How to go from self-sufficient single to connected couple

How to go from self-sufficient single to connected couple

I was sitting on the couch of a good girlfriend of mine. Our toddlers were playing together, and the house, a cozy two-bedroom, smelled of the traditional Chinese food she had just made for dinner. Francisca’s older boy was in his room climbing and jumping on things, as 8-year-olds are known to do. Then her…

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Why It’s OK (And Even Attractive) For Women To Cry Any Damn Time

its okay to cry

Isn’t life better and easier when you don’t cry? Aren’t you stronger and cooler than the damsels in distress who cry to get their way? Isn’t it better to have things handled? People will like you more if you’re a non-crying cool girl, right? Click here to take the quiz on “How Feminine am I…

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The Very Real Pain of When Men Pull Away

the real pain of when men pull away

Sometimes when a man pulls away, it’s because there was no actual emotional attraction in the first place. When there isn’t enough attraction and connection in a dating situation, things will fizzle out – no matter how much we want to hold on. In these situations, when a man pulls away, it means that we should…

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Think casual sex is harmless? Think again.

Why Men can Lose Trust in Women who have unattached sex

What do you suppose men sacrifice when they sleep around a lot? A committed relationship? Maybe. Click here to find out if you’re Dating a Commitment Friendly Man A good reputation? Yes, men can jeopardise their future potential to have a high value mate through perpetual promiscuity (See the book social Psychology and Human Sexuality,…

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Not Wanting to Manipulate Makes us Manipulative

Not wanting to manipulate

“But I just don’t want to manipulate him like that…” Said the woman who preferred to keep a clean conscience. Just like most women, you probably don’t like to be called a “manipulator”… because no body likes a manipulator… After all, wouldn’t it be too selfish for us to have what we really want? And wouldn’t…

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To be a “Feminine Woman” is to…

To be a Feminine is to

Feel pride when you are proud without trying to squish it and make it tiny, feel pride deeply, for it is freeing. Feel pretty, when someone says you’re pretty, deep in to your heart without trying to pretend you’re not basking in the glory, for pretty is a beautiful gift you give to men and…

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Vulnerable Craving Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men

Vulnerable Craving Hearts attracts Trustworthy and Devoted Man

After work she eats until she numbs herself. When she’s numb from food, she reads a romance novel, maybe watches dramatic TV. When she gets frustrated enough at living love through a stupid-ass novel, she hates other women who have loving husbands to distract her from her true craving for a man. When she becomes…

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How Masculine Jobs and Lives Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine Energy

How masculine jobs and lives can affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine energy

I know that you have a busy day. Just give me 60 seconds and let’s to this quick little exercise. Think about a time where you felt incredibly beautiful. and feminine. Even if you don’t feel beautiful now, you are courageous enough to feel what it was like to feel feminine and beautiful in the…

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How to Communicate with an Angry man & become closer afterwards

How to Communicate with an Angry man & become closer afterwards

Our intention to stay connected to a man in an argument is worth gold. Our intention to hold on to resentment and the need to be right in an argument is worth nothing. Any one of us can live our lives from the place of needing to be right. And many of us do. It…

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What Makes a Woman Weak VS What Makes Her Strong & Vulnerable

What Makes a Woman Weak vs what makes a woman strong and vulnerable

Weak is what we feel when we are in the process of resisting vulnerability. And we feel weak precisely because we are in the process of resisting being vulnerable. Everyone is naturally vulnerable. Some of us just spend our life pretending we are too good for that stuff. We judge the emotional women. We judge…

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Why Smart Women Seek to Appreciate & Understand Men FIRST

Why smart Women seek to appreciate & understand Men FIRST

One too many a woman has protested my advice in anger, stating that we shouldn’t have to understand men, because what are men doing for US? Why can’t men understand US first? But Renee, what about the fact that not all men are the same? And what about the fact that understanding men is being…

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10 Reasons Why We Should Feel and Share our Pain

10 Reasons why we should Feel and Share our Pain

Have you ever thought; ‘if I can avoid feeling pain, why shouldn’t I?’ Or even thought ‘why feel pain if you don’t have to?’ You don’t have to, really. It is our personal choice. In fact, we as humans naturally have a drive to prefer comfort over pain. Most of us in the world spend…

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How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You

how to ensure other women will not take away your man

Dear Friend, When you are in a relationship with a man, sometimes you forget that he has fears too. You think you are the one who needs to be perfect to keep HIM around. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) And so you trust neediness. You trust your…

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How to Bring Out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

How to Bring out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

Each woman has many different personalities and energies within her. This is one reason why men who are not already in love with one woman (their mind and body is committed to one woman) have a tendency (key word – tendency) to want to experience sex with all different women – it is to experience…

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The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

If you’ve ever asked yourself…’what do men want in a relationship?’ What makes a woman High Value so that she can have almost any man commit to her? (Click here to register to watch the “Commitment Masterclass”) I have an answer below. I can remember the handful of times I came to the realisation that…

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