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Renee Wade

To be a Feminine is to

To be a “Feminine Woman” is to…

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 33 Comments

Feel pride when you are proud without trying to squish it and make it tiny, feel pride deeply, for it is freeing. Feel pretty, when someone says you’re pretty, deep in to your heart without trying to pretend you’re not basking in the glory, for pretty is a beautiful gift you give to men and women and to the world. Click here to take the quiz on “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?” Feel humiliation, deeply, for it is there to remind you to connect deeper with humans the next time. Feel desire, deeply, feel craving deeply, for it is…

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Vulnerable Craving Hearts attracts Trustworthy and Devoted Man

Vulnerable Craving Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 83 Comments

After work she eats until she numbs herself. When she’s numb from food, she reads a romance novel, maybe watches dramatic TV. When she gets frustrated enough at living love through a stupid-ass novel, she hates other women who have loving husbands to distract her from her true craving for a man. When she becomes too fat for her own ideals, she begins an exercise regime just to feel good enough about herself to keep her authentic craving for a man at bay. When she hates other women long enough for having what she believes she doesn’t have, she uses…

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How masculine jobs and lives can affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine energy

How Masculine Jobs Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine Energy

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 75 Comments

I know that you have a busy day. Just give me 60 seconds and let’s to this quick little exercise. Think about a time where you felt incredibly beautiful. and feminine. Even if you don’t feel beautiful now, you are courageous enough to feel what it was like to feel feminine and beautiful in the past. So, just focus on a time where you just felt beautiful and feminine. I don’t mean attractive, I mean, beautiful and feminine. Attractive is too objective a description for what I’m talking about here. How did you breathe when you went to that time when…

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How to Communicate with an Angry man & become closer afterwards

How to Communicate & Get Closer to An Angry Man

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 4,579 Comments

Our intention to stay connected to a man in an argument is worth gold. Our intention to hold on to resentment and the need to be right in an argument is worth nothing. Any one of us can live our lives from the place of needing to be right. And many of us do. It is a terribly mediocre existence, though, because it is never ending – so the pattern of needing to be right will continue as long as you exhaust yourself trying to be right. It is a doomed cycle and it is the path you need to…

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weak woman

What Makes a Woman Weak VS What Makes Her Strong but Vulnerable

By | All, Confidence | 35 Comments

Weak is what we feel when we are in the process of resisting vulnerability. And we feel weak precisely because we are in the process of resisting being vulnerable. Everyone is naturally vulnerable. Some of us just spend our life pretending we are too good for that stuff. We judge the emotional women. We judge the women who are more concerned with love and family life versus glamour and physical appearance. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) And men? Well, men are vulnerable too…they just don’t express it the same because…

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Why smart Women seek to appreciate & understand Men FIRST

Why Smart Women Seek to Appreciate & Understand Men FIRST

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 40 Comments

One too many a woman has protested my advice in anger, stating that we shouldn’t have to understand men, because what are men doing for US? Why can’t men understand US first? But Renee, what about the fact that not all men are the same? And what about the fact that understanding men is being a man pleaser? I’m going to answer these valid questions, because I understand the hesitation to ‘go first’ and understand them, when your world seems to be full of men who aren’t good enough to be in a relationship with. (Click here to take the…

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10 Reasons why we should Feel and Share our Pain

10 Reasons Why We Should Feel and Share our Pain

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 34 Comments

Have you ever thought; ‘if I can avoid feeling pain, why shouldn’t I?’ Or even thought ‘why feel pain if you don’t have to?’ You don’t have to, really. It is our personal choice. In fact, we as humans naturally have a drive to prefer comfort over pain. Most of us in the world spend our lives striving for comfort – physical and emotional comfort, rather than anything more or less. (Click here to take the quiz on “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) That’s a great thing, we need periods of comfort in our lives… however,…

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how to ensure other women will not take away your man

How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 48 Comments

Dear Friend, When you are in a relationship with a man, sometimes you forget that he has fears too. You think you are the one who needs to be perfect to keep HIM around. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) And so you trust neediness. You trust your need for approval. What some others might called ‘over-functioning’. Over functioning IS seeking approval. Most of the secret ‘things’ you think you can do to be a good enough woman to keep him around is shit he can pay someone for. Washing the dishes, vacuuming,…

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How to Bring out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

How to Bring Out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 150 Comments

Each woman has many different personalities and energies within her. This is one reason why men who are not already in love with one woman (their mind and body is committed to one woman) have a tendency (key word – tendency) to want to experience sex with all different women – it is to experience the different energies of different women. (Click here to take the quiz “How Feminine Am I Actually?”) So, the more we reject different parts of ourselves that are dying to be expressed inside, the less whole we really are, and the less High Value we…

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Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 66 Comments

If you’ve ever asked yourself…’what do men want in a relationship?’ What makes a woman High Value so that she can have almost any man commit to her? (Click here to register to watch the “Commitment Masterclass”) I have an answer below. I can remember the handful of times I came to the realisation that I had been a taker and not a giver in my relationship with my husband. It’s an experience like no other. Because it’s exhilarating. It’s freeing. But before I felt exhilarated, I felt lonely as hell in that realisation and especially in the process of…

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How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 77 Comments

‘I haven’t found a job in 8 months, but I know I will, it’s OK.’ ‘I’m 45 and I’ve never had children and I have always wanted them. It’s OK, there’s still time.’ Positive Thinking is thinking. It’s not feeling. It’s merely a coping strategy. And much to my frustration, depending on when and how we use positive thinking, it has the potential to rob us of our lives. Why? Because it’s not living. Thinking is not necessarily living. Feeling and experiencing and opening to the realness of what’s actually happening IS living. Opening to being vulnerable to people and…

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new perspective on why women are abused

A Different Perspective on Why Male Partners Abuse Women (& how to stop it)

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 167 Comments

Warning: Abuse can be a very serious and very sensitive issue for many women… If you are already in an abusive situation, the perspective of this article may not always serve you, so please take caution in how you interpret this article. If you are in an abusive situation, then for your sake do everything you can to get out of there if you can. You are too important to be continually subjected to abuse, whether that’s physical, emotional, or sexual. You can review safety tips and guidelines for addressing an abusive situation, including getting help and support, understanding the…

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‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark_edited

‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark of a Good Woman

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When we feel the need to be enough and ‘do’ as much as the next woman, girl or mother, are we really a better woman? And do people really care anyway? No, the people who really care about you won’t care whether you do more or not. Only the people who compete with you to feel good about themselves and for variety will care. But they don’t care about YOU, they care about their own good or bad feelings, in that moment. Since becoming Tyson’s Mummy, I realised that I felt this peer pressure (but self imposed of course) to…

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Be willing to be affected

Be Willing to Be Affected by A Man’s Problems in a High Value Way

By | All, Relationship Issues | 40 Comments

I can remember a long time ago, my husband and I were talking and I was feeling very frustrated, trying to tell him that I was upset about our relationship was affected when he was in a period of intense work mode. Those intense work modes can last a while, when they do come, and I inevitably feel scared at some point during those times, because his attention is all taken up, and even the slightest interruption on my part could cost his work. Also, in those times, my usual ways of getting his attention don’t work as well. (Click…

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Woman’s Task is to Overcome the Need to Blame

Your Job is to Overcome the Need to Blame Him

By | All, Attraction, Relationship Issues | 44 Comments

In our most basic un-evolved state, we as women tend to blame the man in our life for our problems. If we try not to, we do it indirectly anyway. Guilt is such a big emotion for most women, and it is wired in to us like you wouldn’t believe. So, subconsciously, we can work very hard to try to get someone to come closer to us or do something for us by blaming them to induce guilt in them, because in our world, guilt motivates US to do things differently; so we think it might do the same for…

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