How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups?

How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups

Good day Renee, I have no idea where to start with this mail. I met Matthew when I was 18, that was 7 Years ago. We have had a very up and down Relationship. We have two wonderful little boys together. For the first two years of our relationship was a fairy tale, and from…

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The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

Women aren’t supposed to make sense. To men. We can make a lot of sense to each other (women to women); and that’s important for connecting with girlfriends. But the problem is that we deny ourselves the deliciousness that is living in our own true nature – the sensuality, the sexuality, the attractiveness that is…

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How to Attract a Man who Gives you EVERYTHING

How to Attract a Man who Gives

A diamond ring. A big set of arms to hold you tight and close with. A nice house. Marriage. Beautiful children. Why would a man ever give any woman any of these things? There are 3 reasons. 1) To keep her around and convenient until he finds ‘the one’. 2) Because she is everything. His…

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Think You’ve “Given too Much” to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.

Think You’ve “Given too Much’

“I gave too much and didn’t get anything back.” This is a common line. It’s also a lazy line. As well as an arrogant line. When we say this, we’re just angry. It’s something we say in an attempt to feel better about losing a man’s attention, or losing him altogether. (Click here to register…

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This Does NOT Make You ‘Wife Material’

This Does NOT Make You ‘Wife Material’

My assistant Jenny forwarded me this question the other day: “I met my guy in Feb 2013 from Okcupid. In March 2013 (3weeks later) he asked me to be his girl. In April 2013 he asked me to move in his house. Aug 3, 2013 he broke up with me.- I cooked, cleaned, washed clothes,…

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How to Radiate Deeper Femininity and Attract Men You Can Trust

How to Radiate Deeper Femininity

Listen to yourself when you are talking. To friends, to your lover, to your boyfriend. The words we speak are mostly blind to what is really going on inside. And worse; the words we speak cause the men you WANT to ignore you or think ‘nope, not for me’ when they spend time with you.…

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THIS is Why Men Don’t Call More Often…

This is why men don't call often

My man and I openly discuss relationship topics and the differences between men and women very often. We are both very passionate about it and this mutual passion is one reason I can write this blog. One day recently, my man David and I were having a conversation about why men don’t call and how…

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He Pays for His Ex Girlfriend’s Bills but Won’t Pay for Mine?

What to DO when your Boyfriend is still emotionally Attached to his Ex A question from Kira: “Dear Renee, After reading your writing for awhile now, I’d like your input on something. My boyfriend still shares his cell phone family plan with his ex girl friend, who he split up with two years ago. They…

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It’s OK to NEED a Man… really, it is!

OK to need a man

It’s ok to need a man. It’s ok because you choose to need a man. It’s ok to be a mature woman and make that conscious choice to need the right man. A good man. It’s ok to admit that you do (or have) needed your father. Or at least imply that your father is…

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How to Get him To Propose and Marry You Without Looking Low Value

How to Get Him to Propose

How do you “Tell a Man” that you want marriage? I got Mia’s problem in my mail box recently: “We have been dating for 3 years, the majority of which were spent long distance. I recently relocated to be with him, and I want him to propose. He seems to be more focused on buying…

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6 KEY Differences Between a Little Girl and a Real Woman

6 KEY Differences between a little girl and a woman

You may already be a woman in some areas of your life.  One thing is for sure…the area of intimate relationships is the place where most of us show up as little girls and little boys. Ironically…at the same time, we demand a man out of our partner. Or we claim that the dating market…

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How Men Think: Don’t Expect a Man to Put more “Effort” in to your Relationship than You

How Men Think

Whenever I suggest something like this, I risk a whole hoard of women hating me. Enough women hate my message as it is….and yet, it’s when I suggest this that I really feel women digging their nails in to me as if I have betrayed them and I am working against woman. Quite the contrary.…

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What to Do When You Feel Threatened by Other Women?

Threatened by Other Women

I’d like to say that there are reasons you shouldn’t feel threatened by other women. Reasons why you should not compare yourself to other women. I’d also like to say that there are a bunch of reasons why you are in fact, better than that woman at work because of this reason. But you already…

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Why Can’t I be Loved for Who I Am?

Why Cant I Be Loved for Who I am

Why Can’t you be Loved for who You are? People often exclaim ‘Why do I have to DO something to find a man/woman? Why can’t I be loved for being ME?’ – You can. The catch is, you must relax and actually BE you. (Click here to complete the quiz on “How High Value High…

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How to Deal with Fear of Being Alone and Him Leaving You?

How to Deal with Fear of Being Alone

How do you Deal with fear of being Alone and fear of a Man leaving You? Find out in this article… If there was one thing I could have every woman understand about herself; it would be that our biggest fear is that we will be abandoned. With friends, this fear exists, with parents, it also…

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