feminine Is Not Always High Value.)
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Renee is the founder of The Feminine Woman & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. She graduated with a bachelor of Law and bachelor of Arts majoring in sociology and psychology. She has been a dating and relationship coach for women in the past 15 years and together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog, they have positively influenced the lives of over 20 million women through their articles and videos as well as 10’s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
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