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Not wanting to manipulate

Not Wanting to Manipulate Makes us Manipulative

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love | 30 Comments

Article updated 2018 “But I just don’t want to manipulate him like that…” Said the woman who preferred to keep a clean conscience. Just like most women, you probably don’t like to be called a “manipulator”… because no body likes a manipulator… After all, wouldn’t it be too selfish for us to have what we really want? And wouldn’t we have to manipulate others in order to get that? Imagine a salesman trying to pull you over in the street, only being keen to close the sale. We hate people like that… why? Because they’re only EVER in it for themselves. Our…

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To be a Feminine is to

To be a “Feminine Woman” is to…

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 32 Comments

Article updated 2018 Feel pride when you are proud without trying to squish it and make it tiny, feel pride deeply, for it is freeing. Feel pretty, when someone says you’re pretty, deep in to your heart without trying to pretend you’re not basking in the glory, for pretty is a beautiful gift you give to men and women and to the world. Click here to take the quiz on “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?” Feel humiliation, deeply, for it is there to remind you to connect deeper with humans the next time. Feel desire, deeply, feel craving deeply,…

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How masculine jobs and lives can affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine energy

How Masculine Jobs Can Affect a Woman’s Beauty and Feminine Energy

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 77 Comments

Article updated 2018 I know that you have a busy day. Just give me 60 seconds and let’s to this quick little exercise. Think about a time where you felt incredibly beautiful. and feminine. Even if you don’t feel beautiful now, you are courageous enough to feel what it was like to feel feminine and beautiful in the past. So, just focus on a time where you just felt beautiful and feminine. I don’t mean attractive, I mean, beautiful and feminine. Attractive is too objective a description for what I’m talking about here. How did you breathe when you went to…

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How to Communicate with an Angry man & become closer afterwards

How to Communicate & Get Closer to An Angry Man

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 90 Comments

Article updated 2018 Our intention to stay connected to a man in an argument is worth gold. Our intention to hold on to resentment and the need to be right in an argument is worth nothing. Anyone of us can live our lives from the place of needing to be right. And many of us do. It is a terribly mediocre existence, though, because it is never ending – so the pattern of needing to be right will continue as long as you exhaust yourself trying to be right. It is a doomed cycle and it is the path you…

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weak woman

What Makes a Woman Weak VS What Makes Her Strong & High Value

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 42 Comments

Article updated 2018 Weak is what we feel when we are in the process of resisting vulnerability. And we feel weak precisely because we are in the process of resisting being vulnerable. Everyone is naturally vulnerable. Some of us just spend our lives pretending we are too good for that stuff. We judge the emotional women. We judge the women who are more concerned with love and family life versus glamour and physical appearance. By the way, here’s an article I wrote on How Most Women Reject their Femininity & How You can Stand Our From the Crowd. And men?…

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Why smart Women seek to appreciate & understand Men FIRST

Why Smart Women Seek to Appreciate & Understand Men FIRST

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 39 Comments

Article updated 2018 One too many a woman has protested my advice in anger, stating that we shouldn’t have to understand men, because what are men doing for US? Why can’t men understand US first? But Renee, what about the fact that not all men are the same? And what about the fact that understanding men is being a man pleaser? I’m going to answer these valid questions, because I understand the hesitation to ‘go first’ and understand them, when your world seems to be full of men who aren’t good enough to be in a relationship with. (Click here…

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how to ensure other women will not take away your man

How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 47 Comments

Article updated 2018 Dear Friend, When you are in a relationship with a man, sometimes you forget that he has fears too. You think you are the one who needs to be perfect to keep HIM around. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) And so you trust neediness. You trust your need for approval. What some others might called ‘over-functioning’. Over functioning IS seeking approval. Most of the secret ‘things’ you think you can do to be a good enough woman to keep him around is shit he can pay someone for. Washing…

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How to Bring out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

How to Bring Out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 82 Comments

What is Your Unique Feminine Energy? Article updated 2018 You have a powerful feminine energy deep inside of you. It is incredibly powerful, beyond what you can imagine right now. Unfortunately, most of us do not embrace our unique feminine energy. See, we all as women,  have many different personalities and energies within us. That’s completely normal. It doesn’t make us weird or have split personalities, it just means that we are more than how we’ve learned to define ourselves. (This is one reason why men who are not already in love with one woman (their mind and body is committed…

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Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 64 Comments

If you’ve ever asked yourself…’What do men want in a relationship?’ Article updated 2018 What makes a woman high value so that she can have almost any man commit to her? (Click here to register to watch the “Commitment Masterclass”) I have an answer below. I can remember the handful of times I came to the realisation that I had been a taker and not a giver in my relationship with my husband. It’s an experience like no other. Because it’s exhilarating. It’s freeing. But before I felt exhilarated, I felt lonely as hell in that realisation and especially in…

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How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 74 Comments

Article updated 2018 ‘I haven’t found a job in 8 months, but I know I will, it’s OK.’ ‘I’m 45 and I’ve never had children and I have always wanted them. It’s OK, there’s still time.’ Positive Thinking is thinking. It’s not feeling. It’s merely a coping strategy. And much to my frustration, depending on when and how we use positive thinking, it has the potential to rob us of our lives. Why? Because it’s not living. Thinking is not necessarily living. Feeling and experiencing and opening to the realness of what’s actually happening IS living. Opening to being vulnerable…

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new perspective on why women are abused

A Different Perspective on Why Male Partners Abuse Women (& how to stop it)

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 165 Comments

Article updated 2018 Warning: Abuse can be a very serious and very sensitive issue for many women… If you are already in an abusive situation, the perspective of this article may not always serve you, so please take caution in how you interpret this article. If you are in an abusive situation, then for your sake do everything you can to get out of there if you can. You are too important to be continually subjected to abuse, whether that’s physical, emotional, or sexual. You can review safety tips and guidelines for addressing an abusive situation, including getting help and…

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The Root of Ecstasy is also Attachment

The Root of Ecstasy is Also Attachment

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 40 Comments

Article updated 2018 Have you ever heard the popular quote by Buddha: “The Root of Suffering is Attachment”? It is highly possible that most of the self help books out there that have become popular, are written by masculine men, or women with a masculine essence. I feel like this quote by the Buddha is very true. BUT the opposite is also true. The root of ecstasy is ALSO Attachment. You could try telling my almost 9 month old son who still loves his breast milk that the root of all suffering is Attachment when he latches on for a…

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what to do when he doesn't call

4 Steps to Maintain High Value When He Doesn’t Call or Text

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 76 Comments

Article updated 2018 If you have been dating a man for less than 6 months, then it is likely that you are still in the process of proving your value as a potential mate to each other, so you’ll need to be aware of how to maintain that high value if you truly love the man you are with. High value. It’s the reason people try to play games, get plastic surgery, it’s the reason people try to be mysterious. Being mysterious and playing hard to get is really just an attempt to preserve our value as a mate. Because…

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How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love

How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 89 Comments

Article updated 2018 Happy New Year! I have found that we are most lonely and depressed as women when we make all our decisions from Fear. Essentially, for a woman, that looks like this: being dictated by our ‘heads’; making decisions from our heads, not our gut or our heart. Heady decisions are decisions made from old patterns. Patterns are a survival mechanism, and therefore come from Fear. Most of us live a year after year, guided by a series of millions of fearful decisions. I would take a guess and suggest that most of us are guided by Fear…

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How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups

How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups?

By | Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 40 Comments

Article updated 2018 Good day Renee, I have no idea where to start with this mail. I met Matthew when I was 18, that was 7 Years ago. We have had a very up and down relationship. We have two wonderful little boys together. For the first two years of our relationship was a fairy tale, and from there o, we have been arguing and fighting ever since. Everything will be fine for like three days and then for three days its arguing and fighting again.. It’s very exhausting. This is my problem, We were together for about 4 years…

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