How to Attract High Quality Men Without Being Low Value

I’m about to show you how to attract men to you. And not just what attracts them, but makes them really WANT to talk to you, approach you and ask for your number, take you out, and be around you.

I don’t intend to show you how to attract just any low quality male (although any attractive woman will have all kinds of males wanting a piece of her).

I am going to show you what will draw men to you so that you will be more confident around men and be able to have more men to choose from, which will bring you closer to your Mr. Right.

(Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”)

To be brutally honest, most women have no idea what attracts men.

They think that if a guy looks at her, whistles at her, buys her a drink, or says she’s “hot”, that she must be a highly sought after female and that she is attractive to men.

Yes, she may be – on the surface.

However, what really attracts the kind of man who is genuine or who has a deep and lasting attraction for you is a whole other story.

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How to Attract Men

Most women don’t understand what attracts men

The tragedy is, if you don’t learn what truly attracts a man, you’ll probably have to settle for a lower quality guy. 

See, attraction isn’t just lust. Attraction isn’t sex appeal or being sexy.

Attraction goes much deeper and is worth so much more than that.

Put two women in front of a hot guy at a bar.

One of these women is flaunting her sexuality, playing to her sex appeal (trying to prove it to the guy) and is obviously very sexy. So sexy that almost no red blooded human being could ignore it.

The other woman is not flaunting her sex appeal at all. Instead, she shows up with another kind of gift. The gift of feminine radiance.

Here’s a great article that answers the question of what exactly feminine radiance is. 

You may want an answer to what feminine radiance is. 

It’s a quality of presence with life that is not forced, it’s not trying to prove anything, it just is. 

This presence is the kind of presence that you see in women who have nothing to prove. They are attraction emotionally and physically, no matter what looks they were born with, just by being present.

This presence manifests as them being unapologetically themselves.

Which of these two women are more inherently attractive to men?

So, which of these types of “attractiveness” do you think is worth more?

The first woman or the second woman?

Well, guess what?

To a man, they’re both worth something.

But to you, the second type of attractiveness is worth far more. Because when you attract men emotionally, you are far more likely to keep them in your life.

Most women have no trouble attracting men like the first example of the woman at the bar. That’s easy enough if you tried.

But to show up as the second type of woman requires a lot more self esteem, vulnerability, and a belief in the value of connection over everything else that is so excitingly distracting in this life. 

So, put aside all the sexy stuff for now and bear with me. 

Your job is to attract men emotionally, and for longer than just one night. 

If you don’t learn what I’m about to introduce to you, you’ll become another one of the hoards of women who don’t understand what attracts men on a deeper level that fulfils him (and you).

You’ll also run the risk of having failed relationships and even ‘boring’ relationships.

Because it’s one thing to attract a man who thinks you’re “hot”, “a perfect 10”, or thinks you are good for now until something better comes along.

But it’s another to attract several higher quality men to choose from, and then to truly fulfil one high quality man (who is worth it) forever, who will have attraction for you for the rest of his life. (See my article on why men aren’t attracted to you… perhaps you intimidate them?)

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There is no shortage of good looking women

There’s no doubt about it; there are plenty of good looking women out there. I’ve known so many. And I walk past so many in the street every day.

And think of it from a man’s perspective right? From a man’s perspective, there’s definitely no shortage of good looking women who are willing to ‘put themselves out there’, to get some cheap attention.

And hey, there’s nothing wrong with surface, cheap attention. But we have to remind ourselves that that’s all it is.

It’s short-lived, and the men giving the attention are just responding to our sexual energy.

However, there IS a shortage of deeply attractive women. By attractive I mean the kind of woman many men want to be emotionally close to.

And they want to be emotionally close to her because she’s so delicately beautiful, loyal, genuine, authentic, sexy, compassionate and has this mysterious feminine allure.

If you want to be just good looking, and surface level attractive, sure, there are plenty of men out there who will be willing to stuff around and be there just for a good time.

However, being truly attractive to men is something that is counter-intuitive for most women.

How to attract men with your radiance & “vibe”

So, what attracts a man to a woman?

On a surface level, it may be her looks. The signals of fertility, of femininity and of reproductive value.

However, we’ve already established that what truly attracts men is your unique presence. It’s your sense of radiance and authenticity. Your vibe.

Think about it from your own perspective for a minute.

Have you ever seen (on the street, on television or in a movie), that kind of man who stands tall, is confident, genuine, masculine, charming, strong and centred?

He’s not overly handsome, but he’s totally present with you when you’re talking to him. He’s the kind of man who is not willing to take anyone’s crap.

You know that kind of guy?

The kind of man you felt instantly drawn to, and whom you couldn’t HELP but feel attraction for? The kind of man you’d give anything to be around?

He’s rare, I know. But can you even imagine him, if you can’t think of one you’ve met before?

Well, what do you think makes him attractive?

I mean, people talk about how men need to be tall, dark and handsome.

And many women say they prefer a man with more money, but this is all LOGICAL.

Attraction is not logical, and attraction is something you just can’t help but feel.

The same applies to men.

So – how do you get that energy, that delicious energy and attractiveness that will draw men to you like bees to honey?

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Here’s how feminine energy is useful…

First you must get in touch with your feminine energy. No, this doesn’t mean act girly, ditzy, and wear pinks and florals all day long (although all these things have their time and place).

It doesn’t mean that you cannot be masculine as a woman.

In fact, your masculine energy is highly valuable. Personally, I wouldn’t feel fully alive without the gift of my own masculine energy.

But one of the precursors to attraction is that you have a beautiful depth of feminine energy.

No, not every feminine woman in the world is attractive to men. So this is not some universal truth. But it’s a starting point for triggering attraction in men.

So what does becoming more radiant & feminine mean?

It means to remove the layers of conditioning that you have that makes you close up in fear.

It means to remove your resistance to being at one with the unpredictability of your emotions as well as life.

This is the type of feminine vulnerability that inspires deep emotion in men. This is what makes them want to be closer to you. Because you are the expression of life in its purest form. 

If you want to learn more about what it really means to have authentic feminine vulnerability without being needy, see my article on authentic vulnerability for women here. 

A feminine woman can feel the deep sorrow that is inspired by a horrible tragedy she witnesses on tv. 

And once that sorrow is felt through, she can also shine just as radiantly in her joy when witnessing a gorgeous puppy playing. 

Being this in touch with your feminine energy requires that you shun what society or even friends may have taught you about men, dating and relationships.

Instead it requires that you become the authentic YOU so that your radiance can show up.

Here’s an article on How To Be More Feminine: 18 Ways of A Soft Feminine Woman. 

CLICK HERE to discover how much you truly live in your feminine energy with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz!

How to attract men: 2 Steps to cultivate your radiance & attractiveness… 

In this next section, I’m going to be giving you the 2 steps you need to take in order to attract men to you for the long term. 

I’m referring to making men feel deep emotional attraction to you. Not only lust. 

Step 1. The gift of your presence

…& accept each moment as is.

Men respond to you and feel more emotionally attracted to you when they can feel your authenticity.

Some men don’t care about it – in which case, it’s a good thing, because your authenticity will repel the men you don’t want in your life.

They probably wouldn’t make a great companion and lover to you anyway.

When you’re single, what’s most truly attractive about you is not just your pretty face or your healthy body.

It’s the feeling that you’re the type of woman who doesn’t wear masks.

You are here, present and you accept each moment and each emotion, no matter what your old rules or judgements say.

Your unique energy of presence is only really there when you remove your masks to avoid life, and instead let life live you.

Presence is just that. You’re here with life and you’re letting life live you.

You respond to life, and accept life rather than always trying to be ‘worthy’.

You’re here, and you were born, so you’ve already done everything you need to do to be worthy.

So, through your presence, you will begin to see your unique radiance show up in a way that no other woman can ever reproduce, because it’s your unique presence.

By the way, if you would like to learn more about this topic, I have an article that will teach you about the 3 things you must avoid if you want to get a boyfriend quick!

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Step 2. The value of your Openness.

Something most women do not realize is that men crave, absolutely crave to be with a woman who is open to them.

To men, this world is full of women who are closed off (for good and bad reasons).

And what this signals to men is that you’re not interested in them, and that you’re just in to yourself. (not like, up your own ass, but that you’re retreated inside yourself rather than being engaged).

Now, as a woman, I can totally understand the need to close off to men!

Because if you’re too open, creeps may try to creep their way in to your world, and that can….well, creep you out.

What openness is not

However, most people think being open means being revealing.

Y’know, revealing information and “details”.

But this is a WOMAN’S way of being open to other women.

We connect, share and reveal stories, details and ‘things’ in our lives and in other people’s lives. We do it to share and create bonding and trust with other women.

This is not the way to be open to a man.

Sure, when you start a relationship with a man, you might want to reveal details when the context calls for it.

But when you’re wanting to attract him, then you need to remember that in the beginning stages when you’re getting to know each other, more often than not, information has no value.

The wonderful D.Shen taught me (and all the women in our facebook group) that!

Information has no value.

So to consolidate your understanding of this, you need to understand exactly what openness means for a man.

Here is how to be open: acceptance.

I’ll say it again:

Acceptance = attracting more men than you can handle.

Most women simply don’t understand how important acceptance is to a man. Accept men.

You can start by accepting ALL men in some way.

Even if you don’t have any interest in them, at least accept their existence as a masculine soul quietly to yourself.

This will help you to remove some barriers or resentment that you might have built up against men.

No matter how much you’ve resisted or judged men in the past, find one thing you can appreciate in a man.

Even if you do it quietly without him knowing.

I don’t care if it’s a lolly pop man helping you cross the road or a man at Subway making you a lunch roll, your taxi driver or a lawyer doing your will for you.

It doesn’t matter. Accept all men from all walks of life, for yourself.

You wouldn’t believe how often men feel that their hard work (which is something they pride themselves on) goes unappreciated and unnoticed.

Once you give men an energy of acceptance (which really means openness), you will be very surprised how much male attention, energy and attraction comes your way.

DISCLAIMER: now, please remember that as valuable as your acceptance is, what we are trying to do here is cultivate your emotional resources so that you are more able to give value to your man in the future.

By being able to accept and appreciate men for the masculine soul that they are is very important.

BUT. Do not go around talking to every man indiscriminately.

In general, (yes I’m generalising here) men over-infer sexual interest when women talk to them with a sense of receptivity.

EVEN IF the women are only being friendly.

So, use your gut instinct. Stay safe.

I know that when you start this exercise, it’s easy to over-attach to it and over-do it!

You don’t want to be so indiscriminately open that the wrong kinds of men get to take advantage of you.

Accepting men will only attract more men to you.

And so you need to also be able to discern which men to show your acceptance to, and you need to be able to walk away and turn cold if you need to.

Remember to be attuned. Feel your gut instinct.

Remember this acceptance thing is not an all-round rule to always live by.

It’s just some guidance to help you cultivate acceptance inside yourself for men, so that you can draw on this for the right man.

Because at the end of the day, acceptance is a very important type of value that you can add to a man’s life.

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Yes, men need to feel accepted by women, but they (and especially you) also need you to walk away or say ‘no’ if you are not interested in them.

Exercises & Action steps

What is is something you can do NOW to show up more attractive to men?

As it turns out, if you want results, it pays to get moving and experiment with how to attract men now.

So I’ve designed two actionable exercises for you to use out there in the real world today. These exercises are designed for you to feel more of your own authenticity as a woman, and see how easy it is to really attract men to you if you just did the right things. 

Exercise 1

I want you to get dressed in to something you feel good in. Find an outfit that you love to wear. This is not about looking crash hot, it’s about feeling great in it.

And I want you to take a walk down a busy street, preferably a strip of shops by yourself. Yes, by yourself, and I want you to start interacting with men.

But as you walk, I want you to be in a peak state of happiness and high energy.

I don’t mean for you to be jumping up and down on the spot like a crazy person (although that has its time and place), I mean for you to be in a great state (mood)…

The best way I can recommend you do this is with music.

Use music that you know makes you feel instantly happy, excited or sensual, or happy. Grab your smart phone and take it with you.

Or, you can just draw on memories from your past of moments of happiness.

What to focus on to send out high value vibes

Think of a time when you were feeling loved and cherished. Know that if you’ve had it once, you can have it again.

Know that there is love in the world, and for as long as you can give love, you will receive it.

If you can, find and download music on to your device that makes you feel at peace. Calm and happy. If not calm, then sensual is great too. It will get you out of your head and into your body.

And the reason I want you to find music or do something that puts you in this state is because you can then go out and get a different kind of ‘feedback’ to the energy you’re used to giving out on a day-to-day basis.

What kind of feedback do you think the average, not so attractive woman gets?

Not much.

Maybe a few looks, if she is physically gorgeous. But most men are probably repelled by dull energy, or a defensive, hard woman.

By giving out this new vibe, you get to see just how well true radiance works to attract men to you (a new kind of feedback).

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Are you a woman on a mission or a responsive, feminine woman?

In the future, you’ll also remember that your radiance is what will draw men to you, not your closed up, “woman on a mission” type energy.

The “woman on a mission” is great, by the way. Let’s name her “Mimi on a Mission.”

Don’t just discard Mimi on a mission. She’s wonderful and she’s productive and she’s a high achiever.

But you can just let her know that if she wants you to attract a high value, masculine man, then what she needs to understand is that high value men usually have enough ‘achievement’ and ‘mission’ going on in their own lives.

And so, they aren’t looking for it in a woman. It’s usually not of value to them. It can be in certain contexts, but just like you wouldn’t go out looking for the world’s happiest and most radiant man, he’s not going to go out and look for the most masculine energy, goal-oriented, highly successful woman.

Woman on a mission can be value in a long-term relationship, but for attracting high status, masculine men, she can let Attractive Alice have the stage for now.

Exercise 2

And I want you to practice living in your unique feminine energy.

Walk down the street, or go shopping at the grocery store, and make eye contact with one or two men.

(Not every man! Some might be already taken and you giving that kind of energy might trigger some mate guarding in his woman, lol.)

So feel the situation as you go.

As you make eye contact, I want you to respond to the situation with your full presence.

So, if you’re at the store, just talk to the store attendant who is a guy, or talk to the checkout person who may be a guy.

You can do this at the butcher’s shop or the Apple store (where there will be lots of men working) too, because they know their tech and gadgets. 

How to receive masculine energy?

You may smile warmly and genuinely, or stop, make brief but fully present eye contact, and smile and say “Thank You” if the situation calls for it.

For example, if you’re buying something at the butcher’s and a man serves you and hands it to you over the counter. Smile warmly, giving your appreciation. 

And I want you to actually feel, and notice the energy exchange between you and every man you exchange energy with.

There might not be an energy exchange – in fact, it might just be a man who truly just wants to connect or just wants to do a good job for his customer, and isn’t interested in sex or anything.

If you’ve resisted this energy exchange with men in the past, you will feel it in your body.

Let yourself feel good, and allow his masculine energy to be there. Don’t be afraid of being present with men, even if it makes you want to cry.

If it all gets too much, you can always just go home!

In turn you will likely start to realize exactly how attractive you REALLY are.

Learn more about being the world’s more attractive feminine goddess 

And if you would like to learn more about how to be the world’s most attractive and feminine goddess, get my goddess report right here.

More importantly, practice interacting with, being present with, and receiving their masculine energy.

The reason I am getting you to do this during the day and on your own rather than out at a bar, is because you won’t be in a situation where there are a bunch of people around who just want to pick up.

Also without the oftentimes ‘dead’ energy and desperate energy that you feel at night clubs and bars, you get to be free to be more comfortable, and to just feel what it’s like to be you.

So as you receive and exchange energy from men, let yourself be open to them by showing, whether through words or actions, or a facial expression, your appreciation for them.

It doesn’t have to be sexual at all. It’s a simple act of acknowledgement.

Remember it’s not “just a smile” that will do the job.

Attracting men is about an energy; your unique feminine energy, radiance and authenticity.

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One last thing…

As we know, men are stimulated by certain triggers.

Certain triggers that cause them to feel more attraction, feel more desire and therefore be more likely to fall in love.

Well, I have a program that walks you through the 17 most potent attraction triggers for men.

These are scientifically proven, hardwired triggers that every single man has within his DNA.

So by understanding these hardwired triggers and putting them to use yourself, you will become a lot more attractive and desirable to every single man you meet. They will find you irresistible, and be subconsciously drawn to you.

Click here to discover more about these 17 Attraction Triggers.

So anyway, go ahead, do what I have suggested today. It’s very important that you start taking action…

Also, come back and let me know how you went and any pointers you may have for other women from your own experiences.

What are your thoughts on this topic? Share in the comments section below. 🙂

P.S – here is what Aimee Gargus, from New York, had to say in an email to me about this article:


I absolutely LOVED this post!!!!! I read it, went out on my lunch hour to get some green tea, and pay my cell phone bill. While paying my bill I had a gentleman compliment me on how nice I looked, and even asked if I was married and would like to be…;) It was fun, flirty, and a great ego boost. The bonus was he was around 30 and I am 42!”

(By the way, I want to teach you 5 secrets to having your man fall deeply in love with you and beg you to be his one and only. These 5 secrets are inside of my brand new program. Click HERE to get yourself a copy!)


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Hi, I’m Aileen and I want to thank you so much Renée for all the love and light that you share with all of us. I got into a relationship with an amazing man, he wants to get marry and live together and he wants to buy a house to live together, we spend a lot of time together Everyday, because he says he loves my company and he lets me drive his car and he taught me how to drive, also, he wants to help me finish culinary arts school because I want to be a Chef, so everything… Read more »

Reply to  Renee Wade

Hi, Renée, thanks for your reply, but what makes me feel doubtful is that our relationship is “new” and he already is talking to me about children, don’t you think is a little too quickly? Also he is 54 and he already has 2 daughters of my age, why would he want another child at this stage of his life? I mean I never thought of children until today.

Reply to  Renee Wade

Hi, I just broke up with him, he asked me to marry him after almost 2 months together and I said, No. The truth is that I’m broke and I have to help my parents with their debts and that someone rich wants to take care of you and helps you with everything financially it feels great but I don’t feel love for him, so I said No, we broke up and now I’m Going back with my parents but at least I was honest with myself and followed my heart. Thanks for your help!


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I am currently in the life place of wanting to become more open! So genuinely putting in time and energy to being more high quality to people in general.

New beginnings ?


Renee, once again you are absolutely brilliant. I was walking downtown in a big city nearby, I was actually walking over from a parking area to meet up with a guy I am dating after he got off work. I remembered reading this and thought, “What the heck, let’s try this activity Renee suggested” – I mean, here I was, in a public, crowded place, dressed up and feeling attractive (I was headed to meet up with a date). So I tried looking at and acknowledging the presence of everyone I passed. A security guard said, “I like those sunglasses,… Read more »


Awww, thats amazing. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us

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Hi there, of course this piece of writing is really good and I have learned lot of
things from it on the topic of blogging. thanks.

Super Janice
Super Janice

Good job! I am always a keyed-up extrovert!


HI Renee

i’m 19’s
i reas this article and i got 2 points and i want to chck if they are are corret or not

first being femminne is being positive relaxed to the life whateveer to attract a man or not just to deal with men

and the triggers is for the man i want to marry

is this is true?


Shyness is covered in the site. She calls it a shiny word for fear. I can’t remember where it was but its here, somewhere.

We shouldn’t be making our decisions based on fear.

Sorry I put this originally on the wrong post


There’s never good advice for shyer women. So I will add some. High energy for a shy/introverted woman can include being more relaxed and tuned in, rather than keyed up. Since shyer introverted women are highly sensitive already, it is more helpful for us just to relax….get into our bodies more and away from our heads. Use more body language. Be excited in your own world (which is more natural for the shy.) Men will knock at the door of this inner world, and you can decide on how deeply they can enter. High energy has many different forms. It… Read more »

Super Janice
Super Janice
Reply to  shybunni

I am always keyed up as an extrovert!


There’s never good advice for shyer women. So I will add some. High energy for a shy/introverted woman can include being more relaxed and tuned in, rather than keyed up. Since shyer introverted women are highly sensitive already, it is more helpful for us just to relax….get into our bodies more and away from our heads. Use more body language. Be excited in your own world (which is more natural for the shy.) Men will knock at the door of this inner world, and you can decide on how deeply they can enter. High energy has many different forms. It… Read more »

Reply to  shybunni

Shyness is covered in the site. She calls it a shiny word for fear. I can’t remember where it was but its here, somewhere.

We shouldn’t be making our decisions based on fear.

Super Janice
Super Janice
Reply to  shybunni

I don’t think you are shy but you are introverted since you said: “Be excited in your own world”

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Hi there! Do you use Twitter? I’d like to follow you if that would be ok.
I’m absolutely enjoying your blog and look forward to new updates.

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Good info. Lucky me I came across your site by chance (stumbleupon).
I have saved it for later!

Kathy Joyce
Kathy Joyce

Having a high energy can definitely attract positive energy into your life. You will seem attractive as you are radiating this energy. That’s sad Carrie that smiling doesn’t work in Sweden. Mostly if you smile at people they will naturally smile back at you. It’s an unconscious reaction that you can’t avoid happening. Men will be more drawn towards a smiling and happy women that’s giving off positive energy.


Herz a list of What attracts men the most

7) humps
9)chest eyes
10)round mountains


Its kinda like how noah was draw to ali in the notebook when he saw her laughing and having fun at the fair 🙂


The smiling to men part doesnt always work, especially here in Sweden, all you get as a respons is a face turned away or an angry/confused/annoyed face expression..

Reply to  Carrie

Totally.. I live in Sweden too and it is definitly true, which is sad really.

Reply to  Nicole

I live in Germany and the situation is similar! What is wrong with these guys? What’s a girl to do??

Reply to  mimi

Move to Wisconsin!

Anne Vanhofwegan
Anne Vanhofwegan

My sister and I learned this on our own,that if you are laughing and having fun,men will gravitate towards us and start flirting, the thing is when we’re finally starting to have a normal conversation we get quiet,we’re not shy,we just cant think of a single thing to say! After we ask them questions about themselves and answer theirs everybodys pretty well silent,Help?!?!


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Whats your favorite color?

Now why? laughing
If you were to have a perfect “non-date” what would it look like……

Aliyah smith
Aliyah smith

Hi Renee
I’ve been reading your blog for two years now and I love your work
But Im having trouble following the actions steps in this post because Rarely any man looks at me on the street so how am I supposed to make eye contact and smile if they don’t even notice I’m there ? Is there something I’m doing wrong?


Thank you for this blog Renee! I just found this site yesterday and I’m reading all the posts. I would like to try this exercise but the idea of it makes me feel ill, it brings up issues I thought I’d already delt with. I developed breasts very early and since then I rarely talk to or make eye contact with men in passing. I’m myself in bars and talking to cashiers and things like that but not on the street. I think I’m putting out this ‘all men are annoying creeps’ vibe and I want to stop! Or at… Read more »

Reply to  Maerie

I usually take sleazy looks and catcalls as a compliment. These men think I’mm pretty/hot/whatever, and are expressing that opinion in a way that’s maybe not too classy, but honest.


Tried this technique out. Listened to some songs that made me feel warm and relaxed. Young man let me off the bus. Still feeling energized, I looked him directly in his eyes, smiled warmly, and thanked him. He gave me his number. When you feel good, it’ll show in your eyes and body language. It’s scary at first, but once you let your good feelings show, it feels freeing! Give it a try.


I never truly understood the definition of femininity and the little not so right idea I had in my mind made me reject that important part of me. I enjoyed this article very much and it has enhanced the little knowledge I have about the opposite sex and I can most certainty through your post fully understand why I haven’t been able to attract the right guy for me. Thank you!

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