The greatest defining moment in your relationship occurs when your man pulls away...

Discover the secret to showing up & staying as a high value woman when your man pulls away so that he can come back to you with more interest, more desire & more appreciation for you.

(...even when you are scared and desperate to have him back!)

Re: If you don’t know how to respond to your man pulling away, withdrawing, going cold…

He hasn’t called in SO MANY days!

What’s going on? Is it me? Did I do something wrong?

I thought we were going well… we connected so well!

Let me check my phone… nothing.

Slight panic starts to set in… Should I send him a message? Should I check on whether he’s ok?

No, I shouldn’t do that!!! Or should I?

He was texting me so much before this happened… he was so interested in me… did something happen? Did he lose interest?

Did he find someone else???

Hey It’s Renee here the founder of The Feminine Woman and co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach you how to show up in a high value high status way so that you can easily inspire a deep emotional sense of commitment from a high value man.

I know you’ve felt this way before. I certainly have. In fact, every woman I’ve known, has felt this way before.

This is definitely not a unique problem. (I mean, shouldn’t men know that it hurts us when they pull away?)

Like most men who are not in tune with women - no, they are not sensitive to how it affects us when they disappear, go cold and pulls away from the relationship.

(Of course, men have their own reason to do so, which we will talk about in a moment.)

And what’s worse, is that him pulling away is always at an unexpected time. He never gives you any warnings… it just happens and leaves you hanging.

I totally understand how all this would make you feel deep down inside. I think most of us women go through the same experience when our man pulls away.

And it’s easy just to do whatever feels right in those desperate moments, but let me just hold that thought for a second.

I want to tell you something important.

How you deal with those times when he pulls away, will ultimately determine the future and destiny of your relationship. Fears and insecurities will ultimately cause a lot more damage to your relationship than you can imagine.

It is absolutely critical that you show up as a high value woman in those moments when your man pulls away… let me explain why...

How you deal with those times when your man pulls away, will determine the future of your relationship.

There are a few “make or break”  moments in any relationship. How these moments turn out will permanently affect the future of that relationship.  

When your man pulls away from you, especially the first few times, are definitely make or break moments.

From a man’s perspective, how you respond to him pulling away will give him a glimpse into whether you’re the right woman for him or not.

In my experience speaking to and coaching thousands of women around the world, I’ve realized that more often than not, women are too overly optimistic about how the man feels about the relationship.

We, as women, think that they operate the same way as us, and that relationships mean the same to them as they do to us.

This feminine way of thinking, usually does NOT apply to men.

(Of course it’s not our fault, we’re just thinking like the women that we are!)

And so when the man pulls away, goes cold and disappears (even for a little while), it can completely throw us off emotionally.

It is so easy for us women to feel needy, desperate and act out of those fears, even when there really isn’t anything wrong from his perspective.

He has pulled away for his own masculine reasons, which are not intuitive for us women to understand or relate to.

But the moment we start acting from that needy and low value place, we are sending the message to him that we are not worthy.

And if you have followed my teachings, you probably know that acting from a fearful and low value place is the worse thing you could do, especially in the earlier stages of a relationship.

It sends ALL kinds of wrong messages to your man, it is literally giving him emotional reasons to stay further away from you.

And as you may have painfully experienced, the more you chase the man, the harder it is to get hold of him.

It’s perfectly OK to feel needy, desperate, and low value... (every woman can relate!)

It’s not always easy to admit, but secretly I think we’ve all been there.

From being a normally confident woman, we suddenly become plagued with feelings of neediness, desperation, and loss.

We feel like we need to cling onto something. We need something stable in the chaos that has overcome our lives.

There is something that instinctively and biologically happens in us women when our men pulls away. We instinctively feel scared, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

It is perfectly normal, even though it may not feel like it at the time.

(And men... they never give us any warnings, any preparation or ideas as to when they will come back, which completely adds to our fears.)

Then in the state of uncertainty, the last thing you want to do is act from that instinctive fear.

But sometimes you can't help it.

And of course, immediate regret follows.

You realize you shouldn’t have acted so needy, so desperate or low value. But it’s too late to take it back now.

What’s done is done.


Look, I’m not one to tell you that you shouldn’t feel those emotions. I’m not one to tell you to stay strong, and block any feelings that may come up.

After all, those feelings are not wrong. You’re a feminine woman, just like me, and our emotions serve us greatly.

What we need to do instead, is to use these powerful emotions to help us learn, grow and become better women.

We need to embrace these emotions fully, rather than running away from them or blocking them out.

It’s these emotions that will ultimately give us incredible power, if we don’t run away from them, or make them wrong.

Your fears feel absolutely real, they are no joke! So embrace them!

I would like to take this moment to acknowledge your fears. They are real. They exist.

But let me tell you more about these fears...

They come from lack of understanding of men and their masculine biology. Men don’t feel the same way we do, in other words, they don’t really “get” what us women have to go through.

They don’t get that by pulling away suddenly, it sends our lives and our emotions into a tailspin.

It’s not intuitive for them to feel what we feel, because they don’t share our feminine biology. And that’s not bad, it is just one of the many gender biology gaps that we need to overcome.

After all, all fears come from the unknown. What we don’t know, or what we are not sure of, scares us.

So if we, as women, took the time to understand and appreciate men for why and how they operate, then we will no longer be in the dark.

We will no longer have confusion or insecurities, because we would have certainty in the truth.

The truth is that men will always pull away sooner or later.

They have to. They need to.

Their biology requires it.

So it’s not about stopping your man from pulling away, it’s about having the emotional resources to show up as high value when he does pull away.

Because when you can truly show up as a high value woman in those moments, then he will come back to you with more love, more respect and appreciation.

But does he really have to pull away from the relationship?

Short answer is… yes.

And it usually has nothing to do with you.

If you’ve been following my work for a while, you may have heard me say that intimate relationships is not a masculine domain.

In other words, men don’t revolve their lives around relationships.

For most of us women who live in our feminine core, relationships are of utmost importance. 

After all, you have to respect the huge differences in biology between a masculine man and a feminine woman.

For a masculine man, they can't be too attached and too involved in a relationship for too long.

It will actually decrease his natural testosterone levels, increases his cortisol levels and therefore his stress level.

The reason why every single man will pull away is primarily due to him wanting to replenish his testosterone, and his identity as a man.

Without doing this, he will eventually lose a sense of himself, a sense of independence and drive.

(And actually lose his ambitions, his masculine “umph”, and perhaps lose the reason why you were attracted to him in the first place!)

So it’s not if your man will pull away, it’s when.

And it’s what you will do in response to him pulling away that will determine the future of your relationship.

Men intuitively sense when a woman acts “low value”, and it makes them run the other way.

Yes, men are notoriously good at picking up when women act low value.

See, both men and women have evolved to have very sophisticated ways to detect how high or low value a potential partner is.

From a scientific and evolutionary perspective, it’s here to help us avoid wasting time with low value mates that aren’t worth our time.

And this is a finely tuned mechanism inside of all of us, as we make most of our judgement and decisions based upon subconscious cues.

Imagine if you saw a man who kept seeking approval of his peers, you’d instantly see him as low value, right?

Even if he had lots of money, he would still be somewhat low value.

Even if he was a celebrity, that kind of behaviour is low value.  

Now imagine that all men having “low value” radars for women, and it’s default setting is “ultra sensitive”.

They sense it straight away, when a woman acts low value.

They may not be able to voice what it is, but they know it’s a feeling.

This is critical for you to understand if you’re still in the dating period.

If you and your man have spent years in an already established a long term committed relationship, (and that you’ve proven over and over that you are a high value woman), then this isn’t as important.

(Proving your value isn’t as important, since you’ve done it over and over for a long time.)

But for most women out there, this is not the case.

The biggest problem is of course, when you act from fear, from insecurity and desperation, you are blinded to how low value your actions may come across.

And before you even realize it, it’s too late. He’s already received your subconscious low value cues so loudly that no words can undo his impression of you.

Is it really possible for him to come back to me with more love, affection and appreciation?

Of course it is!

But how they are when they come back is in direct reflection to how you’ve responded to him pulling away.

If you were acting straight out of fear when he was gone, then you can guarantee he will have fears coming back to you.

He fears that you might be upset at him… (even though he feels like he did nothing wrong in his own masculine mind)

He fears that you might be out to punish him…

His biggest fears is that perhaps he will never be able to leave you alone, have any time to himself, to be by himself, to stay in his “man cave”, and replenish his own essence as a man.

In other words, losing his freedom as a man.

And if that’s the case, then it is not a relationship he could commit to, because no man would trade his freedom for a relationship.

(That’s how much men value their freedom!)

So the only real way to respond to your man pulling away is through understanding, appreciation, love and faith.

Have trust in that we can only control what we can control. Trust in that if there was enough attraction and connection in the relationship, then he is bound to come back, (and come back more refreshed and replenished as a man).

How do high value women deal with their man pulling away?

Firstly, if you’ve read everything up to here, you’ve already taken the first step. You’ve already begun to understand and have more appreciation for why men pull away.

You’re already on the path of showing up as a high value woman next time your man pulls away

But the next step is perhaps the most difficult. It is all about loving through your fears. Having so much love in your heart and soul that no fear will take control of you.

See, I used to think that I can deal with my man pulling away simply by not caring, blocking off any of those emotions that came up.

After all, if i didn’t care, then it wouldn’t hurt me. And that works “ok” temporarily as damage control… (at least it was better than being desperate and needy!)

But soon enough, I realized the biggest problem with that kind of thinking is this… by blocking out my own fears and insecurities, I slowly got used to being cold, distant and apathetic.

It became a habit that was hard to shake, and it was against everything I believed in.

How could passion and love exist when there’s emotional distance and apathy? What’s the purpose of an intimate relationship when there’s no love or passion?

This is why loving through your fears is the most difficult path to take. But it’s one that will not only connect you with your soul at a depth you’ve never experienced before, but also it will help inspire your man to be there for you and your vulnerabilities.

See, I believe there are two ways to respond to every event, through love or through fear. And hands down, love is always the better option. Love wins every single time, even though it’s not as easy sometimes.

You’ve already taken the first step, congratulations.  If you want to take the next few steps, then read on and allow me to guide and facilitate your journey to showing up as a high value woman when your man pulls away.

If you feel uncertain, feel insecure or even scared when your man pulls away, then you need to...

Then you need to start learning the mindset and the skills of showing up as a high value woman - right now!

As I stated many times now, if you’re still in that phase of your relationship where you’re trying to prove your value to each other… then it’s imperative that you don’t give the impression that you are low value.

That’s like shooting yourself in the foot.

Because most of the time, your man will pick up all the subconscious, under the radar cues and clues as to what kind of woman you are. Our non-verbal communications speak way louder than our words can ever replace.

And so are your non-verbal communications telling him that you are high value and worth his pursuit and commitment? (Look, I don’t mean to put you on the spot here.)

I’m emphasizing this because I’ve made so many mistakes in my own life, and it pains me to see others go through similar experiences.

I want to save you some unnecessary suffering, heartaches and lost time.

So if you want to learn more, here’s what I’ve done. I’ve put together a comprehensive special report called… “How to Stay High Value When He Pulls Away”.

It has everything you need to know to deal with when your man pulls away, so that you can ultimately show up as the high value woman that every man dreams about.

Now I must mention, this isn’t for everyone.

I know for a fact, that a certain percentage of women will continue their old patterns when their man pulls away regardless of any new ideas, knowledge or wisdom. Some people are too stuck in their ways.

Some of what I teach may be radical, or unconventional, and perhaps that’s why I have so many women loving what I write and teach, but I understand that it’s not the path for everyone.

You would know in your gut, whether this special report is for you or not.

Here is a glimpse of what you will learn in this report...

Discover how to eloquently respond as a high value woman to the 5 most common scenarios where men typically would pull away. (Learn what they are and what you should do every single time.)
Learn how to reconnect with him in a high value way when he eventually comes back to the relationship without causing unnecessary tension or conflict. (...And watch him tell you how much he appreciates you, adores you and cherishes your presence.)
Discover the 3 low value actions you should never ever consider when your man pulls away, and instead what to do in order to redirect all your emotions. (Turn your negative emotions into value adding empowered action!)
Learn how to stay open & access your inner love to overcome all the fear, insecurity and neediness, even if you are super scared right now. (...And never feel uncertain again when he pulls away!)

Learn how to respond if he is in "masculine" crisis, lost his direction or if he's recently lost his job and his ability to feel like a man. (As opposed to him pulling away because he's lost attraction.)
Discover how to respond in a high value way if he has pulled away because he never wanted a relationship in the first place and was just stringing you along! (& how to cut the attachment cord so that you can be emotionally free!)
...And so much more!

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So you’re probably wondering… how much do I have to pay to have this…?

Well… how much WOULD you pay so that your man sees you as a high value woman?

What would you give to have your man know in his heart that you respect him, and want the best for him, without adding more pressure to his life?

How much would you pay for knowing with certainty that are always doing the right thing in your relationship because you're showing up as a high value woman?

And how much would all of this mean to you and your life? What kind of negative emotions will you be able to avoid because of this knowledge?

I know this is stupid, but look.

I’ve had celebrities, high end lawyers and doctors pay me over $2,500 an hour for my coaching and advice. (Not to brag here...)

I’ve turned down more interview and consultation offers than I would like to remember.

The truth is… when I send you this special report, it doesn’t cost me very much because it’s a digital delivery. There’s no ink, no paper, no delivery man.

That’s why, I want you to have this special report for just $7.

Look, here’s the thing. I can’t promise you this price will remain tomorrow, or the next day. The nature of internet businesses is that we need to test prices often. So if you also think I’m stupid for making this offer, then take me up on it before it’s truly gone.

Why only $7 (normally $47)? Because here's the catch...

Ok… I’ll confess.

There is a catch.

I’ve made it only at $7 because it is my little “bribe” for you to also try out my amazing monthly program – Attraction Control Monthly. (I’ve made the first month free for you to try!)

As you would probably agree, attraction is one of the most important elements to anyone’s love life. With an abundance of attraction in your life, you will feel happier, more confident and enjoy every single relationship you have. You will be able to attract strong and caring types of men into your life and repel insecure men.

Without attraction, a relationship simply dissipates in to a friendship.

Without lasting attraction in a relationship, passion will wane.

If you lack attraction in your life, then you will feel miserable inside, have no self esteem and worst of all, you’ll attract insecure, selfish people.

So this is why my man David and I have created this coaching program. Attraction Control Monthly is a comprehensive, ongoing monthly coaching program, giving you the education and training to build long-lasting magnetic attraction in your own life.

Contrary to popular belief, attraction is something that can be maintained and created. You absolutely do not have to lose that spark. People think it dissipates and they can’t do anything about it.

Well, usually, these are the people who have never experienced lasting attraction and passion for themselves, and they usually do not have the best tools and skills to use to actually create and maintain attraction.

In our society, we are not given any necessary tools, and we are not given any necessary insights in to how women and men work, and how to maintain a long-term relationship.

Worse still – humans are not actually designed to be in long-term relationships. We are designed to pro-create and experience passion.

So, what actually creates and maintains attraction with a man is something that is counter-intuitive. If you are like the majority of women in this world, you will never be taught what truly creates attraction. Think about it, people don't teach you that!

I don’t want you to be among this group of average people who end up in pain and suffering. At the end of the day, that is why I even made this program.

Whether you’re single right now, in a “complicated” relationship or a committed relationship, it is essential for you to learn how to create and maintain attraction for life.

Attraction Control Monthly is the ONLY training program on the market to help you create this gut level attraction in your life.

So this is a one-of-a-kind coaching program and I guarantee you’ll love it!

Your first volume of 'Attraction Control Monthly' is on ME!

Now read this carefully, this is how it works…

When you place your secure order for your copy of “How to Stay High Value When He Pulls Away” Report, you will also receive the first volume of ACM (Attraction Control Monthly) for free.

The first volume is called “Attraction is Not Your Choice”. We’ll look into the paradox of attraction and why sometimes attraction and relationships don’t work out.

In other words, what we sometimes think will create attraction doesn't, and in fact backfires. The reason here is because as a woman, you're probably stuck in your feminine thinking, and find it hard to see it from a man's point of view.

Now, if you like this comprehensive coaching program – Attraction Control Monthly, then do nothing and stay subscribed. A new training volume will be sent directly to you every single month, and we will bill you $29 monthly (Worth real world value of $100 per month). 

Or choose the more popular Platinum version for $49 (Real world value of $220 per month.) More details on this further down.

There are 12 months in total. Each month we tackle a new facet of attraction and keeping a man committed to you.

If you don’t want to continue Attraction Control Monthly for any reason at all, it’s super easy to cancel. Just email me, contact me via my helpdesk, or call me. Just let me know somehow and I’ll take you right off the list and stop the billing. No hard feelings, we can still be friends and you can keep all the material you’ve received so far.

Here's a small glimpse of what you'll discover inside of Attraction Control Monthly...

In the first month, we’ll teach you why it’s creating attraction with a man is counterintuitive and it goes against what we’ve been taught as children. (Because sometimes you have to "step over the line" to create intense emotional attraction, we'll show you how!)
We have a special volume that teaches you the 3 contradicting types of “LOVE” you have to understand in order to overcome any period of disconnect with men. (...And how you can cultivate all 3 types of love in your relationship!)
Did you know that there are 8 different types of feminine roles that men innately desire and are attracted to? (We will break all these down and show you what these 8 roles are and what types of men each of these 8 roles will attract.)

You’ll learn exactly how to make a man feel deeply connected to you by specific ways of “strengthening the relationship bubble”. (...Some covert psychological patterns that influence his attachment to you.)
We’re teach you the real 7 core differences between femininity and masculinity, so that you can use more of your true inner femininity to attract masculine men like bees to honey. (This is not the cheap "femininity" BS you'd see on the internet.)

We are going to show you how to become a high value high status woman so that no man will ever take you for granted and no man could ever reject you. (There is nothing that works quicker to attract men than showing up as a high value, high status woman.)
You’ll discover how to overcome any commitment obstacles with men so that he will open his heart and soul to you. (And call you his one and only woman for life.)

...And so much more!
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Why do most people choose the platinum version?

Our platinum version of the Attraction Control Monthly program is by far most popular option because of the 2 exclusive components that are only offered in platinum membership.

These are the Attraction Pebbles video series as well as our Attraction Control Insights interviews.

Not only do these 2 fantastic additions add so much more value to your subscription every month, they also fast track your progress.

This is why our platinum members look forward to receiving every new edition of the Attraction Control Monthly series.

Can these “Attraction Pebbles” make him fall in love with me?

Short answer, YES! Here's why...

Attraction pebbles are little phrases that you can say to a man, or little gestures that instantly get a man’s attention and escalate his desire for you. The best thing is, these pebbles make you look high value high status and make men want to pursue you for emotional reasons.

It is literally like throwing a small pebble of attraction that plants a seed inside of a man’s heart and mind. 

This seed is small to begin with, but it grows into a large network of attraction references inside a man’s head.

My man David is a world thought leader on how to create attraction and trigger emotional desire. He knows his stuff and he will be teaching these "Attraction Pebbles" sessions in HD video inside the platinum members area.

He will teach you WHAT to say, and more importantly, HOW to say it, in order for men to feel really connected to you, and want to be with you.

These pebbles will make you look like THE most interesting and high value woman in the room, even if you are in a room full of super models and celebrity actresses.

These "Attraction Pebbles" can be used as a sms text, an instant message, an email or as verbal communication. It doesn’t matter because the power of these pebbles lie inside certain language patterns. We’re talking about language patterns that make men feel connected to you, make men value your time and attention, make men desire you and want to be with you.

Knowing how to throw these “attraction pebbles”a truly powerful skill to have for any woman, and I want you to become that woman that men adore!

Every month, David will teach you a new type of Attraction Pebbles. He will share with you the theory behind how it works, and then give you several pre-proven examples so that you can go out that day and use them for yourself.

Here's a glimpse of what you'll learn in Attraction Pebbles...

Discover the most powerful technique in creating instant attraction and sexual tension in men even if you’ve never flirted with a man in your life. (This is so powerful but so easy to implement that a “social recluse” could effortlessly have her way with men.)
Discover the 5 unique indicators of high value you MUST include in every story you tell your man for him to perceive you as the pinnacle of a modern attractive woman. (These 5 indicators will be revealed in episode 11 of Attraction Pebbles.)
In episode 3 of Attraction Pebbles, you will learn how to throw “Negative Compliments” at a man to create an insatiable desire in him for you. (...even if he’s never looked at you in that way before.)
Learn how to use the magical “5 questions game” in episode 4 to instantly appear smart and create a mental challenge for any man. (Why is this important? Because if you don’t make him work for your attention, he won’t value you at all.)
In episode 5 of Attraction Pebbles, you will discover the power of using bets and dares to stimulate the masculine energy within men. (...and watch how they start to fight to please you.)
Ever been told to play “hard to get”? Let me show you exactly how in episode 6, by using the “cat string theory” and the ability and confidence to say this one simple word… (do you know what this word is? You’ll find out in episode 6.
If you’ve ever felt needy in a relationship, then you must tune into episode 7, where you’ll discover the most potent antidote to your needy behaviour, (so powerful that it will make him seek your approval instead.)
Have you ever wondered if HE is the ONE? In episode 12 you will learn the 4 questions you need to ask a man to secretly discover his deepest core values. (...and whether you have a future with this man or not.
Learn to create the sacred bubble of “Us versus Them” in your relationship to ethically keep other women away from your man and have him enjoy the process. (This technique is taught in episode 9.)
...And so much more!

Also included in Platinum: Attraction Control Insights

Truth: the fastest way to learn is through multiple perspectives...

This is exactly why we've included an episode of our Attraction Control Insights every month for our platinum members.

You're probably wondering... what is this Attraction Control Insights series?

These are exclusive high quality interviews that my man David and I recorded in search of answers from leading experts.

Here’s what I believe. If you want to learn something quickly… you need multiple perspectives. You need to hear things from different people in different ways. You want seek out different ways of looking at the problem.

So this is exactly what David and I did.

We went and searched for leaders in the field of dating and relationships and understanding men, someone who has some profound insights. Then we asked, pleaded, and sweet talked them into sharing their knowledge and expertise with us.

Don’t get me wrong, sometimes it wasn’t so easy and we had to metaphorically twist their arm in order to secure an interview, but we did it.

And I really think you’ll love the content in this series of Attraction Control Insights.

So every month, you will get an exclusive interview that covers a special aspect of men, dating and relationships. Our goal is to compress the expert’s 10 or 20 years of experience into an hour of insights!

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If for any reason at all, (or no particular reason), you don't feel like this program is everything I have personally promised, just let me know.

We will insist that you keep every cent you invested, because we've never let anyone walk around claiming they’ve wasted their money with us. (…And we're not about to start.)

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This is why we always have a 30 day “Raving Fan” guarantee with all of our products… because we know that you will most likely become a raving fan after 30 days, otherwise we don’t deserve to keep your money.

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We’ve seen the garbage that’s being sold out there on the Internet. – Most of it is pure rubbish (to put it lightly.)

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If you are reading this far, then you know this is something that would benefit you tremendously.

We are always here to support your journey, and at any point, you don’t feel right or you are stuck with something, let us know. We have seen so many hundreds and thousands of women go through similar journeys and we are here to help you every step along the way.

Send us an email through our help desk… (Don’t be shy, we all love to hear from you.)

You have our personal invite to join us in this powerful program but regardless, we truly wish you all the best in love and in life.

P.S. Look, if your gut right now is telling you to give this a go, then do yourself the favor of trusting your gut. After all, your gut instinct has never failed you. Sometimes in order to fly, a small leap of faith is necessary.

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Our members love us and we love our members. Here's a collection of video feedback from our customers... (and YES! We would LOVE to feature you here too and be an inspiration to other women.)

"I really trust you guys and the things you're teach about relationships. They are the only things that really make sense." Jackie J

"I love how you guys truly believe what it is you teach. I am very grateful for everything I've learned so far. I look forward to more in the future!" - Laura 

"I appreciate you and David being so selfless, generous and giving in everything that you do! Thank you." - Rachel B.

"I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your program. It's really wonderful wonderful work!" - Tina

"I found Renee and David's work a few years back and followed their work because it made so much sense to me. Highly recommend it." - Alena S. 

"Renee! When I got onto your work, the whole world came into focus.Thank you for lifting the lid on a whole set of elusive knowledge for me." - Ivy O.

"I believe watching and reading any of Renee & David's blogs and programs will do nothing but add VALUE to your personal self and your relationships." - Andrea R.

"I cannot wait to take more courses with Renee & David because I cannot explain in words HOW MUCH I've learned, not just about love but about myself." - Akanksha A.

"I've spent loads of time looking into the work of different coaches and Renee's work is the ONLY work that really speaks to me." - Shabana W.

"I found your programs to be very helpful not just with my relationships with other people but also my relationship with myself!" - Jennifer W.

"I have followed you guys and have been a fan for almost a decade now and I find value in everything that you share!" - Blessing 

"I really love David & Renee. I love all their advice. I've learned so much about dating and about men, it's been a fabulous experience." - Sherri.

"...That was amazing, very awesome and very moving for me. It was a very healing experience." - Sharen

"I feel bless that I found Renee & David's work that has shaped and influenced my life throughout the years. Thank you so much!" - Anise

"Thank you Renee and David for making such deep and unique programs that help us to be more of a high value woman." - Melissa A

"I loved every single lesson. Already from the next day I started to notice changes. I started to understand men's desires and fears!" - Nadia 

"I just wanted to say I will be purchasing all of your next courses! Keep up the good work you guys are fantastic!!" - Lucia

"I really appreciate the opportunity to learn from this course and I hope you all learn as much as I did!" - Gina L.

"Thank you for all the information you guys are sharing and helping so many women out there like myself." - Virginia B.

"I've recommended this to so many people already. I recommend it to you because I believe it will work for you too." - Kara 

"Do yourself a favor, sign up. You won't be disappointed because I have no doubt you will get so much out of Renee & David's work." - Kathryn P.

"This has been so helpful in connecting me and reconnecting me to my true self, my higher self. So thank you, I am so grateful." - Stacey R.

"The way Renee & David teaches, it's groundbreaking to be honest." - Anna C.

"My biggest insight was that you can really trust your own feelings. Overall I loved this program and will buy more of them!" - Paula.

"I definitely have been benefiting from this, in terms of self love, compassion & connection within myself as well as towards others." - Winnie L

I am extremely impressed with your programs and I love the way you guys teach!" - Gail.

"I have seen many programs and many coaches out there because I've searched a lot. This is by far the BEST!" - Elena

"Thank you so much for your work and all you give. It helped me so much, your blogs and programs. I'm really happy that coaches like you exist!" - Alison


We have the best members in the world...

5 out of 5 stars

Carol L.

Just wanted to say a heartfelt “thank you” to both you and David for sooo much material and putting your whole being into it. I have greatly appreciated all the content. I have a lot of info and will continue to read and frankly I am still digesting it all. After a break up I am planning to “Date” for awhile and really try some of these things out- give myself a chance to see what different men are like. Thank you- I will get on your blog Renee when I have something to report. thankyou a thousand times

Anna W.

I always look forward to receiving my monthly subscription!

I always knew that there was a lot I didn't quite understand about Jerry but now things are starting to make a lot more sense.

I love what you said last month about creating a more positive association. Please continue creating awesome programs, I love everything you write about!

Thanks again for putting everything together.

Big fan of it.


After reading lots of your e-mails and reading a few of your books, my love life has changed drastically (that’s an understatement)... You, Renee, opened my eyes wide. The information you share is *extremely* valuable even if some of it isn’t exactly easy to hear. Every woman should know about you and the amazing wisdom you have to offer. All these informative messages have been a true blessing to me.

Thank you a million times!

Dotti W.

I have to say though, your blog posts and your paid content has been totally transformational in my life. I've been through a tough divorce and sometimes it's hard to make sense of anything!

Your stuff has helped a lot but I still feel like there's a lot more for me to learn. Im looking for what else I can do to really get it. So far you've helped a whole heap.

Thanks for doing what you do!


I want to let you know that your work has really helped me to understand men so much better. Back in 2008, after a string of bad relationships, I began reading anything I could get my hands on that pertained to Male Psychology. I wanted to know everything about men, attracting and keeping them, what men want, etc, etc. I read books by different people, male or female, about how to be the kind of woman that make men swoon and what I learned finally paid off when I met Michael, my late husband. Sadly, he passed away a year and a half ago and we weren’t married long when he died. But what time we spent together was such a blessing and he was so good to me. He always put me first, he treated me like a lady, put me on a pedestal and he worked hard to make a life for the both of us. And I feel like none of that would’ve been possible if it weren’t for people like you. You are a blessing, Renee. Keep doing what you are doing. A lot of women can learn from you. And I thoroughly enjoy reading your emails. Thank you so much.

Grace F.

Hi David & Renee

All the material has been really surprising so far in terms of effectiveness… I have always felt attractive and confident, but now I’m the bomb!

My man better snap me up!

The pebbles seemed bizarre, but by making them a version of my own… Wow! They really work!!?

Look forward to more from you two!

Wishing you a growing beautiful relationship .

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