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Commitment

He Pays for His Ex Girlfriend’s Bills but Won’t Pay for Mine?

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 115 Comments

Article updated 2018 What to DO when your Boyfriend is still emotionally Attached to his Ex A question from Kira: “Dear Renee, After reading your writing for awhile now, I’d like your input on something. My boyfriend still shares his cell phone family plan with his ex girl friend, who he split up with two years ago. They work together she can easily pay him. Additionally, I manage his bills and pay it online for him. After about a year I brought it up, but he said he felt bad that it would be more expensive for her, so he…

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How to Get Him To Propose and Marry You Without Looking Low Value

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 36 Comments

Article updated 2018 How do you “Tell a Man” that you want marriage? I got Mia’s problem in my mail box recently: “We have been dating for 3 years, the majority of which were spent long distance. I recently relocated to be with him, and I want him to propose. He seems to be more focused on buying a home for us than a ring. I’m confused because I have told him that one of my goals is to be settled into a home with a family of my own. Part of me thinks this is his way of setting…

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How Men Think

Don’t Expect a Man to Put more “Effort” in to Your Relationship than You

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 240 Comments

Article updated 2018 Whenever I suggest something like this, I risk a whole hoard of women hating me. Enough women hate my message as it is….and yet, it’s when I suggest this that I really feel women digging their nails in to me as if I have betrayed them and I am working against woman. Quite the contrary. When I say this, I say it from a place of understanding of masculine men. (Click here to take the quiz “How feminine am I actually”) I say it because I intend for more women in the world to have more happiness in their relationships…

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“Isn’t SHE Pretty?” He Asked Her…

By | All, Commitment, Confidence | 51 Comments

Article updated 2018 “Isn’t SHE Pretty?” He Said…find out this woman’s story by reading her email below This is a question from a wonderful reader who is just lovely. If you have some input for her, and if you have anything you want to tell her, it is much appreciated! Please leave your comments on the situation in the comments section below the post. “Hey Renee, I’ve been a longtime reader and subscriber of your blog and newsletters! I also got the 17 Attraction Triggers and they’ve been a huge help with my confidence. You’re doing a great thing and…

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What to Do If He Takes You for Granted

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love | 103 Comments

Article updated 2018 My question to you is this: is it true that your boyfriend or husband takes you for granted and only makes time for you when it suits him? Or is it that it’s too easy for you to feel like you are not special? (Click here to get your “Goddess Report”) In other words; are you making up the story that he only fits you in when it’s convenient for him, in your head? Here’s why I ask: feminine women seek attention; we thrive on it and we need it to feel feminine (many women will sell…

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10 Signs of a Commitment Phobic Man

10 Signs of a Commitment Phobic Man

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 128 Comments

Article updated 2018 As a woman, it’s not hard to get stuck in a relationship with a commitment phobic man! Even if you’re high value, sometimes you unfortunately make the mistake of getting involved with a man like this (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man? “) I truly believe in patience and understanding when it comes to men – yet sometimes, no amount of patience and understanding will get a man to be the man you crave him to be. And that’s ok. But before I say anything else, I just want to…

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What to Do If A Man Just Wants a “Casual” Relationship

What to Do If A Man Just Wants a “Casual” Relationship

By | All, Commitment | 40 Comments

Article updated 2018 If a Man is sending you Mixed Signals, read this The following is a question I received from a Commitment Control member named, “Angel”. Both David and I share our responses. Enjoy it. If there’s anything you feel Angel should do or know, feel free to post your thoughts in the comments section below the post. >>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION Hi David and Renee, I have been receiving Renee’s emails and has subscribed to Commitment Control. Although I didn’t finish all the videos yet, it is really very helpful for me in understanding men and relationships in general. However,…

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Growing Apart in a Long Term Relationship

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 22 Comments

Article updated 2018 I have always been a big fan of Heidi Klum, she’s a busy woman, always doing something, a woman with great energy and a genuine love of life. So I am sad to see Seal and Heidi divorce; I have been inspired by their relationship in the past. It is one that has been frowned upon by jealous white men and some groups because of the racial difference – but what I always loved about them was that they looked so passionate and loving. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”)…

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Why Men Pull Away and How to Deal With It As A High Value Woman

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 695 Comments

Why Do Men Pull Away From You & The Relationship and how to deal with it like a High Value Feminine woman? (Content Updated 2017) Sometimes there’s literally nothing worse than having your man pull away from you, from the relationship. For a moment, for an hour, for days or weeks. It doesn’t matter. …Because we are talking about a man who you’ve invested your precious time, your energy and your emotions. And so for him to pull away from you at any moment, it’s painful. His lack of presence leaves a void that is difficult to fill. But why…

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How to Make a Man Want You and Only You

How to Make a Man Want Me and ONLY Me?

By | All, Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love | 94 Comments

Article updated 2018 Deep down, it’d feel nice to have a man desire you and ONLY you forever, wouldn’t it? Does it sometimes feel to you like men are just not satisfied with one woman? Do you fear that perhaps he feels attraction for other women even whilst he’s in a committed, long-term relationship with you? There’s little else that’s a painful as the feeling of loss in life. And especially when it comes to a man. Like, why would you even want to EVER have a relationship if you thought you were going to lose his attention to someone else? You wouldn’t. And here’s the thing…

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Why Men Go Hot and Cold

Why Men Go Hot and Cold & 5 Things You Need to Do…

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love | 71 Comments

Article updated 2018 At the beginning, he comes on strong – he pursues you relentlessly, buys you gifts, compliments you, plans dates and outings, makes an effort to make you feel special….and then, months down the track, it stops. He pulls away. He stops complimenting you and starts to seem distant, he says he’s ‘too busy’ or ‘under a lot of stress’, he stops planning things and even becomes more passive, or says he’s not sure about his feelings for you, and goes hot and cold. Now, this is not the path every man/woman relationship always takes, but it is…

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The Fastest Way to Push a Man Away

The Fastest Way to Push A Man Away

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 39 Comments

Article updated 2018 The Fastest Way to Push a Man Away The fastest way to push a man away, (or to fail with men in general), is to make him feel blamed.  “Oh, so you FINALLY call me?!” “How could you do that?!” “But ya didn’t pick up yer socks like I asked!” “You started it!” “You just expect me to be perfect!” “But you’ve let yourself go! All you do is sit on the couch.” “You never listen!” A dirty look. A condescending look. When you feel hurt, or misunderstood, or scared as hell in your relationship, sometimes the last…

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Why Being One Dimensional Will Cost You

The Cost of Being A One Dimensional Woman

By | Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 26 Comments

Article updated 2018 If you want to have men attracted to you and committed to you in the long run, then you have to become more than just a one dimensional woman. In deed, you have to become “multi-dimensional”. If you want to lose commitment from a man, and lose the passion and attraction he feels for you, then the quickest way to do is, is being one dimensional. In other words, be “boring”. One of the biggest mistakes many women (and men) make in their relationship is to be continually showing up as one kind of person, or the…

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Why Every Woman Should Look Up to Her Man

Why Every Woman Should Look Up to Her Man

By | All, Commitment, Relationship Issues | 42 Comments

Article updated 2018 You’re carrying a few new heavy items into your home; your man helps you. No big deal, you think. It’s a man’s job to help. He’s been out at golf all day. He comes home and wants to talk about every single outstanding shot he made. You’ve been at home all day, cleaning the house. You really can’t be effed. Plus, you’ve heard it over and over again. You’re sick of having to make him feel good because YOU don’t feel good right now. (Click here to download a copy of “Goddess Report”) He comes home from…

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What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams

What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams

By | Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 31 Comments

Article updated 2018 There’s a myth that all you need to do is be a nice girl or a “good person”, and then, everything you want will follow, and line up for you. Including a handsome prince who adores you. This, in fact, is untrue. Don’t you know of anyone who is a really nice person, and yet still didn’t get what they “deserved” in life, their career, or their love life? I do. If I had a gold coin for every time I heard someone say: “Why do BAD things happen to GOOD people?!” Do you know how rich…

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