Are avoidants capable of loving you? That’s what I will answer unequivocally for you today. First, here’s the short answer: No. They are not capable of loving you. I know that’s different from what many … Read more
Wondering why do I self sabotage my relationships? There are 9 exact reasons. If you relate to reason #1, 4 & 8, you have a problem to fix.
Black cat energy is a new term in dating and relationships made popular by social media platforms like Tik Tok and YouTube. It refers to a relationship dynamic whereby if the woman is the black … Read more
Disorganized attachment is characterized by an intense pendulum swing from anxious attachment to avoidant attachment and then back again, sometimes with unprovoked anger outbursts to boot. Disorganized attachment patterns are difficult and painful for someone … Read more
Dealing with a breakup when you have anxious attachment is like pouring gasoline on a dumpster fire. Breakups are traumatic enough, but if you add to that the nervous system of an anxiously attached person, … Read more
The best way to let go of an avoidant man is by first understanding that you are holding on because your body is trying to help you keep him around as a (inferior) source of … Read more
Since you’re asking how to get him interested again fast, I won’t beat around the bush. If your man has lost interest and you want to regain his interest, it’s very easy and revolves around … Read more
There are many deeper unintended consequences to sleeping around, not just for women but also for men. (Albeit less so for men due to their masculine biology, but more on that later.) In fact, here’s … Read more
If you want some questions to ask a guy to know his intentions, you’re in good hands. I have 5 questions you will ever need in order to know what he wants for sure. There’s … Read more
Dating an avoidant man is like trying to befriend a traumatized, aggressive stray dog. And that’s at its worst. Dating an avoidant man at its best is like chasing after a leprechaun – alluring, but … Read more
Dismissive avoidants are so mean because they need to push you away in order to survive, literally and metaphorically. This pattern is something they have been going to reliably since infancy, and they’re likely not … Read more
If you’re here checking for signs he has no feelings for you, chances are you’ve sensed that he has no romantic feelings for you in your gut. But that’s not always the case, as some … Read more
The best time to say I love you is when enough attraction and connection has been built up in the relationship that you both know the feeling of love is mutual (so that there is … Read more
According to some experts and relationship coaches, ignoring a guy can work to get his attention. It has the effect of triggering curiosity, making him lean forward and pursue you. The problem is that the … Read more
Why do people keep their distance from you? There are many possible reasons, and you might be surprised to know that often, those reasons aren’t related to you. People are individuals with their own past, … Read more