So What if You're Hot

So What If You Think You’re Hot?

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Article updated 2018 So what if somebody finally says you’re hot? Are you happy? If so, for how long? Do we have to upload a tonne of photos of ourselves posing in every humanly possible position in our bathroom on to Facebook to get to this point of being labelled hot? Or to prove something? Or what about wear as little as is possible to snare attention from men that is only given because the amount of skin color glaring at them is more than the amount of covered area on your body? So what if a bunch of men…

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Pleaser Women Always Lose Out

Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving

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Article updated 2018 Pleaser Women Lose out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving I see a huge problem among us women, especially when women are in a relationship. This problem is the problem of pleasing all the time. Most women would pass this off as ‘oh it doesn’t apply to me’, I’m a cool woman and I would never be one of those silly pleasers! However, in my experience, many women like to think they’re not acting like pleasers, but they actually are. Part of this comes from not really understanding the difference between pleasing and giving. (Click here…

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The Secret to Being Yourself

The Secret to Being Your Real Authentic Self

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Article updated 2018 If a girl has large breast implants, peroxide hair, collagen in her lips and carries a Chanel bag, is she being herself? Her friends might say, “Oh, well that’s just her! That’s what she does!” I say it depends. We’re always told to be ourselves. “Relax, be yourself!” What on earth does that mean?! How do you “be yourself”? Does that mean dress how you’d like to dress? Does it mean say what you want, when you want, however you want? Well, it could… The only problem is that nobody really tells you what being yourself actually…

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7 Keys to Becoming a Classy Woman

7 Keys to Becoming a Classy Woman that Men Cherish

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Article updated 2018 Traditionally, a classy woman means to be stylish, superior and elegant, respectable and lovely. However, I find the traditional definition and ideas on what it means to be classy can be confusing. So I am here to hopefully explain once and for all, what it means to be classy. Let’s re-define classy in a better way: a genuine, high value woman who holds herself and thinks of herself highly regardless of life circumstances, and despite what other people may think of her. In slight contradiction to that, however – A classy woman does not judge herself regardless…

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Why Being One Dimensional Will Cost You

The Cost of Being A One Dimensional Woman

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Article updated 2018 If you want to have men attracted to you and committed to you in the long run, then you have to become more than just a one dimensional woman. In deed, you have to become “multi-dimensional”. If you want to lose commitment from a man, and lose the passion and attraction he feels for you, then the quickest way to do is, is being one dimensional. In other words, be “boring”. One of the biggest mistakes many women (and men) make in their relationship is to be continually showing up as one kind of person, or the…

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Light and Dark Feminine Quick contrast

Light and Dark Feminine: A Quick Contrast

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Article updated 2018 As mentioned in the earlier post; The dark Side of Femininity, Feminine Energy has both a dark and a light dimension. From the e-mails, comments and responses I have received since I first posted about the dark side of femininity, I have seen that a lot of people are curious to know exactly what the dark feminine is. The majority of us are aware of what the light feminine is – it has been well talked about, nurtured and praised by society as well as in books. Many people are expressing that they are confused as to…

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The Dark Side of Femininity

The Dark Side of Femininity

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Article updated 2018 If you consult any source specifically about femininity or any dating sources that discuss the importance of a woman’s femininity, you will find they teach that Femininity is soft, gentle kind, innocent and caring. Whilst femininity certainly comprises these things – most people consider only the Light side of Femininity. Think good housewives, think princesses; we’re taught to be a good person from when we’re kids – but sometimes this is all just not enough to attract the man we want. The reality is that there is so much more to Femininity! Traditional ideas and concepts of…

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Dressing Feminine In The Workplace

Dressing Feminine In The Workplace – Will You be Taken Seriously?

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Article updated 2018 Black, grays, browns and ‘smart’, neutral colors are common for a normal woman’s working wardrobe. Something simple and neutral; but the issue and questions at hand are: Can you dress like a girly girl and be taken seriously in the workplace? Does dressing ultra feminine and girly do damage to your professional career? I’d hasten to assert that the way a woman dresses influences someone’s first impression of you, as with anything; but that being taken seriously in the workplace really has nothing to do with how you dress, but how you act and who you show…

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How to be a Lady

How to Be A Real Lady

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Article updated 2018 Have you seen one lately? A lady, I mean. I had to scratch my head a few times to think of one. There are the ‘traditional’ types of ladies, such as Audrey Hepburn and a more modern example – Kate Middleton. It’s wonderful to be a classy lady, but I believe our society no longer values the ‘uptight’ women who are always trying to please and be perfectly elegant. I mean, just because one is a lady doesn’t mean she is to be restricted in life. It doesn’t mean she has to be untouchable, and unable to…

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The Case for Going Without Make up

5 Reasons to Go Without Makeup

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The Case for Going Without Make up – How to Rock the Look ‘True Feminine Radiance Comes From Within.’ Most sites for women tell you how to put make up ON and how to do it perfectly. Well; this is really counter-intuitive, but I have to say that if you want to attract good men in to your life; go without make up during the day, from time to time (filtering out men who want their woman to always wear make up). From personal experience, I have found that men actually seem to notice me more/are more likely to strike…

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charming woman

8 Keys to Instant Feminine Charm

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Article updated 2018 First of all, why do you want to be charming? Here are just a few reasons… Men are five times more likely to fall in love with a woman who is charming than not. You suddenly become way more desirable and attractive in men’s eyes when you embody your own inner charms. (And yes, we can all have feminine charm) People around you will be much nicer to you if you show up to be a “charming” girl. That’s right…Charm… Oh so easy to want, but oh! Not-so-easy to acquire! To be charming requires a change in…

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A Word of Warning About The Birth Control Pill

How Birth Control Pills Wreck Havoc On Your Feminine Hormones

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Article updated 2018 60 million women in America and Europe take oral contraceptives. In my opinion, this is a tragedy. Let me explain why. The birth control pill: one of the biggest threats to your Femininity, your health, your relationship, your ability to attract the man of your dreams, and probably one of the major causes for any health problem you currently have in your life (if you are taking the birth control pill). I’m also going to tell you that the birth control pill can really mess up your ability to choose the right man, it can cloud your…

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how to be graceful

7 Steps to Instant Feminine Poise

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“Poise is a power derived from the Mastery of Self” Article updated 2018 A woman who is poised is not easy to come by. Perhaps she was 30, 40, 50 + years ago. But such a woman is not too common these days. A feminine woman is often the epitome of grace, elegance and poise. The definition of poise is: ‘A graceful and elegant bearing; composure of dignity and manner’. The only negative thing about women who are traditionally poised, is that sometimes this poise tends to surface accompanied by a sense of rigidity. Femininity is not about being rigid,…

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hobbies for women

27 Feminine Hobbies for Women

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I don’t normally like to call them “hobbies”, but rather, passions. Hobbies sort of seems like something you halfheartedly do just for the sake of doing something. Passions sound a lot more interesting. But, hobbies, passions, interests – whatever you like to call them; they’re extremely important in a woman’s life! Sometimes, we need to get some more empowering and healthier ways to meet our needs. Hobbies are one of these ways. It’s important to keep your mind and body constantly growing – if you’re not growing, you’re dying! Why hobbies or passions? Because TV, chocolate, and Netflix is not a…

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jealous women

How to Deal With Jealous Women in Your LIfe

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Article updated 2018 A more physically ‘perfect’ or glamorous woman needn’t always cause jealousy among other women, but a beautiful, feminine woman can cause enormous jealousy. If you’ve always been a beautiful and feminine woman, you would have experienced countless jealous looks and perhaps even jealous schemes, engineered by other women. It’s everywhere. And you can be a plain Jane and cause this jealous stir among other women, because you have something other women feel they do not; the amazing and mysterious force of femininity. And, jealous women can be women on the street whom you don’t know, or even…

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