Our team here at The Feminine Woman is happy to announce the merging and acquisition of Stalking Victims.
For all those visiting wanting more resources on being a victim of stalking, please see Linden Gross’s book “Surviving a stalker”.
For a long time, Linden has kept The Stalking Victims’ Sanctuary as a way to support other victims of stalking, and she has done a great job of creating a place for people who are being stalked to get more support.
We believe it is very important for women to learn how to be “stalker safe”, and especially in the internet age. So much of our information and details have been posted online, with little thought of the potential consequences.
(Remember, there are predators everywhere, especially online and you don’t want to be an easy target.)
If you are in an abusive relationship right now, it’s important for you to find the resources to get out of that situation. Let me share a different perspective on why men abuse women right here.
It’s important for women to understand and see the signs of a toxic relationship before it becomes so abusive that you cannot leave. Sometimes you need to listen to the signals your gut is telling you. A lot of people have a gut feeling about a new toxic partner, but they deign to listen to it.
Just remember that if you don’t, you could end up in the deep end of a toxic situation with someone. That means that sometimes, you must pull away quick.
One reason why men who are predators gravitate towards feminine women is because they intuitively know that they are stronger physically and more dominant in general. Some men take advantage of this fact. Not all of course, but some do!
(They perhaps also know that feminine women are more vulnerable and tend not to stand up to their stalker or attacker.)
If you’ve been in an abusive relationship for any time over a year, it’s important to get out and take time to regain your sense of identity. Not only that, but getting out will allow you the opportunity to recalibrate yourself to what healthy relationships look like.
After all, your idea of “normal” would be very skewed if you tolerate abuse for any period of time. You simply become unable to see what is healthy and what is not.
Not only that, but don’t just assume that if you decide to leave an abusive relationship, that your abuser will just stop targeting you.
It is in fact when you leave or break up with an abusive person that they are more likely to threaten your emotional, psychological and physical safety. Of course, that can include some form of stalking behaviour.
Ultimately it’s not just about understanding men and why some choose to stalk, it’s about keeping yourself safe above all else.
To do that, you can start with educating yourself. My team and I have put together over 200 articles, and many of them are on the topic of having healthy and safe relationships without abuse. Browse through all of them here on this page.
I hope you enjoy your stay here at The Feminine Woman. Don’t forget to leave a comment and share with us your thoughts.
If you’re looking for my articles, here is a quick list…
- Why Some Men Never Want to Marry A Woman
- 5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Deprive Their Man of Sex
- Why Men Pull Away: 9 Signs & How to Stay High Value
- Why Do Guys Like BJ? 6 Reasons Why Guys REALLY Like Blowjobs
- 5 Simple Signs He is NOT An Alpha Male
- How To Deal With Jealous Women & 7 Signs She’s Jealous
- 6 Traits Of A High Value Woman (& 3 Habits You Must Avoid!)
- Are Men Intimidated by You or Just NOT Attracted to You?
- Why Men Just Won’t Commit to You?
- Is Casual Sex Harmless? Consequences Of Casual Sex On Women
- Don’t Expect a Man to Put more “Effort” in to Your Relationship than You
- How To Understand Men? 5 Insights on Men To Ease Your Worries
- The Truth: What Men Are Looking for When They Push You for Sex
- The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense
- Why There’s No Such Thing as a Home-wrecker!
- 6 Keys to Respecting A Masculine Man
- Why Men Abuse Women (& how to stop it)
- When is it the Right Time to Sleep With A Man?
- How To Be A Classy Lady in 7 Steps
- The Real Pain of When Men Pull Away & How To React in A High Value Way
- How Most Women Reject their Femininity & How You Can Stand Out from the Crowd
- THIS is Why Men Don’t Call More Often…
- 27 Feminine Hobbies for Women Without breaking the Bank
- Pleasers Lose Out: The Difference Between Pleasing & Giving
- 10 Appalling Signs of a Commitment Phobic Man
- This Is Why Women REALLY Push Men Away
- He Pays for His Ex Girlfriend’s Bills but Won’t Pay for Mine?
- The 6 Rules You Must Know BEFORE Buying A Man Any Gift
- Dealing with Passive Aggressive and Difficult Women
- A Warning about Girlfriends who Don’t Compliment You
- What is Femininity & How to Be Your True Feminine Self
- 3 Reasons Why you Haven’t Found the Right Man Yet
- Do Men Prefer Younger Women? Or Do They Want something ELSE?
- What to do When He Takes You for Granted: 3 Reasons Why & How to Stop it.
- Is it Wise to Pick A Man Who Loves You More Than You Love Him?
- He’s not ‘Making EXCUSES’, You Just Haven’t Inspired His Commitment
- How to Make a Man Want Me and ONLY Me?
- Dangers of Rori Raye’s Circular Dating in the Real World
- How to Communicate & Get Closer to An Angry Man
- Sneak Peek in to the First Chapter of my New Book
- 5 “Must-Follow” Rules for Dating & Relationships for Women
- How to Comfort A Masculine Man
- How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail (A Letter To Men)
- How Masculine Jobs Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine Energy
- The One Perfect Thing to Say When A Man Says He Wants “Space”
- Feminine Energy: Myths, Truths & How to Exude Your Unique Femininity
- How to be More Feminine: 18 Ways of a Soft Feminine Woman
- Why Do Men Really Fall For Drama Queens
- 4 Steps to Maintain High Value When He Doesn’t Call or Text
- Are Men Really More Attracted To Airheads Over The Strong And Successful Women?
- 8 Mistakes Women Make to Destroy Sexual Polarity with Men
- What To Do if He is Heavily in to Video Games?
- Do I Need A Man? Yes You Do & Here’s Why It’s OK.
- How To deal with Jealousy in A Relationship: The Dos & Don’ts
- What Makes A Woman Boring & How Not to be Boring to Men
- The 9 Dangers of “Leaning Back” & Why It’s Not Feminine
- Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It?
- Blame In relationships: Should I Put More of the Blame on Men?
- 7 Reasons Why Men Go Hot & Cold + What You Need To Do
- How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships
- Why It’s OK (And Even Attractive) For Women To Cry Any Damn Time
- Why Men Pull Away When You Need Them the Most
- How to Open Up in a relationship: 5 Questions to Become Vulnerable
- The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 2)
- How & Why You Should Surrender To The Masculine Energy
- How to Deal with Fear of Being Alone and Him Leaving You?
- How Other Women Can Ruin Your Happiness With a Man
- Can Men be Monogamous? 2 Things That Make It Possible
- The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man
- Vulnerable Yearning Hearts Attract Devoted and Trustworthy Men
- The One Masculine Skill Every Feminine Woman Must Have in Dating
- How to Be Submissive In A Relationship
- How To Stop Feeling Threatened by Other Women [in 3 High Value Steps]
- 19 Ways Of A High Value, Feminine Girlfriend
- The Temperament of A Modern Feminine Woman
- 3 Reasons Why Women Fail to Attract High Quality Men
- 6 KEY Differences Between a Little Girl and a Real Woman
- What Is Wife Material? 13 Wifey Traits Men Always Look For
- What Every Woman Ought to Know About Trusting a Man
- 7 Burning Signs a Man is Being Low Value
- How the Fear of Abandonment Can Make You More Beautiful…
- 12 Secret Reasons Some People Will Always Be Distant From You
- Why He Pulls Away when you spend time Together & How to Deal with it
- How to Be A Real Lady
- How to Talk to a Man So He Won’t Pull Away & Go Cold
- “Isn’t SHE Pretty?” He Asked Her…
- The Dark Side of Femininity
- The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 1)
- How to Deal with Depression Without Positive Thinking
- How you are Nothing Compared to Angelina Jolie (and other subconscious messages)
- How to Attract Men in 2 High Value Steps
- How to be More Confident With Men Right Now
- Polyamorous Relationships: He Wants One. What Do I do?
- How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You
- The 4 Qualities Of A Feminine Goddess
- How to Attract a Man who Gives you EVERYTHING
- How to Solve Relationship Issues In 5 Proven Steps
- Dressing Feminine In The Workplace – Will You be Taken Seriously?
- Your Job is to Overcome the Need to Blame Him
- What Makes a Woman Weak VS What Makes Her Strong & High Value
- 6 Behaviours You Should Never Tolerate In A Man
- The Secret to Being Your Real Authentic Self
- Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully
- ‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark of a Good Woman
- How to Be Radiant Beyond Your Wildest Dreams and Have Any Man You Want
- Light and Dark Feminine: A Quick Contrast
- Think You’ve “Given too Much” to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.
- Attachment Is the Root Of Suffering BUT Is It Really?
- Polarity Problems When She is His Boss…
- Do NOT Chase Him! Initiate in High Value Ways instead.
- Polyamory: 10 Reasons Why It Would Never Work Long-Term
- The Secret of Eliminating Female Competition
- The Fastest Way to Push A Man Away
- How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups?
- What to Do If A Man Just Wants a “Casual” Relationship
- Make Men Fall in Love This Valentine’s Day
- When He Says He Misses You: But Does He Really?
- How To Appreciate A Man: Seek to Understand Him FIRST
- Polyamory: Why It Would Never Work Long-Term
- Be Willing to Be Affected by A Man’s Problems in a High Value Way
- How to Get Him To Propose and Marry You Without Looking Low Value
- If You Keep Doing THIS You will Always Be Single
- 5 Unusual Signs a man is falling In Love With You
- Feminine Confidence: 2 Exercises To Be The World’s Most Confident Woman
- Boring Women Versus Crazy Women
- 10 Steps to Healthier & More Feminine Hair
- The Real Definition of A Strong Woman
- How to Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You
- How to Radiate Deeper Femininity and Attract Men You Can Trust
- 8 Keys to Instant Feminine Charm; How to be a charming woman
- Don’t be a Woman Who Tries to Fit In
- High Powered Career, Trust, and Your Relationship with Men
- Finding Your True Purpose as A Feminine Woman
- How to Deal With Loneliness As A Feminine Soul
- Your Man Tells You To “Fuck Off”… Now What?
- The Relationship Advice Women Should Never Take
- 7 Steps to Instant Feminine Poise
- To be a “Feminine Woman” is to…
- How to Be A Woman of Mystery and Feminine Allure
- The Secret Cost For Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 3)
- If He Loves You More Than You Love Him, Is It Worth a Chance?
- Should A Man Provide for A Woman 100%? Or is 50/50 OK?
- How to Get out of Pain in Your Relationship Right Now
- Not Wanting to Manipulate Makes us Manipulative
- When He Stops Chasing You & Being Romantic: What To Do?
- Check These 7 Things Before “The Commitment Talk” Threatens Your Relationship
- What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams
- Dancing Naked, Slut Shaming, and Shit Sex…
- 10 Reasons Why We Should Feel and Share our Pain
- How to Turn Down a Guy? 6 Proven Ways To Let Him Down
- How Men and Women Destroy Each Other With Love
- 4 Top Secret Ways to Access Your High Value Vulnerability
- 3 Undercover Ways to be More High Value Over Other Women & Get Him to Choose You
- The Cost of Being A One Dimensional Woman
- The Rareness of Loyalty and How to Find It
- How to Achieve Lasting Youthfulness & Feminine Radiance
- 6 Burning Signs He Doesn’t Want A Relationship With You
- Why Can’t I be Loved for Who I Am?
- 7 Steps to Develop Character as a Feminine Woman
- Why Marriage Vows Are Not Important
- Fake Femininity Versus Authentic Femininity: 5 Things that Make You REAL
- Growing Apart in a Long Term Relationship
- Women Who Date Married Men: 11 Hush-Hush Reasons They Do It
- How to make him fall in love with you: 5 Unconventional Ways To Make Him Love You More
- Unhealthy Female friendships: 3 Options When You’re Stuck with Bad Friends
- 15 Signs Of Abandonment Issues & How To Test For Them
- How To Make Him Chase You & Value You [High Value Women Secrets]
- Why the 80/20 Rule of Contacting a Man will Likely Make You LOSE Him
- How Your Refusal to Grieve Makes You A ‘One of Many’ Type of Woman
- 3 Steps to Instant Good Feminine Posture
- Having Too Much Baggage: The New Excuse for Being Gutless
- The True Power of Femininity & How To Use It To Your Advantage
- 10 Ultimate Signs of a Healthy Relationship
- Why does he keep me around if he doesn’t want a relationship?
- Why He TALKED Marriage & Babies with You, and Then Disappeared
- 8 Shocking Reasons Why Rotational Dating Can Be Low Value
- Feminine and Masculine Energy in Same-Sex Relationships
- 10 Seemingly Harmless Signs of a Toxic Relationship
- Saying Sorry Too Much In A Relationship: Is It A Problem?
- 3 Reasons why it is High Value For Women To OFFER To Pay On the First Date
- How To Get Revenge On Your Ex Boyfriend In 7 Easy Steps
- How To Self Soothe Anxious Attachment In 2 Easy Steps
- What is Feminine Beauty? 7 Tips To Achieve Superior Femininity
- Beware These 5 Warning Signs On How He Treats you
- Why Men Don’t Put More Effort into the Relationship?
- Your Resentment For Men…
- Women Who Date for Resources VS Women Who Date for True Love
- Is Your Man Really Your Mr. Right?
- Achieving Feminine Beauty and Health with Coconut Oil
- The Difference Between Not Talking & Truly Listening
- What is Feminine Beauty? (Part 2)
- 10 Telltale Signs He Is A Highly Evolved, Deeply Masculine Alpha Male
- How to get Close To People? 5 Advanced Ways.
- He Said Another Woman Is More Attractive Than Me. How Do I Cope?
- What Is Femininity?
- How To Go From Self-sufficient Single To A Connected Couple
- How To Tell What A Guy Wants From You [2 Hidden Strategies]
- How To Build Emotional Connection With A Man: Game Changer
- What is Love For A Man? 3 Things That make Him Feel LOVED
- Your Ideal Relationship: Creating Lasting Love, Passion
- Is He Serious About You or Just “Interested”? Critical Distinction.
- How to Find a Good Man & Have a Lasting Relationship…
- Is it Smart For Women To Look For A Rich Man?
- Can A Man who is Broke Or Jobless Still be High Value?
- Why Being Feminine is NOT Always High Value
- Why Do Men Ghost? 3 Ghastly Reasons & How To Get Closure
- Is it Really “Feminine” to Receive? (& other crazy myths about masculine & feminine energy)
- How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone With A Guy [New Guide]
- How To Get A Boyfriend: Avoid These 3 Things & Get One Quick
- How do You Stay Calm when he Doesn’t Text Back? 4 Steps to Stay Calm & High Value
- The One Being Pursued Has The Power In A Relationship: Is It True?
- Can’t Trust Anyone? 6 Hidden Signs They’re Untrustworthy
- 12 Blatant Signs A Married Man Is Using You
- Gaslighting In A Relationship: 10 Examples & How To Stop It
- Finding Your Knight in Shining Armour and Keeping Him
- 5 Classic Rebound Relationship Stages Your Ex Is Hiding
- How To Be Vulnerable With A Man Without Being Needy: 2 Examples
- Is this Man Going to Propose or What?
- What Kind of Man is Right for Me? Here’s How You Know
- How To Tell Him I Like Him: 3 Low Risk & High Value Ways
- 12 Anxious Attachment Triggers: How to Recognise & Heal Them
- Rebound Relationships: 15 Signs You’re The Rebound (& FAQ)
- 4 Types Of Attachment Styles In Relationships: Which One’s Yours?
- What Makes A Man Leave His Wife For Another Woman?
- 3 Giant Red Flags You MUST Avoid when dating a new person
- Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to offend Men!
- The Women Men Commit to Versus the Women Men Leave
- Why Do I keep dreaming About My Ex? 8 Extraordinary Reasons
- 4 Questions to Ask Yourself to Know If He Is The Right Man
- Can A Man Sleep With A Woman Without Developing Feelings? The Honest Answer
- Will I Ever Find Love? Fix These 4 Innocent Mistakes & Find It
- What Is Banter & How To Banter With Men To Build Attraction?
- Relationship Timeline: Men VS Women
- Why Do I Push People Away? & 7 Signs You Push People Away
- Emotionally Unavailable Men: 9 Signs & How To Deal With Them
- How to Make Him Miss You in 5 Simple Steps
- How To Test Him To See If He Cares [The Definitive Test]
- How to tell if a guy likes you: 6 signs & 1 test
- Should I Control My Emotions To Be High Value?
- 11 Genius Ways To Communicate To An Avoidant Partner
- 12 Concealed Signs He is Pretending Not To Like You
- The No.1 Trait of Dating Profiles that Men Fall in Love With
- How To Create Emotional Attraction With Men & 5 Signs He Feels It
- Why Do I Get Attached So Easily? 6 Exact Reasons & How To Stop
- The Wild Woman’s Way – An Interview With Michaela Boehm