Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully

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Article updated 2018 Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully Do you have any dreams? Do you have wishes? Any desires or planned outcomes? Do you have any goals in life? And do you have anyone around you who’s pulling you away from your goals and desires? (Click here to take the quiz on “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) Do you have in mind the kind of relationship you’d like to have? Do you have a picture in mind, of who you would like to be, represent or become? Now…..who do you spend most of your time with?…

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How to be a Lady

How to Be A Real Lady

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Article updated 2018 Have you seen one lately? A lady, I mean. I had to scratch my head a few times to think of one. There are the ‘traditional’ types of ladies, such as Audrey Hepburn and a more modern example – Kate Middleton. It’s wonderful to be a classy lady, but I believe our society no longer values the ‘uptight’ women who are always trying to please and be perfectly elegant. I mean, just because one is a lady doesn’t mean she is to be restricted in life. It doesn’t mean she has to be untouchable, and unable to…

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Finding your True Purpose as a Woman

Finding Your True Purpose as A Feminine Woman

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Article updated 2018 “Legacy is Greater than Currency” One of the questions I often get is “What is a Woman’s purpose?”; “What are we supposed to DO with our lives?”; “What are we here for?”; “What is a feminine woman’s life purpose?”; “How do I find my life purpose?”. Although every woman’s personal life purpose will be different, a woman’s true life purpose in general, really is to create and not destroy. It’s to live your passion so that you can be an example to others. It’s to find fulfillment, and to seek growth and contribution. And it’s also to…

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How to Develop Character As A Woman

7 Steps to Develop Character as a Feminine Woman

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How to Develop Character As A Woman Article updated 2018 Femininity without character is a bit of a flop. You can look all good, get your hair and make up done, put on some beautiful clothes, smile widely, and be all nice, polite and accommodating, but without character, you really run the risk of being boring. Before I talk more about this, it is important to define character. As there is more than just one facet to it. Character: The aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing; moral or ethical quality; qualities of…

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How to Open Up to Love – Learning to be Open

5 Questions to Become Open & Receptive to Love

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Learning to be Open – How to Open Up to Love… Article updated 2018 Most of us have at least small difficulties in opening up to people. Sometimes it can be hard to even know how to open up. But like many things in life, it’s hard, but it’s worth doing. In fact, the rewards can be astonishing. This is one of the single mot important posts on this blog. Please give it the time and attention it deserves, because if you do not feel like you can open your heart, either to friends, family, but especially to a man…

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How To Overcome Jealousy in Your Relationship

How To Overcome Jealousy in Your Relationship

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Article updated 2018 Firstly, I’d like to say that jealousy is neither a good nor bad emotion to have. It’s how you use it. How to deal with jealousy is a common question I get via my contact page. I’ve had several requests to approach this problem in an article, and I’ve always waited and put it off, as it’s a difficult topic to handle. I have decided to finally break it down and give my thoughts on what works best. So I apologize to those lovely ladies who have been waiting a while for this subject to be dealt…

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3 Steps to Instant Good Posture

3 Steps to Instant Good Posture

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Article updated 2018 There are many reasons why you would want and need good posture. Proper posture prevents injuries by decreasing the stress on muscles, ligaments, tendons, bones and joints. From my experience, many people who have poor back posture end up with back problems; especially disc herniation. One of the most fantastic side benefits of having great posture is that it makes you look more attractive. Whether you are a man or a woman, perfect posture gives you an air of confidence. On the other hand, poor posture is often associated with depression, boredom and overall lack of enthusiasm. (Click…

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7 Steps to Instant Feminine Poise

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“Poise is a power derived from the Mastery of Self” Article updated 2018 A woman who is poised is not easy to come by. Perhaps she was 30, 40, 50 + years ago. But such a woman is not too common these days. A feminine woman is often the epitome of grace, elegance and poise. The definition of poise is: ‘A graceful and elegant bearing; composure of dignity and manner’. The only negative thing about women who are traditionally poised, is that sometimes this poise tends to surface accompanied by a sense of rigidity. Femininity is not about being rigid,…

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How to Turn Down a Guy

How to Turn Down a Guy

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Article updated 2018 You’ve been there before. You’re sitting on the train by yourself or waiting innocently for an appointment, and some guy starts talking to you. Even before he opened his mouth, you felt his eyes on you, and your feminine intuition perks its head up and says….’this guy is bad news….’ So you remain friendly, and try not to say too much as to wrongly give him the impression you’re interested, and try not to say too little just in case he’s one of those ones whose anger boils when you refuse to give him any attention. I…

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hobbies for women

27 Feminine Hobbies for Women

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I don’t normally like to call them “hobbies”, but rather, passions. Hobbies sort of seems like something you halfheartedly do just for the sake of doing something. Passions sound a lot more interesting. But, hobbies, passions, interests – whatever you like to call them; they’re extremely important in a woman’s life! Sometimes, we need to get some more empowering and healthier ways to meet our needs. Hobbies are one of these ways. It’s important to keep your mind and body constantly growing – if you’re not growing, you’re dying! Why hobbies or passions? Because TV, chocolate, and Netflix is not a…

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jealous women

How to Deal With Jealous Women in Your LIfe

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Article updated 2018 A more physically ‘perfect’ or glamorous woman needn’t always cause jealousy among other women, but a beautiful, feminine woman can cause enormous jealousy. If you’ve always been a beautiful and feminine woman, you would have experienced countless jealous looks and perhaps even jealous schemes, engineered by other women. It’s everywhere. And you can be a plain Jane and cause this jealous stir among other women, because you have something other women feel they do not; the amazing and mysterious force of femininity. And, jealous women can be women on the street whom you don’t know, or even…

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Masculine Energy

Surrendering To The Masculine Energy

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Here’s How & Why You Need to Surrender to Masculine Energy Article updated 2019 There’s no denying it; the masculine energy is intense. In fact, masculine energy is sometimes scary, from a woman’s perspective. Of course, I won’t neglect to acknowledge that many modern women won’t relate to this notion. Some may not think masculine energy can be intense or even scary at times. Whilst Feminism has done some great things for us, it has also made women quite domineering with a tendency to castrate men with a single look. I suppose this is partially where the term ‘Ball-Breaker’ began…

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How to Be Submissive for Love

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Article updated 2018 Firstly, please don’t be fooled by the flashy title. I’m not encouraging women to play dumb, be in a ‘housewife’ role, or be helpless and have no opinions. Being submissive to a man is not about that at all. I’m also not encouraging women to be submissive all the time – being submissive is just another role that a woman can take up every now and then in her relationship. The reason I’m talking about being submissive is because it can bring more passion, strength and life to a relationship, if it’s received by a man with…

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5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Deprive Their Man of Sex

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Article updated 2018 1) The only difference between a friendship and a relationship is intimacy. If you have a sexless marriage or a sexless relationship, what are you? companions? best friends? If a couple doesn’t have much sex, then this generally means they lack passion, and that they could be more in love. There’s no such thing as losing the feeling of being in love. You just lose the ‘state’ of being in love, and you lose polarity/passion with your spouse.  You can be in love and have passionate sex way in to your old age. (Click here to take the…

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Why You Should Never Try With Men

Stop Trying So Hard With Men, You’re Doing It Wrong

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Article updated 2018 Trying Never Truly Works No, really. You should never try to do anything. Trying never works. Have you ever heard news that somebody attempted suicide and thought to yourself how awful it is? And you feel terribly sad for the person and their whole family and their friends? But sometime later, you find yourself wondering, ‘Well, why didn’t they just do it? How do you actually try to kill yourself but fail at it?’ (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) I’m not trying to mock people who attempt suicide here….

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