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Apr 16

10 Telltale Signs He Is A Highly Evolved, Deeply Masculine Alpha Male

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 7 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.10 Telltale Signs he is a Highly Evolved, Deeply Masculine Alpha Male OMG, OK, so listen to this. There I was… on a cold winter night in the dodgy end of town. I wouldn’t come to this part of town even during the day, let alone at night, but anyway. I was there with my husband and two of his guy friends. We were all in our twenties back then, so we were youngish. David had gotten some free…

Dec 27

3 Undercover Ways to be More High Value Over Other Women & Get Him to Choose You

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Confidence | 15 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.I know right? That title is soooo preposterous! Well, if it’s preposterous then so be it. There’s nothing wrong with secretly wanting to compete with other women. In fact, intra-sexual competition is alive and well. In other words, women are always competing with other women, and the same goes with men. The only difference is, us women mostly compete in much more covert and behind your back kind of ways than men do. And there’s no shame in recognising…

Jul 20

3 Things that Make You a High Value Woman To Men

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 333 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Several years ago, my husband David and I, started teaching people about what it means to be a High Value, High Status Woman. This was way back before a lot of people started using the term ‘high value woman’. Since then, a lot more people have been using the term high value, and they’ve made the term their own, and helped a lot of people, which is fantastic! However, with so many more people teaching about…

May 25

The 9 dangers of leaning back and why it's not feminine

The 9 Dangers of “Leaning Back” & Why It’s Not Feminine

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 67 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 There are many people who strongly believe in leaning back when dating. Since the early days of the internet, when Rori Raye started spreading her idea on leaning back and circular dating, or rotational dating, which means dating several men at the same time, the idea of leaning back has spread. Some people say that you shouldn’t take too many initiating actions with men, and let him chase you, whilst you still must remain warm and…

Feb 02

polyamorous relationships, he wants one and what to do

Polyamorous Relationships: He Wants One. What Do I do?

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 39 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Polyamorous relationships. Do you want one? Article updated 2018 What if you love a man who wants this type of arrangement? See PART 2 of this article here. It seems like more and more people are having to deal with their partner being polyamorous. This is why it is more important than ever for you to understand and learn more about how to deal with a man like this. Or even just understand how to deal…

Sep 15

If He Loves You More Than You Love Him, Is It Worth a Chance?

By Renee Wade | Attraction, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 31 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Hi Renee, I have been following your blog and it has changed my life significantly. Thank you. I recently met a guy who I believe truly loves me, the problem is, He has a lot of habits I used to have but worked really hard on myself to quit.（ex. talking too much) If I am being honest, am not sure I love this man but I realized I have been too picky with men. This guy…

Jun 16

4 Top Secret Ways to Access Your High Value Vulnerability

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment | 23 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 ‘’You don’t bleed. That’s why you can’t keep a guy.’’ Erol said to his long time friend, Jacinta, whilst twisting his foot into the ground to kill his cigarette butt. They’ve been friends forever and always love to chat about their relationships… “I…what? I don’t bleed?” “Yeah, you don’t bleed. You need to bleed in order for him to have feelings for you. I’m exaggerating, but I’m kind of not, too.” “What the hell are you…

Mar 20

The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 3)

By Renee Wade | Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 24 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Having casual sex encourages women to be afraid to ask for commitment We want a man’s commitment for a reason. Don’t short-change yourself. Because there is so much pressure on women to give up sex easily these days, this is even more reason to resist that push for quick sex from men. Why? Because it’s also a test. Good men also test how easily they can get a woman to have sex with them. Not having…

Feb 28

The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 2)

By Renee Wade | Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 57 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Some women can be detached from casual sex Some women consider themselves progressive, and claim that sexual liberty is a must for women. Yes, it is. But on an overall percentage, more women than not will experience some suffering after casual sex (if the man isn’t committed). The trouble is that women usually have sex with men that have actual value. Research has shown that when women are looking for short term sex, or casual sex;…

Feb 16

The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 1)

By Renee Wade | Attraction, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 38 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 One cold winter morning, Felesha Fox came running alongside her friend, Frances Fox. “Hahaha, look at all these male foxes chasing after me, Frances! There’s about 10 of them!” Frances, looking a little embarrassed and scared, turned around to see 10 male foxes or more, chasing her friend Felesha Fox. “Why don’t you have even one dashing lad chasing you down, like me?” “My dear friend Felesha, you are mistaken, I do have one dashing lad…

Jan 04

Can Fear of Abandonment Make You More Beautiful

How the Fear of Abandonment Can Make You More Beautiful…

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Confidence | 54 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2019 Can fear of abandonment make you more beautiful? Is there anything worse than dealing with someone who has become completely indifferent to relationship and life? I mean the people who have numbed themselves so much that they just don’t care. They don’t care about you, but more importantly, they’ve stopped caring about themselves. They choose to be thick and impenetrable. They choose comfort over love. Or they choose mediocrity over infinity. They’ve been denying what’s true of…

Feb 15

19 Ways Of A High Value, Feminine Girlfriend

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 59 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2019 When I was 10, I liked a guy called Shannon, but Shannon didn’t like me; he liked my friend Tilly who wore skirts. When I asked her why Shannon didn’t like me and liked her, Tilly said I was a boy and Shannon would like me if I wore a skirt. 10 year olds named Tilly are smart. When I was 13 walking down the river bank with my best friend at the time, who has…

Oct 17

Are men really more attracted to airheads over the strong and successful women?

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 77 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Are men really more attracted to the flighty type of women over the strong and successful type? Veronica asks Trevor: “I saw a study the other day that said that men are more attracted to dumb women, and that intelligent women are seen as problematic in a relationship. Do you see this as true?” Trevor: Well, men like to be right, and intelligent women can stop them feeling that way in a relationship. Veronica: groan. ****…

Jun 20

How to Be Radiant Beyond Your Wildest Dreams and Have Any Man You Want

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Confidence | 41 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Until a woman is 25 or 35, radiance is mostly given to her on a platter — young skin, healthy hair, flexible body, white teeth and a fresh face. That’s the physical stuff youth naturally endows us with. Very quickly though, we begin to lose this effortless bounty, and the world begins to seem as if it is populated by millions of glowing 18-year-olds. Click here to take the quiz on “How Feminine Am I Actually?”…

Mar 11

Why It’s OK (And Even Attractive) For Women To Cry Any Damn Time

By Renee Wade | All, Attraction, Confidence | 66 Comments

© The illegal reproduction of any content in the articles on TheFeminineWoman.com in part or in full is punishable by International law.Article updated 2018 Isn’t life better and easier when you don’t cry? Aren’t you stronger and cooler than the damsels in distress who cry to get their way? Isn’t it better to have things handled? People will like you more if you’re a non-crying cool girl, right? Click here to take the quiz on “How Feminine am I Actually?” Bullshit. On the surface, people will like you more because you’re agreeable and don’t reflect their own difficult emotions back…