Our team here at The Feminine Woman is happy to announce the merging and acquisition of Stalking Victims.
For all those visiting wanting more resources on being a victim of stalking, please see Linden Gross’s book “Surviving a stalker”.
For a long time, Linden has kept The Stalking Victims’ Sanctuary as a way to support other victims of stalking, and she has done a great job of creating a place for people who are being stalked to get more support.
We believe it is very important for women to learn how to be “stalker safe”, and especially in the internet age. So much of our information and details have been posted online, with little thought of the potential consequences.
(Remember, there are predators everywhere, especially online and you don’t want to be an easy target.)
If you are in an abusive relationship right now, it’s important for you to find the resources to get out of that situation. Let me share a different perspective on why men abuse women right here.
It’s important for women to understand and see the signs of a toxic relationship before it becomes so abusive that you cannot leave. Sometimes you need to listen to the signals your gut is telling you. A lot of people have a gut feeling about a new toxic partner, but they deign to listen to it.
Just remember that if you don’t, you could end up in the deep end of a toxic situation with someone. That means that sometimes, you must pull away quick.
One reason why men who are predators gravitate towards feminine women is because they intuitively know that they are stronger physically and more dominant in general. Some men take advantage of this fact. Not all of course, but some do!
(They perhaps also know that feminine women are more vulnerable and tend not to stand up to their stalker or attacker.)
If you’ve been in an abusive relationship for any time over a year, it’s important to get out and take time to regain your sense of identity. Not only that, but getting out will allow you the opportunity to recalibrate yourself to what healthy relationships look like.
After all, your idea of “normal” would be very skewed if you tolerate abuse for any period of time. You simply become unable to see what is healthy and what is not.
Not only that, but don’t just assume that if you decide to leave an abusive relationship, that your abuser will just stop targeting you.
It is in fact when you leave or break up with an abusive person that they are more likely to threaten your emotional, psychological and physical safety. Of course, that can include some form of stalking behaviour.
Ultimately it’s not just about understanding men and why some choose to stalk, it’s about keeping yourself safe above all else.
To do that, you can start with educating yourself. My team and I have put together over 200 articles, and many of them are on the topic of having healthy and safe relationships without abuse. Browse through all of them here on this page.
I hope you enjoy your stay here at The Feminine Woman. Don’t forget to leave a comment and share with us your thoughts.

If you’re looking for my articles, here is a quick list…
- Why Some Men Never Want to Marry A Woman
- 5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Deprive Their Man of Sex
- Why Men Pull Away & How to Deal With It As A High Value Woman
- Why Do Guys Like BJ? 6 Reasons Why Guys REALLY Like Blowjobs
- 5 Simple Signs He is NOT An Alpha Male
- How to Deal With Jealous Women in Your LIfe
- How To Be A High Value Woman in 2021: 3 Traits To Avoid!
- Are Men Intimidated by You or Just NOT Attracted to You?
- Why Men Just Won’t Commit to You?
- Don’t Expect a Man to Put more “Effort” in to Your Relationship than You
- Is casual sex harmless? Consequences of casual sex on women
- Understanding Men: 5 Insights on How to Understand Him Better
- The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense
- The Truth: What Men Are Looking for When They Push You for Sex
- 6 Keys to Respecting A Masculine Man
- Why There’s No Such Thing as a Home-wrecker!
- A Different Perspective on Why Male Partners Abuse Women (& how to stop it)
- When is it the Right Time to Sleep With A Man?
- How To Be A Classy Lady in 7 Steps
- The Real Pain of When Men Pull Away & How To React in A High Value Way
- How Most Women Reject their Femininity & How You Can Stand Out from the Crowd
- THIS is Why Men Don’t Call More Often…
- 27 Feminine Hobbies for Women Without breaking the Bank
- Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving
- How Birth Control Pills Wreck Havoc On Your Feminine Hormones
- 10 Signs of a Commitment Phobic Man
- He Pays for His Ex Girlfriend’s Bills but Won’t Pay for Mine?
- This Is Why Women REALLY Push Men Away
- The 6 Rules You Must Know BEFORE Buying A Man Any Gift
- Dealing with Passive Aggressive and Difficult Women
- 3 Reasons Why you Haven’t Found the Right Man Yet
- What to do When He Takes You for Granted: 3 Reasons Why & How to Stop it.
- What is Femininity & How to Be Your True Feminine Self
- Do Men Prefer Younger Women?
- How to Make a Man Want Me and ONLY Me?
- He’s not ‘Making EXCUSES’, You Just Haven’t Inspired His Commitment
- Dangers of Rori Raye’s Circular Dating in the Real World
- Is it Wise to Pick A Man Who Loves You More Than You Love Him?
- Sneak Peek in to the First Chapter of my New Book
- A Warning about Girlfriends who Don’t Compliment You
- 5 Reasons to Go Without Makeup
- 5 “Must-Follow” Rules for Dating & Relationships for Women
- How to Communicate & Get Closer to An Angry Man
- How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear
- How to Comfort A Masculine Man
- How Masculine Jobs Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine Energy
- Feminine Energy: Myths, Truths & How to Exude Your Unique Femininity
- A Letter to Men: How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail
- How to be More Feminine: 18 Ways of a Soft Feminine Woman
- Are men really more attracted to airheads over the strong and successful women?
- 4 Steps to Maintain High Value When He Doesn’t Call or Text
- It’s OK to Need A Man, It Really Is!
- How To deal with Jealousy in Your Relationship
- The One Perfect Thing to Say When A Man Says He Wants “Space”
- What Makes A Woman Boring & How Not to be Boring to Men
- The 9 Dangers of “Leaning Back” & Why It’s Not Feminine
- Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It?
- Why Do Men Really Fall For Drama Queens
- How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships
- Why Men Go Hot & Cold & 5 Things You Need to Do…
- Why It’s OK (And Even Attractive) For Women To Cry Any Damn Time
- What if He is Heavily in to Video Games?
- Why Men Pull Away When You Need Them the Most
- How to Open Up in a relationship: 5 Questions to Become Vulnerable
- Should I Put More of the Blame on Men for Failed Relationships?
- How & Why You Should Surrender To The Masculine Energy
- How to Deal with Fear of Being Alone and Him Leaving You?
- Mistakes Women Make to Destroy Sexual Polarity with Men
- The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 2)
- Can You Really Expect Your Man to be Monogamous?
- Vulnerable Craving Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men
- How to Be Submissive In A Relationship
- How Other Women Can Ruin Your Happiness With a Man
- The One Masculine Skill Every Feminine Woman Must Have in Dating
- The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man
- 19 Ways Of A High Value, Feminine Girlfriend
- What to Do When You Feel Threatened by Other Women?
- The Temperament of A Modern Feminine Woman
- 6 KEY Differences Between a Little Girl and a Real Woman
- 3 Reasons Why Women Fail to Attract High Quality Men
- What is wife material?
- What Every Woman Ought to Know About Trusting a Man
- How the Fear of Abandonment Can Make You More Beautiful…
- Why He Pulls Away when you spend time Together & How to Deal with it
- 12 Secret Reasons Some People Will Always Be Distant From You
- A Desperate Wife – How Can She Save Her Marriage?
- How to Be A Real Lady
- Feminine Peeves – Men & Their Dirty Socks
- “Isn’t SHE Pretty?” He Asked Her…
- Are You Masculine, Feminine or Neutral? A Quiz
- The Dark Side of Femininity
- How to Talk to a Man in a Way that Won’t Make him Pull Away and Go Cold
- How to Deal with Depression Without Positive Thinking
- How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You
- How to be More Confident With Men Right Now
- How to Attract High Quality Men Without Being Low Value
- 7 Burning Signs a Man is Being Low Value
- How to Attract a Man who Gives you EVERYTHING
- Your Job is to Overcome the Need to Blame Him
- How you are Nothing Compared to Angelina Jolie (and other subconscious messages)
- The 3 Qualities of A Feminine Goddess
- Polyamorous Relationships: He Wants One. What Do I do?
- What Makes a Woman Weak VS What Makes Her Strong & High Value
- How to Solve A Relationship Problem
- Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully
- Why Every Woman Should Look Up to Her Man
- The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 1)
- The 3 Keys to Creating An Outstanding Surprise
- 6 Behaviours You Should Never Tolerate In A Man
- The Secret to Being Your Real Authentic Self
- ‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark of a Good Woman
- Dressing Feminine In The Workplace – Will You be Taken Seriously?
- How to Be Radiant Beyond Your Wildest Dreams and Have Any Man You Want
- Think You’ve “Given too Much” to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.
- Polarity Problems When She is His Boss…
- Do NOT Chase Him. Learn to Initiate in High Value Ways instead.
- The Root of Ecstasy is Also Attachment
- What to Do If A Man Just Wants a “Casual” Relationship
- The Fastest Way to Push A Man Away
- Make Men Fall in Love This Valentine’s Day
- How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups?
- Light and Dark Feminine: A Quick Contrast
- He Says He Misses You but Does He Really?
- Why Smart Women Seek to Appreciate & Understand Men FIRST
- Be Willing to Be Affected by A Man’s Problems in a High Value Way
- If You Keep Doing THIS You will Always Be Single
- Polyamory: Why It Would Never Work Long-Term
- 5 Unusual Signs a man is falling In Love With You
- How to Get Him To Propose and Marry You Without Looking Low Value
- How to be the World’s Most Confident Woman
- The Secret of Eliminating Female Competition
- How to Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You
- Boring Women Versus Crazy Women
- 10 Steps to Healthier & More Feminine Hair
- The Real Definition of A Strong Woman
- Don’t be a Woman Who Tries to Fit In
- High Powered Career, Trust, and Your Relationship with Men
- 8 Keys to Instant Feminine Charm; How to be a charming woman
- Mediocre Women and Negativity
- Your Man Tells You To “F**k Off”… Now What?
- How to Deal With Loneliness As A Feminine Soul
- The Relationship Advice Women Should Never Take
- How to Radiate Deeper Femininity and Attract Men You Can Trust
- To be a “Feminine Woman” is to…
- Finding Your True Purpose as A Feminine Woman
- What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams
- If He Loves You More Than You Love Him, Is It Worth a Chance?
- Getting Lured in, Tricked & Dumped By A Man On Facebook?
- 7 Steps to Instant Feminine Poise
- How to Be A Woman of Mystery and Feminine Allure
- Make it Easy for Your Man to Succeed
- When He Stops Chasing You & Being Romantic: What To Do?
- How to Get out of Pain in Your Relationship Right Now
- Not Wanting to Manipulate Makes us Manipulative
- Should A Man Provide for A Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK?
- 10 Reasons Why We Should Feel and Share our Pain
- How to Turn Down a Guy
- Dancing Naked, Slut Shaming, and Shit Sex…
- How Men and Women Destroy Each Other With Love
- Check These 7 Things Before “The Commitment Talk” Threatens Your Relationship
- 4 Top Secret Ways to Access Your High Value Vulnerability
- 3 Undercover Ways to be More High Value Over Other Women & Get Him to Choose You
- Is there a High Value way to deal with Judgemental Assholes?
- The Cost of Being A One Dimensional Woman
- The Rareness of Loyalty and How to Find It
- Polyamory: 10 Reasons Why It Would Never Work Long-Term
- The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 3)
- How to Achieve Lasting Youthfulness & Feminine Radiance
- Why Can’t I be Loved for Who I Am?
- The Truth about the Words “I’ve Already Tried That”
- Why Marriage Vows Are Not Important
- Fake Feminine Energy Versus Authentic Femininity
- Growing Apart in a Long Term Relationship
- 7 Steps to Develop Character as a Feminine Woman
- How Searching for Momentary Pleasure is Killing You Softly
- How to make him fall in love with you: 5 Unconventional Ways To Make Him Love You More
- So What If You Think You’re Hot?
- How Can One Be High Value In A Society That Keeps Us Insecure?
- The True Power of Femininity
- Why the 80/20 Rule of Contacting a Man will Likely Make You LOSE Him
- 6 Burning Signs he doesn’t want a relationship with you
- How Your Refusal to Grieve Makes You A ‘One of Many’ Type of Woman
- Having Too Much Baggage: The New Excuse for Being Gutless
- 3 Steps to Instant Good Posture
- 3 Options When You’re Stuck with Bad Female Friends
- 10 Ultimate Signs of a Healthy Relationship
- Why He TALKED Marriage & Babies with You, and Then Disappeared
- 3 Ways to Fail at Connecting with People
- 10 Seemingly Harmless Signs of a Toxic Relationship
- Feminine and Masculine Energy in Same-Sex Relationships
- What is Feminine Beauty? (Part 1)
- The Problem with Saying “I’m Sorry”…
- 8 Shocking Reasons Why Rotational Dating Can Be Low Value
- Why does he keep me around if he doesn’t want a relationship?
- Your Resentment For Men…
- Abandonment Issues: The Definitive Guide to Test & Overcome your fear of abandonment
- The Warning Signals that He is NOT the Man You Want to Devote Your Life To
- Why Men Don’t Put More Effort into the Relationship?
- How to make him chase you & value you [High Value Women Secrets]
- Stop Trying to Do the Right Thing
- Is Your Man Really Your Mr. Right?
- What is Feminine Beauty? (Part 2)
- Women Who Date for Resources VS Women Who Date for True Love
- The Difference Between Not Talking & Truly Listening
- Achieving Feminine Beauty and Health with Coconut Oil
- 5 Advanced Ways To Have Close Relationships That Others Envy
- What Is Femininity?
- How To Go From Self-sufficient Single To A Connected Couple
- The Power of Your Words On Men
- What is Love to A Man and How to Give It?
- Music To Inspire Your Natural Femininity
- 3 Reasons why it is High Value For Women To OFFER To Pay On the First Date
- Can A Man who is Broke Or Jobless Still be High Value?
- Your Ideal Relationship: Creating Lasting Love, Passion
- How to Find a Good Man & Have a Lasting Relationship…
- Stop Trying So Hard With Men, You’re Doing It Wrong
- 10 Telltale Signs He Is A Highly Evolved, Deeply Masculine Alpha Male
- Why Being Feminine is NOT Always High Value
- He Said Another Woman Is More Attractive Than Me. How Do I Cope? [A Guide]
- Unhealthy Power Struggles in Relationships
- How do You Stay Calm when he Doesn’t Text Back? 4 Steps to Stay Calm & High Value
- Why Do Men Ghost good Women? 3 Reasons Men Go Ghost on you
- How to get out of the friend zone with a guy [New Guide]
- Finding Your Knight in Shining Armour and Keeping Him
- Is He Serious About You or Just “Interested”? Critical Distinction.
- What Kind of Man is Right for You?
- How to stop gaslighting in relationships [examples, signs & cure]
- Is this Man Going to Propose or What?
- How to get a boyfriend: avoid these 3 things & get one quick
- 3 Giant Red Flags You MUST Avoid when dating a new person
- 4 Questions to Ask Yourself to Know If He Is The Right Man
- Is it Really “Feminine” to Receive? (& other crazy myths about masculine & feminine energy)
- The Women Men Commit to Versus the Women Men Leave
- What makes a man leave his wife for another woman?
- How To Be Vulnerable Without Being Needy (With Examples)
- Relationship Timeline: Men VS Women
- Why Do I push People Away? Signs You push people away & How to stop.
- Should I Control my Emotions to be high value?
- How to Test him to see if he cares [The Definitive Test]
- Emotionally Unavailable Men: How to Deal with them [New Guide]
- How to Make Him Miss You in 5 Simple Steps
- The No.1 Trait of Dating Profiles that Men Fall in Love With
- The Wild Woman’s Way – An interview with Michaela Boehm