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Can You Really Expect a Man to be Monogamous?

Can You Really Expect Your Man to be Monogamous?

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 65 Comments

Article updated 2018 There’s a lot of talk about how monogamy is unnatural and no longer ‘in’ in today’s society. A lot of people say that men are ‘hard-wired’ to spread their seed and to have sex with as many women as possible. The same goes for women. A lot of women think monogamy is not for them, and that it’s “unrealistic” for them to be in love with, and commit to, just one man for life. Not to mention that infidelity seems to be commonplace in today’s society. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment…

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5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Deprive Their Man of Sex

By | Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 710 Comments

Article updated 2018 1) The only difference between a friendship and a relationship is intimacy. If you have a sexless marriage or a sexless relationship, what are you? companions? best friends? If a couple doesn’t have much sex, then this generally means they lack passion, and that they could be more in love. There’s no such thing as losing the feeling of being in love. You just lose the ‘state’ of being in love, and you lose polarity/passion with your spouse.  You can be in love and have passionate sex way in to your old age. (Click here to take the…

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Why Do Men Really Love Blowjobs?

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 655 Comments

Article Updated 2018 Seriously… Why Do Men Really Love Blowjobs? This article is not meant to be rude or offensive in any way. My aim is to help women have close, committed, deep and passionate relationships. Part of achieving this is helping women understand more about men, what men want and why they want it. Despite this being a sensitive topic, I hope we can all approach it with a little light-heartedness and let us remember that oral sex has been around for many years. I am also not condoning casual sex or being promiscuous. I am also not aiming…

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The Power of Words

The Power of Your Words On Men

By | All, Relationship Issues | 11 Comments

Article updated 2018 Using words and names to benefit your relationships There’s an old saying that my dearest Daddy used to tell me to exclaim to other children when I was teased: “Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me!”. Back then, this really worked, and really empowered me. As I grew up, I came to realize, like most people do – that – names or not, words DO HURT. The words you use have the power to create good energy in a situation, or to encourage bad energy in a situation. (Not to disrespect…

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Depolarization: Mistakes Women Make With Men

Mistakes Women Make to Destroy Sexual Polarity with Men

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 68 Comments

Article updated 2018 I will start with a definition of depolarization: To partially or completely eliminate or counteract the polarization of. Where on earth does this word come from and what does it mean in the context of your relationship with men? Most men and women, regardless of what they’re showing up as, have a sexual essence that is more typically associated with their gender. So, most women will be feminine at their core, and most men will be masculine at their core. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”) There are women who are more masculine…

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How to Be A Woman of Mystery and Feminine Allure

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 26 Comments

Article updated 2018 Why would a woman want to be mysterious? The ‘concept’ behind being mysterious is about keeping things fresh and exciting so that the relationship doesn’t become plagued by rituals. Rituals have their use (and positive uses at that) – but bad relationship rituals can turn spouses off. Often, mystery can be created by distance (being apart from your spouse). However, this isn’t always true because some couples who are often apart still don’t have much mystery. It’s all about who you show up as. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on…

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Questions to Ask Yourself in Order to Know If You Are With the ‘Right’ Man

4 Questions to Ask Yourself to Know If He Is The Right Man

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Article updated 2018 Welcome back and remember to stay feminine, fun and free! Sometimes, when we meet someone whom may have certain qualities that we find attractive, or may be our physical ‘archetype’, we may try to convince ourselves that they are the right one for us. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) Often, relationships occur out of proximity. You may work with them, play sports with them, they may be a friend or a friend of a friend, or a friend of a friend of a friend. If you have chemistry with someone,…

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Why Men Do Not Want to Marry

Why Some Men Never Want to Marry A Woman

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 887 Comments

How to Become the Kind of Woman Men Want to Marry Article Updated 2018 Before I begin, let me just share a few extracts taken from an anti-marriage website: “My wife was a frigid, shriveled b***h. Before we were married, we had plenty of sex, but as soon as we passed the six month mark after our wedding, she stopped being interested. My wife only f***s when she “feels sexy.” Translation: when I give her jewelry. She is just a withered old bag at the age of 35.” “What security is there for men in marriage? If I cheat on my wife,…

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Your Ideal Relationship: Creating Lasting Love, Passion

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Article updated 2018 Your Ideal Relationship: Creating Lasting Love, Passion “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – RUMI Hi there lovely! Welcome back, and remember to stay feminine, fun and free! One of the best things about being in, or having an intimate relationship is that it intensifies emotion. This, of course, is also what makes relationships so potentially painful. But, the purpose of a relationships is to magnify our emotions. It is in our intimate relationships that we will encounter…

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What is Love

What is Love to A Man and How to Give It?

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Article updated 2018 Giving Love to a Man I thought I’d talk about the topic of what love is. Specifically, I’m going to explore what it means to give love to a man! As women, we value certain love from a man. That is, the kind of love that is eternal and divine. We want to know that a man loves us, regardless of what happens, regardless of changes in life, mistakes we may make, age, or any external factors.Of course, we want love from other people in our lives too, but when it comes to a man, we really…

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Is He Mr. Right

Is Your Man Really Your Mr. Right?

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Article updated 2018 Since I’ve been focusing quite a lot on the ideal man/the right man, I felt it was important to include something about being sure that he IS Mr. Right. A couple of posts ago, I talked about writing a list for yourself on what you wanted in a man and what you don’t want in a potential partner. I also talked about BECOMING the kind of person your ideal man would want to be  in a relationship with. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) Well, we could do all…

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Possible Warning Signals That He is NOT The Man You Want To Devote Yourself To

The Warning Signals that He is NOT the Man You Want to Devote Your Life To

By | All, Relationship Issues | 14 Comments

Article updated 2018 Good day to You! I hope you’re having a lovely day 🙂 OK, so I thought I’d give you some warning signals to look out for when dating a man. These are really important, and could really determine your future happiness. After all, 95% of your success in relationships comes down to who you select! (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) Sometimes women want to talk themselves in to believing that we have our ideal man, and ultimately want to marry him. I’m sure lots of girls and women do have…

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The Ideal Man

What Kind of Man is Right for You?

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Article updated 2018 This can be a tricky one. Often, we women, especially younger women, are attracted to the ‘bad guy’. The bad guy is usually the type of guy who looks great, has many great masculine qualities, and may be a bit of a charmer. Often, they know how to trigger attraction in a woman. They may not know it consciously, but they definitely make a habit of it, because they get the results they want! (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) The bad guy is the guy you and I might believe…

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The Knight in Shining Armour

Finding Your Knight in Shining Armour and Keeping Him

By | All, Relationship Issues | 5 Comments

Article updated 2018 Ah, the elusive Knight in shining armour. I’m sure we’ve all heard of this saying and I for one, have heard a lot of women talk about finding their knight in shining armour. Or waiting for a man to come and ‘sweep’ them off their feet, and take them to a magical place. It’s a lovely image, isn’t it? To be the woman being protected, taken care of and loved devotedly by the knight, or swept up in to the arms of the ‘perfect’ man, whatever he might be like 😉 I have news for you, lovely….

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