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Pleaser Women Always Lose Out

Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 134 Comments

Article updated 2018 Pleaser Women Lose out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving I see a huge problem among us women, especially when women are in a relationship. This problem is the problem of pleasing all the time. Most women would pass this off as ‘oh it doesn’t apply to me’, I’m a cool woman and I would never be one of those silly pleasers! However, in my experience, many women like to think they’re not acting like pleasers, but they actually are. Part of this comes from not really understanding the difference between pleasing and giving. (Click here…

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How to be the World's Most Confident Woman

How to be the World’s Most Confident Woman

By | All, Confidence | 36 Comments

Article updated 2018 How to be the World’s Most Confident Woman Alright, so that’s a big promise, I know, to be the most confident woman in the world, but I know it’s possible for you, otherwise I wouldn’t bother writing this. Let me just ask you: what is life like without confidence? What is the quality of your relationship without confidence? What do you achieve in your life without confidence? How do you FEEL, on a day-to-day basis without confidence? (Click here to take the quiz on “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”) The answer is: crap. Confidence is everything….

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Mediocre Women and Negativity

Mediocre Women and Negativity

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“I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.” -Gerry Spence. In our culture, we are bombarded with negativity every day. If you watch the news (I stopped watching any Television and reduced my ‘news’ intake about 4 years ago, although I still read the news selectively) you will know that we are always given reasons to fear. The news and the tabloids are always giving us reasons to be fearful. (Click here to download your “Goddess Report”) If you believe what is fed to you by the news, and the useless magazines, and you…

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The Secret to Being Yourself

The Secret to Being Your Real Authentic Self

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 43 Comments

Article updated 2018 If a girl has large breast implants, peroxide hair, collagen in her lips and carries a Chanel bag, is she being herself? Her friends might say, “Oh, well that’s just her! That’s what she does!” I say it depends. We’re always told to be ourselves. “Relax, be yourself!” What on earth does that mean?! How do you “be yourself”? Does that mean dress how you’d like to dress? Does it mean say what you want, when you want, however you want? Well, it could… The only problem is that nobody really tells you what being yourself actually…

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Stop Trying to Do the Right Thing

Stop Trying to Do the Right Thing

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Article updated 2018 Question: Would you steal $1000 to buy medicine for your mother if she was dying and her life depended on this medicine? What if stealing the money is the last way on earth to come up with $1000? The alternative is that you will lose your mom. Would you steal the money? Hang on –  didn’t we all get taught that stealing is bad/wrong? All of us have to face tough decisions. How do we decide what to do? Is there a right decision and a wrong decision? (Click here to complete the quiz “How Naturally Feminine…

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Pride Vs Momentary Pleasure

How Searching for Momentary Pleasure is Killing You Softly

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 21 Comments

Article updated 2018 Think about this for a moment: would you rather win 5 million dollars in the lottery this weekend, or work hard for the next 12 months to make $100,000? 5 million is 50 times the amount of $100,000, and you would have a lot more spending power with 5 million than you would with $100,000. So which one would you rather? With 5 million, and provided you know the right investment strategies, you would never have to work again, and you’ll have a lot more freedom. However, with $100,000, you’ll most likely have to work more and…

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How to Deal With Loneliness

How to Deal With Loneliness As A Feminine Soul

By | All, Confidence | 33 Comments

Article updated 2018 Loneliness is not something that strikes the poor, unpopular, or unattractive. Loneliness is a feeling. It’s not a situation. Being alone is a situation. Feeling lonely – or, feeling alone is an emotion anyone can feel, regardless of their social or family life, and regardless of fame or lack thereof. It’s so important for women to feel connected. If you don’t feel connected, it’s going to be hard for you – or any feminine woman for that matter – to feel feminine and radiant. Often, when you feel lonely, it can feel embarrassing. As if you’re unpopular,…

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Men and Dirty Socks

Feminine Peeves – Men & Their Dirty Socks

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 44 Comments

Article updated 2018 Before I knew my man was a man and not a woman, I used to be upset by my man leaving his dirty socks on the floor. I was confused when I noticed that his idea of cleaning the house was equivalent to half my ideal level of cleanliness (if that). I really thought perhaps he was just a person with ‘untidy’ habits. Well, yes, he would be…….if he was a woman. Some time ago, when I first started this blog 12 months earlier, I published an article on reasons to be feminine, and somehow got on…

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7 Keys to Becoming a Classy Woman

7 Keys to Becoming a Classy Woman that Men Cherish

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 156 Comments

Article updated 2018 Traditionally, a classy woman means to be stylish, superior and elegant, respectable and lovely. However, I find the traditional definition and ideas on what it means to be classy can be confusing. So I am here to hopefully explain once and for all, what it means to be classy. Let’s re-define classy in a better way: a genuine, high value woman who holds herself and thinks of herself highly regardless of life circumstances, and despite what other people may think of her. In slight contradiction to that, however – A classy woman does not judge herself regardless…

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Boring Women Vs Crazy Women

Boring Women Versus Crazy Women

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 35 Comments

Article updated 2018 There’s a tendency among many women to just be nice. These are the kinds of women whom we call pleasers. Boring. Pleasers are the kinds of women who are so afraid of losing love, so afraid of being judged, so afraid of being talked about behind their back (by the way, this is always going to happen – to everybody). So afraid of being alone, that they will do anything to please. Anything to be in everybody’s good books. There’s an old saying: “you can’t please everyone”. This is true but also misses the point. Don’t please…

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There’s no Such Thing as a Home-wrecker

Why There’s No Such Thing as a Home-wrecker!

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 163 Comments

Article updated 2018 There’s No Such Thing as a Home-Wrecker It always disappoints yet amazes me the number of women and men who blame and hate on “the other woman” or “the other man”. Yes, affairs and cheating are heart-breaking, and for most couples, it’s the kiss of death. It makes me cringe when I hear of the wife or girlfriend screaming at the other woman, blaming her, and asking how could she/he do this!? Don’t they have any respect? What normal person with morals would tempt a husband or wife? (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value…

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How to Solve a Relationship Problem

How to Solve A Relationship Problem

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Article updated 2018 How to Solve a Relationship Problem There’s a lot of relationship advice on this blog, and there are a number of forums, blogs and websites out there that aim to give you answers about your most pressing relationship questions, life questions and aim to solve your relationship problems. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) When a woman is stuck, doesn’t know what to do (none of us are really taught how to relate to others), if she has no quality advice or guidance from the people in her life,…

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The Secret of Eliminating Female Competition

The Secret of Eliminating Female Competition

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Article updated 2018 You’re a woman; so you know what I’m talking about. There are few things that can be as defeating as the feeling that another woman is better than you. Specifically: more radiant, prettier, taller, a better catch, a better lover, sexier, or having higher status. It’s easy for most women to succumb to the feeling of jealousy. First, I want to tell you that it’s OK that you have that feeling. It’s not evil, or wrong. I’d have to search far and wide to find a woman who (if she was totally honest with herself) hasn’t ever…

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The Best Revenge for Bad Friends

3 Options When You’re Stuck with Bad Female Friends

By | All, Confidence | 18 Comments

Article updated 2018 You would know by now that who you spend time with is who you become. That means that if you spend a lot of time around people who are negative and spiteful, you will eventually become negative and spiteful too. This is a follow-up post to the post Warning: Pick Your Friends carefully. Proximity Most of us will encounter bad friendship groups, bad friends or bad influences in our lives due to proximity. You may work with a group of people whose conversations are negative or bitchy, or whose values do not align with yours. You may…

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