Why Men Do Not Want to Marry

Why Men Do Not Want to Marry

How to Become the Kind of Woman Men Want to Marry

Before I begin, let me just share a few extracts taken from an anti-marriage website:

“My wife was a frigid, shrivelled b***h. Before we were married, we had plenty of sex, but as soon as we passed the six month mark after our wedding, she stopped being interested. My wife only f***s when she “feels sexy.” Translation: when I give her jewellery. She is just a withered old bag at the age of 35.”

“What security is there for men in marriage? If I cheat on my wife, she gets half my s**t. If she cheats on me, she still gets half my s**t. Why the f*** should i get married”

“We had one kid. Wife stays home, but the kid wears her out. I bust my f****** ASS 60 hrs/week and get no credit. Wife gives me guilt when I don’t throw everything down right after work to watch this screaming, annoying f****** kid so she can go out to the gym, or to some restaurant with her friends, or to her sister’s house to watch movies.

She gets to take naps during the day when the baby sleeps, and every time I call her on the cell during the day, she is at Starbucks with her Mom or friends. She says that doesn’t count as “Her time” because she’s with the baby.

I’ve had enough. I feel so undervalued and OWNED. She is so ‘entitled’ now it’s like 60 (or 70, or 80) hours a week from me is EXPECTED. Being at work from 8-7 counts as my ‘social’ time, so I am not allowed to have any friends or ever do ANYTHING outside of change F****** DIAPERS”

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> MY ANSWER

Hi there 🙂

I hope you’re having a lovely day and I haven’t thrown you off with those comments above! Now I am sure that, even just by reading these words you can see the frustration, resentment and anger inside these men.

(Please note: whilst I acknowledge that marriage takes 2, and that men need to step up and take charge of their own actions as well – this website is for women, so I focus mainly on what can be done from the woman’s end).

It’s true; if I was a man in this day and age, I would be quite put off marriage to many of the the modern women in the Western world. Truth be told, the state of our society has done some really bad things to the balance of masculine-feminine and to the values of women and men. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”)

The reason why men do not marry is actually really simple. A lot of men feel that there is nothing in it for them!

And what IS in it for them when they don’t have a good woman? The fast-moving modern world that we live in has ensured that women are working longer hours, juggling more responsibilities, and progressively less able to place their men as their top priority.

In fact, most women place their children at the top of their priorities – which may seem like the best thing to do, but men can grow to resent this as their women are more fulfilled taking care of their kids than they are taking care of their men.

In the meantime, their man gets/feels neglected. Even more important – most women just have no idea how men work. They do not understand them, and most of them do not want to understand them; they’re too busy attending to their other tasks or priorities – in other words, themselves.

However, just as you want to be understood; so does your man! It’s important to not be a man-hater, or a man-basher and stop putting everything down to “Men just want sex”. This is not always true, and true love does exist.

How to become marriage material

So how do you become the kind of woman men want to marry? I will give some strategies below:

– Stop thinking of yourself.

Spend 60 days taking responsibility for your man’s needs and seeing things from his perspective, no matter how hard things are for you. If you do this, he may be more receptive to your needs and you will most likely get him in a different state; a state where you can bring up the topic of your needs with him.

– Understand him, and how he works.

Work out what his needs and values are, and start to understand. If you’re often defensive, start to seek understanding. Understanding gives you control and empowerment. We have a a program called Understanding Men, click here to get more information about this phenomenal program.

You’ll have a lot more certainty and happiness in your relationship if you start to understand that you DO have control over it – and you CAN make it better. More importantly, if you know how to meet his needs in a variety of ways better than anyone else ever could – he would have no reason not to want to be with you for as long as possible!

– Do not deny him sex regularly and do not use it as a commodity; do not ever use sex to specifically get what you want from him, if you want sex to be, for the long-term, a mutually enjoyable thing that you both share together.

Also, when you do sleep with him, be real, be honest and be generous. What do I mean by this? I mean understand him and learn why he wants sex. Don’t do it hoping it will be over soon. He knows this. He feels it. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”)

It is very hard on a man to be sleeping with a woman who wants it to be over, and treats his sexual needs as another “chore” to be done on the list. It’s important that you make time for him, and for the both of you to be together and to keep the passion alive and kicking.

– Have high standards for yourself.

Get fit, eat well. Also, just because you have had a child does not mean it’s ok to be overweight, depressed or “old” or no fun anymore. My lovely, as hard as it can be to look after so many things, and to have so many things on your mind, make it a habit to set your standards high.

If you want the great rewards and a fantastic loving husband who adores you, start by adoring him and understanding him. Understand that a man like his wife to look nice, not just for the sake of looking nice, BUT because he wants to know that his wife/girlfriend still CARES enough to bother making herself look nice for him.

This goes regardless of age. Just because a woman is 60, does not mean she can’t look good anymore. It’s more about never getting “old” on the inside, which then affects the outside.

These are a few good things that you can do to ensure you are on the right track to being the kind of woman a man wants to marry. And, it’s not all about getting a man to marry you or commit to you, it’s about starting by giving without expecting anything in return. (read my article about the difference between pleasing and giving)

Men aren’t as terrible as so many women say. They are not “all the same”, and men are happy to be loyal and give to us and cherish a good woman who takes care of his needs and gives beyond herself. They are not always unreasonable creatures, there are compassionate, caring men around.

And, your man should do the same, too. Relationships are about giving.

If you would like to know exactly step by step how to inspire your man to commit to you and marry you, I suggest you sign up to my program Commitment Control 2.0. It is the best program of its kind to help women in casual situations to a deeply devoted and committed relationship. Click here to register to watch the Commitment Masterclass. 

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  • Unreal

    This thread is like a neckbeard circle jerk. Pathetic.

  • Marc Brown

    A woman who treats men fairly and as an equal and not as a disposable tool has nothing to worry about. Just say’n.

  • Insidious Sid

    “First off, if you were half a man, you wouldn’t boo hoo, poor you!
    If you had any class at all you’d own the meaning of what it is to be a gentleman. That means to connect with yourself first, having respect for your relationship.”

    ^This. This is the exact kind of female entitlement and narcissism that modern women have rammed into their heads. That just because they have some (often useless) uni degree they are ENTITLED to the perfect man.

    Darling, you don’t know what a REAL MAN is, let alone HALF A MAN, and being a real man has nothing to DO with catering to the whims of a special snowflake like you.

    We’re not “in this together” darling, men are leaving the plantations. It’s you and the cats now. Good men are hind to find because we’re HIDING from YOU! 🙂

    NO WIFE HAPPY LIFE. MGTOW FOREVER!!!

    • BlueLanternMonk

      70%+ of all divorces,are filed by the Wife…..it’s all a matter of financial income. I.e.:
      [Article: March/April/May 2016]
      “Why Is Marriage Thriving Among (and Only Among) the Affluent?”
      Excerpt:
      ‘…but the seeming decline of marriage includes one major caveat: educated elites. When it comes to marriage, divorce, and single motherhood, the 1950s never ended for college-educated Americans, and for college-educated women in particular. According to the researchers Shelly Lundberg, of the University of California, Santa Barbara, and Robert Pollak, of Washington University in St. Louis…’
      “What do women want?”
      – Nikola Tesla

  • The Ghost

    I have to ask why do women get married at all if they dislike men so much? And what benefits does the modern woman offer a man to want to take on marriage with the media and women telling us what Neanderthals men are. All my life since I can remember I’ve been told how bad, useless and how stupid myself and other males are by my own mother, aunts, girls, female teachers, feminist women and the rad-fems, who wish to cull males down to 10% of the world’s population, the mainstream media, politicians, advertisements that depict men as worthless, bumbling buffoons etc., and that all males are abusive, violent, sexual deviants, unintelligent, brutes and pigs etc…. and that women are so good and that all women are victims of oppressive males. That really builds a male’s self esteem, doesn’t it? Women are not allowed to have anything negative said about them if you don’t want to be vilified and hated by today’s society.

    My mother told me to always stand up for girls and women on public transport because they may not feel too well because females feel pain and sickness sometimes and they really need to sit down.

    I knew nothing about women’s periods at that time. When I was 15 wearing my school uniform, I got on a bus home and got a seat. I started to stand up and offer my seat to a well groomed, young twenties-looking woman who got on at the next stop as there were no more seats left. She physically assaulted me by pushing me back down quite hard and I banged my head on a metal support, and then she just yelled and yelled at me, swearing very badly, stating among other things that I was a typical male pig who thought that I was superior to her. She said some pretty awful things to me in front of everyone on the bus. I was just 15 ! I was shaking, feeling sick and feeling really worried, humiliated and embarrassed. I had no idea what I had done that was so wrong! Of course I could not defend myself against her as boys/men aren’t allowed to physically resist her physical assaults.

    There is no way I would get married or even ask a girl out because I don’t want anyone to hate me or cause someone to feel upset and resent me so much, like that time on the bus and what other females have said about my perceived male faults.

    I just want a peaceful life where no-one can get angry with me. I don’t want to live my life feeling guilty because I upset some female for some unknown reason, when I would never deliberately do so, nor would I try to hurt anyone — ever.

    Once I thought I would have liked to marry and have children, but I’m sure that no girl/woman would think any normal man is good enough for them these days. I would have to live life walking on egg-shells all the time, constantly worried that I was upsetting my wife and have her totally resent me – and then lose everything I worked so hard for, only to “legally” lose nearly all my assets, that I acquired by myself, in a divorce settlement to a wife, because I didn’t know how to tick the right boxes for her, and I would be emotionally devastated and financially ruined for what would be left of my life.

    With the very high divorce rates and the large 70% majority of divorces being initiated by wives, it is like playing Russian roulette with 5 bullets in a 6 chambered instead of one bullet.
    And what do women bring to the table these days for men except possible heartbreak and financial ruin?

    I worked very hard in mining and on oil rigs for a few years and even though I am still in my twenties I’ve been able to buy and own outright a small, inexpensive, very neat and cosy log cabin right on the edge of a large lake with 38 acres of good farming land, in the mountain highlands.
    I am completely and totally self-sufficient and off the grid. I have only two older men as neighbours, one lives about 3 miles from me and the other about 5 miles away and I rarely see them. I live in solitude except for my beautiful, very loyal, loving, long-haired German Shepherd male that I purchased from a litter of a well known champion dog breeders who offered complete obedience training to my dog and me.. I have no anxiety and I feel peaceful and content.

    So no female will ever now have to put up with me or resent me as a husband, or as a male. Many, many other young males feel like me, feel that society no longer wants, likes or needs us.

  • Christian Malone

    Articly #6893459867304586703485769456 from a toxic woman, complainging
    about how it’s males fault, when men chose to not slave for women and
    how it all has nothing to do with that toxicity and parasitism of women.
    lol ^^ cuuuuuuuuute:3 #Femtears 😀

  • Mark

    “What security is there for men in marriage? If I cheat on my wife, she
    gets half my s**t. If she cheats on me, she still gets half my s**t. Why
    the f*** should i get married”

    Let’s see….Women have sex with you until you get married then start to cut it off. And I’m supposed to get married?

    Women get half the shit I worked for in the event of a divorce. No thanks.

    Women get the kids in the event of a divorce and I become a human wallet. No thanks (so really it’s much more than half).

    If women don’t get their way then like a spoiled brat they can just call 911 and have the husband arrested (government is their real daddy/husband) for almost anything they wish (and often times they just make it up). No thanks.

    They have all the power and little responsibility. What does that make me? The slave. A wallet. A utility. No thanks.

    Any guy that gets married today is a sub-boy masochist, ignorant or just a plain idiot. You’re really gambling with everything you ever worked for, reputation and maybe even your life.

    • BlueLanternMonk

      A good list. You left out “real man”,though. That’s the honey,we fight the bee for! (Or not) Marriage is dangerous,but cohabitation is too! Palimony exists for just this reason. Sprinkle in a little unpunished false accusation and voila! A recipe for disaster.

  • GORF

    Go MGTOW.

  • StarsCollide

    I admire women who still takes good care of themselves even after getting married and having kids.

    • BlueLanternMonk

      I admire men and women,who take care of themselves,with or without being married. It’s literally the right thing to do! I agree with you. Growing overweight is a primary cause,of the “sexless marriage” or so I hear. I like doing “Planks” and other body weight exercises. What’d you do to stay chiseled?
      “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” -Socrates

      • StarsCollide

        Oh yes! Men AND women need to take care of themselves.
        I eat healthy and workout.

        • BlueLanternMonk

          Yeah,my diet is a little slack handed. I’m working on increasing my fruit and vegetable intake. Right now I’m on a “see food diet” and I exercise like hotcakes,to stay solid. I can’t get pregnant,but I know that a woman would need approximately 1.5 times her normal caloric intake,for the needs of the child. Any more than that and the decreased activity level while being pregnant,would result in unwanted weight gain. Plus “dad bod”,is overrated,so I’ve heard.

          • StarsCollide

            Yes i have heard about Dad bod. People name stuff like it is a new thing when it isn’t. How about “Mom bod”?

            I like “see food diet” too but in moderation. I always eat my fruits in morning that way I give my body the nutrition it needs. There is always a juicer; it would be easy to get the vitamins and minerals from a fruit and vegetable. Take it with you to the gym!

            wow! How many hours do you workout?

            • BlueLanternMonk

              Juice is the best! I’m staying up late. Is it almost tomorrow,where you are? I work out for zero hours,unless I’m playing,then it “doesn’t count”. Taking the juicier?! Do you have a sweet car charger for that?

      • StarsCollide

        Great quote!!! It is a shame to grow old without knowing our body. Some people are shut down, and it saddens me.

        …and I want to do something different this year for me!

        • BlueLanternMonk

          It’s easy to stay or get fit. The secret is to make it obscenely easy. Planks (side,reverse & standard) beat sit ups and crunches,all day. Jumping rope is more efficient than jogging etc. To me going to the gym is pure humor! What do you have planned,to do differently,this year?

          • StarsCollide

            You do them everyday? That is a lot of dedication and hardwork!
            I like to workout at home and follow exercises on Youtube. I’m still thinking about what it is I am going to do differently for this year.

            • BlueLanternMonk

              ….it’s like fun. The more we have,the more we want. Also,I’m going on old and I’m still getting looks,so it can’t be hurting. If your at a loss for good ideas,as to a dynamic improvement this year,I hear lottery tickets are in season.

              • StarsCollide

                You have a sense of humor.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Thank you. This may be the least serious internet conversation,that I’ve ever had!
                  Fembot: Bender, honey, we love you.
                  Bender: Shut up baby,I know it!

                • StarsCollide

                  I can see you like Futurama.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Who doesn’t?! Okay now you try. Throw in a semi-relevant quote,idiom,song lyric etc.,for effect. It’s kinda funny……

                • StarsCollide

                  I do not know anyone who doesn’t like Futurama. I need to watch Season 1-7.

                  Mr. Meeseeks: (2 quotes)
                  Meeseeks don’t usually have to exist for this long. It’s gettin’ weeeiiird…
                  Meeseeks were not born into this world fumbling for meaning, Jerry!

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Haha! Nice. Told ya’ it’s fun!
                  “He was born with a gift of laughter and a sense that the world was mad.” -Rafael Sabatini

            • BlueLanternMonk

              “How To Get A 6-PACK – Build An Athletic Core” (YouTube video)
              Have fun out there!

              • StarsCollide

                That sounds like body building.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Sounds can be are deceiving. Body building is a waste of time. The muscles they build are often not stretched out properly,thus are filled with air,break down quickly,turn to fat and are injured easily. Check the videos out. I only advise you to use what I do,so I can assure it’s effectiveness.
                  “Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality.” -Bruce Lee

                • StarsCollide

                  Muscles must be used everyday, including the mind. We do not want to see it waste away.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  That’s correct,however your previous comment alluded to an important detail,that I omitted. One must rest and regenerate,so “every day” should be “almost every day”!
                  This is one of my morning warm up sets:
                  “Do These 5 Exercises Every Morning – 5 Minute” (YouTube)
                  This video will cover post exercise stretching: “Parkour Warm Up and Stretch” – Natalie Strasser” (YouTube)
                  Always use the following order,for safety and efficiency:
                  Warm-up,Exercise,Cool Down. This will ensure you don’t bulk up or get injured as easily or at best never. I played football for years and was one of very few people to remain uninjured.
                  P.S. what’s your take on women being drafted? I saw an article about it,but didn’t comment,because men have been open to the draft for hundreds of years and women are just now “considering it”. The empty gesture seems like hollow placating,at this point,especially because it’s more likely that we’ll never need another draft,due to increased technological advances. What do you think?

                • StarsCollide

                  Thank you. The last move (Kung fu stretch exercise) is something I look forward to.

                  Awesome you played football for years.

                  You want to know what I think? They say it shows equality. They see it as an opportunity for women to prove themselves that we can also do what men do. Some think it is discriminating women just because we are “helpless” staying at home while taking care of the house and children. I absolutely do not agree on this. Men and women are physically different but are strong in their own ways. How young are they to be sent out? In the midst of war? Women are nurturers; Men are the hunters and protectors. But again, I cannot judge other women who are in favor to sign up because there are women who were part in a military, and it is admirable.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  I agree,for the most part. I suspect no women would be in favor of mandatory draft registry,in exchange for the right to vote,when they already control the entire government,with the free and easy privilege of voting,without the prospect of dying in war. I.e.: I vote republican only because I signed up for the draft registry. Some woman will vote democrat,having never risked anything.
                  Women are risk averse,while men take risks. This is in our nature. My issue is that princess can tell me what to do by proxy of the government,without getting her hands dirty,in the event that her terrible voting strategies,end in war,poverty or both. Men already pay 70% of the taxes and women get 70% of the benefits,men have the vast majority of workplace deaths while women have affirmative action,to keep them in a safe,air conditioned environment. Males are the workhorse,females are the riders,in short.
                  It’s all a joke and the punchline is on men.
                  The super late draft registry won’t cover the betrayal we men experience every day.
                  “If it is to your advantage, make a forward move; if not, stay where you are.”
                  -Sun Tzu
                  [Art of War Chapter 12.19]

                • StarsCollide

                  That explains the video (stretching exercise) you shared on Youtube. I know a few Chinese, but they do not practice these martial arts.

                  “This super late draft registry won’t cover the betrayal we men experience every day.” — It bothers me why would they consider adding women on the list.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Okay,so I was being a little rough,with you. My comment was even semi-accusatory,but you handled it well!
                  ….”It bothers me why would they consider adding women on the list.” -You……The more brave or courageous the man,the more masculine he is. The more risk averse or cautious the woman,the more feminine she is. This is natural and good,however both should be tempered with one another’s strengths. Men get to many “Darwin Awards” and women don’t vote right,for instance. Men have a Justice based Morality and women have a Caring based Morality. I’m upset that the laws and economy are set against me and you may or may not be upset that marriage itself is being abandoned. I can empirically evidence all claims made in this comment,if you please.
                  I didn’t share the best information I have on the subject of physical activity. My youngest brother me introduced me to the proper way to breathe,while he was still an infant. I.e.:
                  “Abdominal Breathing” (by Zoyayoga on YouTube) Babies are smart like that!
                  ……I just want my legal protection,but in lieu of this,I’ve given up entirely.
                  “Better a patient person than a warrior,one with self-control than one who takes a city.”
                  -Proverbs 16.32

                • StarsCollide

                  That’s kind of sad, doesn’t it?

                  Abdominal breathing is the proper way to breathe to circulate the energy in the body. When done properly, it can lead to plenty of benefits! Breathing is what makes us live in the present moment after all the thinking of what was present and what lies in the future. I heard/read about it for a while now. And it will take practice since we get used to shallow breathing. You learn and understand more about myself. The best place to practice is out in nature.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  It’s totally gonna be warm today! I’ve been working on living in the moment and being more aware of myself. Sometimes it’s better to leg go of the prospects and plans for the future,in exchange for possession of the present. I like your attitude,it comes from caring and seems equitable and just. The subject of marriage is important to me,more so than sex,dating or child rearing,so yes “it” being the current sate of affairs,is very sad. These problems are why I’m not in the relationship discussion portion of this site,saying “love does exist”! and “There’s hope for us all!” Etc.,instead I put myself into the “not relationships section”…..this feels unnatural,but I know what I’m up against!
                  I may even know how to countervaile the damage already done. I believe there’s a system that will allow for relative equality between the sexes. I.e.:
                  “How Complementarian is the Bible” (on YouTube) ….this system works regardless of religious beliefs,in that Equality Before the Law and Equality of Opportunity are reinforced by the dynamics contained therein. As for the matters of inequality men and women are discussing,I say that “Equality of Outcomes” is the real problem. I.e. “Regarding Equality” (by TFM on YouTube) We have a female voting majority. They decide what’s up! Several biological and psychological drivers are at play in both men and women’s voting,public policy,education and everywhere else. Our brains are wired differently,among many others. One major issue for males is brought on by “female own group preference” (“Women are Wonderful Effect”-Wikipedia),namely the state,culture and schools are being weaponized against us. We didn’t start it,but we’ll finish it. The Suffrages got the vote,before non-land-owing men. That’s not oppression,it’s special privilege. Were they heroines? Hardly!

                • StarsCollide

                  Thank you for the compliment.

                • StarsCollide

                  I cannot comment much on anything else. It feels personal. I did not notice you weren’t in the relationship section on this site.

                • BlueLanternMonk

                  Fair enough. Communication with women is a waste of time. You all say the same things,for the same reasons. Even the occasional partial exception only proves the rule.

  • Ralph

    Ok well not all are the same.. I for example would love to marry, have kids and a wonderful family.. But I can understand that many other men either aren’t ready because they’re scared or they don’t want to because they thinks it’s “grounding” them which is completely stupid if you ask me..

  • disqus_vG0AOlzetF

    If men and women see each other as the enemy we have a serious problem. People need to grow up. Drop the ego.

    • zocli michael

      go tell this to the government that don’t want to create fair divorce law

    • Insidious Sid

      Feminism is the enemy. Entitlement, individualism, materialism and greed is the enemy. Instant gratification, smart-phones and over-exposure to a constant stream of media and communications is the enemy. Because society is made up of all these things, society is the enemy.

      I don’t need to grow up. I’ve done that, and now I’m looking down on all of this.

      It’s society that has some serious growing up to do.

  • Sam2

    Because I can get everything outside of marriage that I could get in a marriage. Not being married means that the women are cheaper, easier to get ride of, and I don’t have to put up with as much nonsense. Oh and I can keep my options open.

  • Luke

    Your ways of thinking are the right ways, am I right? Instead of having sex, a “real man” will want to make love, right? I was raised on this horseshit. It never made me any happier. That’s not how my MALE MIND is wired. If you can’t love, respect, tolerate or even just ACCEPT maleness for what it is, you can’t really love and honor your male partner.

  • Luke

    Once again, this was a beautiful article. Thank you for continually expressing so much love for men in general in your articles.

    I want to share something I read in a related feminist-relationship article. This girl left a comment about having to share duties with her husband. She gets migraines. That’s why she says it sucks that she has to wake up to feed her baby… even though, she refuses to bottle-feed her baby. It’s like HONESTLY? It sucks that you have to be the one to feed your baby when you’re the one with the biological equipment necessary?? That self-absorbed irresponsible comment made me sick. That’s where we’re at. These feminists have more love for the sisterhood than their own family.

  • Unreal

    “their women are more fulfilled taking care of their kids than they are taking care of their men.”

    The difference? Kids can’t take of themselves.

    • Tanya Rachel Wieczorek

      The point isn’t who can take care of themselves vs who can’t.. the point is how fulfilled a woman feels taking care of each.

      I don’t even have kids and yet I understand the point Renee is making here.

      • Unreal

        It’s because you don’t have kids yet that you don’t understand. Fail.

  • KawiMan

    Married for 18 years once. I will never get married again. Don’t need the drama, moodiness, lies, BS, or expenses in my life. It’s not worth it. When all of the illusions of romance and love is stripped away, all that’s left in a marriage is a financial business contract.

  • The Don Mgtow

    ‘The fast-moving modern world that we live in has ensured that women are working longer hours, juggling more responsibilities, and progressively less able to place their men as their top priority’ … NEWS FLASH.. its not the fast-moving modern world thats done this.. its feminism – fact. The feminist movement pushed for women to essentially be able to take on the responsibilities/employment usually handled by men. Think about it.. and I mean really think about it – men have been doing the vast majority of the employment work life for ALOT LONGER than women have been able to.. and since women have been able to their relative happiness has declined and the social dynamics has been thrown into disarray. There are numerous research articles on this all over the web. Don’t blame society for your own mess.. its yours. If men wanted you in the workforce.. don’t you think it would have happened A LONG time ago?

    What about the pure validity of their comments in regards to the heavily gynocentric court and legal system that puts the vast majority of men into an automatic un-equal situation? You make no mention of it whatsoever.. and I at least noticed. This article has comments from men DIRECTLY related to it and doesn’t make a mention of that in the advice for women. Renee, you look at the emotion of the men’s comments (anger, resentment etc) and nothing else – you even show how men really feel and speaking about what’s important to them and you make some valid suggestions.. but its purely from a gynocentric perspective… again NEWS FLASH.. this isn’t really going to work – you are duping your readers n clients selling them snake oil. Men are wising up to a lot of things really quickly… you are not able to ‘trick’ a smart modern man with just the emotional bribery – the situation doesn’t change i.e. getting into marriage is putting him at a lot of real risk.. especially with the divorce rates being what they are – Its literally a coin flip to know if your life is ruined.. both emotionally and financially. 80% of divorces are INSTIGATED by women.. GEE.. I WONDER WHY THEY ARE SO MORE INCLINED TO INSTIGATE A DIROCE!?!?! (with one of the main reasons declared by these women to be ‘Im not happy’.. pfft).

    The other things feminism has pushed for is no-fault divorce. This is a BIG ONE. A no fault divorce system combined with a heavily gynocentric divorce courts n law system?? I WONDER WHAT KIND OF ENVIRONMENT THAT WOULD PRODUCE HEY? Gynocentric nature.. combined with the nature of humans in general (greedy, manipulative etc) is a recipe for disaster as far as men are concerned.

    You literally have to turn back your position of power in societys ‘system’ to re-balance the situation.. but you want your cake and to eat it too – the modern woman wants to pick and choose what feminism has achieved for your gender.. this is proved to me by the fact you didn’t give any advice to your readers… and don’t try the ‘we cant change the way things are’ victim whine.. cos you would be crying foul of a system women created for themselves.

    Men are to blame too.. but in the following way. 1% of the population (politicians and other men in positions of power) have PANDERED to women to get their support and vote and had no issues in selling out men… but remember this.. in reality these people REACT to society to harness the voting n financial support (its easier than creating it).

    Mgtow_4_life.

    • Luke

      Since day one, feminism has wanted all women to love and respect the sisterhood more than their own families. You can see that in the newest Suffragette movie.

    • Tanya Rachel Wieczorek

      I see your points, but in alot of families or couples, they simply *cannot* live on just one income – the wife must work to make ends meet.

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