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6 Behaviours You Should Never Tolerate In A Man

By | All, Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 37 Comments

Article updated 2018 Cheating and abuse are the first things people think of when they consider what they should never tolerate in a relationship. This article is not going to be about cheating or abuse. Why? Because firstly, whilst of course abuse should not be tolerated; abuse is actually a wide topic – it goes far beyond just physical abuse. Sometimes, the behaviours that seem the most innocent on the surface can actually be deeply abusive. For example, acting like your partner is not causing you any hurt or anger (not being responsive) when you consciously know you’re withholding yourself…

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12 secret reasons some people will always be distant from you

12 Secret Reasons Some People Will Always Be Distant From You

By | Commitment, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 53 Comments

Article updated 2018 She sat there, all alone, on the curb, crying. She just had it. She had just lost someone dear to her, and now she had nobody – nobody to even call her and ask how she is – and didn’t know what to do about it. A woman of many family members. A few friends. And yet nobody was there for her. She wanted to commit suicide, sometimes. It was all just too hard. She had friends, but they didn’t feel like real friends. Her family wasn’t nice to her, and her last relationship broke up, even…

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The One Perfect Thing to Say When a Man Says He Needs “Space”

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What if your man or boyfriend is needing space in the relationship? Article updated 2018 “I freaked out. He told me calmly that he needs some space and I didn’t know what to do. I tried to talk him through this, I begged him not to leave me because I’m afraid he will leave me for another woman”. The anxiety of a man needing space. It’s enough to make many women feel their stomach suddenly drop 1,000 miles through the floor. It can make you feel blinded by fear of the worst. Unfortunately and fortunately, this dizzy time of worry…

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5 Advanced Ways To Have Close Relationships That Others Envy

5 Advanced Ways To Have Close Relationships That Others Envy

By | Commitment, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 13 Comments

Article updated 2018 “He left me. I suddenly broke down in tears. I told him I was so hurt that he didn’t call me after we had sex for the first time. We weren’t even on a date when I burst out crying; I just bumped into him at college.” Kristy said to Gianna. Gianna raised her eyebrows and stopped breathing for one minute. “Wow. Ouch.” “What? That’s all you gonna say?” No no, I’m just processing all of what you said right now, Gianna said while letting out a big puff of cigarette smoke slowly. Oh, OK. “I can’t…

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Your Man Tells you to “Fk Off”. Now What

Your Man Tells You To “F**k Off”… Now What?

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 30 Comments

Article updated 2018 He got angry and told her to F**k Off…. Me & my boyfriend had an argument a few days ago he blamed me for a few things which was silly things & not true. He was angry & recently been under a lot of stress. Also he lost a close friend of his. He was ratty with me from the night before. He said I had started to act like I was at the beginning of relationship paranoid & not being able to talk properly. At one point he said maybe your getting bored in our argument….

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The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex - part 2

The Secret Cost for Women When They Have Casual Sex (PART 2)

By | Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 57 Comments

Article updated 2018 Some women can be detached from casual sex Some women consider themselves progressive, and claim that sexual liberty is a must for women. Yes, it is. But on an overall percentage, more women than not will experience some suffering after casual sex (if the man isn’t committed). The trouble is that women usually have sex with men that have actual value. Research has shown that when women are looking for short term sex, or casual sex; they get very choosy and usually mate with the better men because there’s no shortage of willing men for just sex….

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Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It

Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It?

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 74 Comments

Article updated 2018 “Hi, could you write an article on how to recognize/meet/make friends with similar minded/good-hearted/positive women? Most of my friends tended to be kinda selfish, lazy, admitted being jealous of me for whatever reason even though I always praised them on the good I saw in them to make them love themselves, but they mostly focused on the negative. In the end, I realized I was drained being in their presence. I always gave and gave my time, understanding and loyalty, and very few times did I get the same care from them. I couldn’t tolerate being friends…

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Can Fear of Abandonment Make You More Beautiful

How the Fear of Abandonment Can Make You More Beautiful…

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Confidence | 54 Comments

Article updated 2019 Can fear of abandonment make you more beautiful? Is there anything worse than dealing with someone who has become completely indifferent to relationship and life? I mean the people who have numbed themselves so much that they just don’t care. They don’t care about you, but more importantly, they’ve stopped caring about themselves. They choose to be thick and impenetrable. They choose comfort over love. Or they choose mediocrity over infinity. They’ve been denying what’s true of their deepest heart for so long that they seem to have become indifferent. And having indifference to your own need for…

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7 Burning Signs a Man is Being Low Value

7 Burning Signs a Man is Being Low Value

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 32 Comments

Article updated 2019. It might seem arrogant to deem someone as having low value, or low mate value. And, it’s not easy to be the ‘mean’ girl, sitting there, evaluating a man’s mate value. Click here to take the quiz “Are you Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?” By mate value, I mean the signs that show a man’s overall value as a romantic partner. It also refers to his potential reproductive success. For example, a strong, healthy and confident man would most likely have more reproductive success than an unhealthy, lazy, unconfident man. I know it seems unfair. But without me…

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Dancing Naked, Slut Shaming, and Shit Sex

Dancing Naked, Slut Shaming, and Shit Sex…

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 27 Comments

Article updated 2018 She barged into my room without knocking. What were you doing?! She said. She crossed her arms and looked me up and down. Then her mouth moved up in the shape of a smirk. ‘Ahh, you were dancing. Don’t think I don’t know exactly what you were doing.” I looked downwards, the 17 year old me, knowing my mother would never approve of me dancing. I was even looking at myself in the mirror. Worse. I was enjoying dancing and looking at myself in the mirror. Take the quiz on How Feminine Am I Actually? Click here….

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How Can One Be High Value In A Society That Keeps Us Insecure?

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Article updated 2018 Got sent a link to a Daily Mail article today…on the tragedy of somebody’s dental veneers of all things. Then, I see to the right of the page an article of photos about 61 year old Bruce Willis filming an ad with tonnes of young, gorgeous, sexy women barely clothed… The writer used words like “….But Bruce Willis is also a man. While shooting an Italian commercial, the 61 year old looked like a kid in a candy store as he got close to a gorgeous woman….at one point she kissed him on the cheek and at…

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19 Ways Of A High Value, Feminine Girlfriend

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 59 Comments

Article updated 2019 When I was 10, I liked a guy called Shannon, but Shannon didn’t like me; he liked my friend Tilly who wore skirts. When I asked her why Shannon didn’t like me and liked her, Tilly said I was a boy and Shannon would like me if I wore a skirt. 10 year olds named Tilly are smart. When I was 13 walking down the river bank with my best friend at the time, who has since passed away, a couple of boys walked past and said to us ‘nice tits, ugly head’. I didn’t have any…

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Getting Lured in, Tricked & Dumped By A Man On Facebook?

By | Confidence, Relationship Issues | 31 Comments

Article updated 2018 He pursued this 47 year old woman on Facebook for one year. She fell in love with him! She discovered that he was pursuring other women, and he disappeared. What advice do you have for Yasmin? What would you do? >>>>>>>>>>>>> Question Hello Renee, First I want to thank you and let you know that I truly enjoy reading your notes. The reason why I finally got the courage to e-mail you is because I got something bothering me very much about this man I met through Facebook and I am too embarrassed to talk to my…

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Is there a High Value way to deal with Judgemental Assholes?

By | All, Confidence, Relationship Issues | 26 Comments

Article updated 2018 Is there a high value way to deal with judgmental assholes? “I can tell she’s judging me. She doesn’t like me because I am not in control like her and don’t have everything figured out and I go with the flow. I see it in her face. And then, I can’t be myself at work.” “You mean you’re walking around on eggshells?” “Yeah!” That was a snippet of a conversation I had with an acquaintance. There’s a lot of talk about getting people to stop judging everybody all over the internet. It’s everywhere. You can’t judge someone…

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The Rareness of Loyalty and How to Find It

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 21 Comments

Article updated 2018 It can take courage to feel that somebody in our life is not in fact loyal; they are just one among the people hanging around us. There’s a plethora of people who don’t let themselves feel the devastation and the loneliness that comes with having a sudden and accurate perception that their social network and even their family may not be loyal. Do you want to find out if you’re dating a commitment friendly man? Click here to take the quiz! Many people block these valuable emotions out; and then go and watch reality TV to feel good…

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