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What is your sexual essence – Masculine, Feminine or Neutral?

Article updated 2018

This post is a quiz on the sexual essences. We have compiled some questions so that you can get a better idea of whether you’re living in your feminine, masculine or in neutral sexual essence. It will also show you whether you are naturally more feminine at your core, or more masculine at your core.

By the way, you can also take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”, click here to take the quiz now.

This quiz is meant to be a bit of fun, and meant to be taken lightly so if you get something that was unexpected, try not to get your knickers in a knot! 🙂

Answer the questions honestly. And imagine you are with an intimate partner whom you trust. 🙂

1) When I’m working on a project, I

A) Tend to get distracted easily
B) Tend to be completely focused and don’t notice significant events/noises/other people trying to talk to me
C) I neither get distracted nor become completely focused

2) I:

A) Can talk on the phone, fry a steak and greet visitors at the same time
B) Have to do one thing at once, otherwise one or more of the tasks suffer significantly in effectiveness
C) My partner and I both share tasks and are able to talk to each other at the same time

3) When my close friend has a problem in their life, I like to…

A) Prefer to talk to them about it, listen to them, understand them
B) Solve their problem somehow
C) Think about things rationally and work them through

4) In the bedroom, I’d more often prefer someone who is:

A) Physically larger than me
B) Physically smaller than me
C) I don’t Mind

5) Which of the following more accurately describes the kind of intimate partners you’ve had in your life:

A) My partners have tended to assume they are right about everything
B) My intimate partners have told me that they think I always think I’m right about everything
C) I’ve rarely had any disagreements with my partners in the past; things tend to go smoothly.

6) In the past, at parties or social situations, I have tended to:

A) Have the desire to get up and dance when the music is on
B) Preferred to stay sitting and talk seriously with others or watch others tear up the dance floor
C) Do what everyone else is doing

7) Which of the following best describes your intimate relationships throughout your life, when something is wrong:

A) I have tended to close up, (arms clasped around my knees and folded against my chest), and shut out my partners words, as the tone of their words and intensity of their bodily gestures cause me to shut down, perhaps leading me to stop listening and blocking out their words
B) I have tended to withdraw from my partner, wanting to get away from the relationship and even questioning whether I should be in the relationship
C) I’d rather discuss things rationally with my partner rather than wanting to leave or shutting my partner out

8 ) It would hurt me more if my intimate partner were to say:

A) You are looking old and run down lately
B) Where is your life headed?!! You seem to be losing direction.
C) You really treat men differently than you treat women

9) In the bedroom, I’d mostly prefer:

A) My intimate partner took control, and I surrender to them
B) My intimate partner let me take control, and surrender to me
C) Nobody surrenders and nobody takes control

10) It would hurt me more if my intimate partner were to say to me:

A) You’ve put on weight, you need to eat less and exercise more
B) You’re making a bad investment with your money
C) You’re very unlike me

11) After making love, I more often:

A) Want to cuddle with my intimate partner
B) Feel very relaxed/want to fall asleep
C) I’m going to make a cup of tea

12) I’d more often prefer that my intimate partner was:

A) Stronger than me physically
B) Less strong than me physically
C) Of the same physical strength as me for their proportion

13) I would more often prefer as an intimate partner:

A) Someone who sweeps me off my feet, is sensitive confident and takes charge
B) Someone who is open to me and trusts me
C) Has the same interests and common goals as me

14) Which of the following situations would frustrate you more:

A) When I ask my partner what we are doing, they say “I don’t know, what do you want to do?
B) When I’m driving, my partner tells me to stop and ask for directions
C) When my partner doesn’t pull their weight around the house

15) When I’m in a store and I can’t find something I am looking for, I

A) Tend to feel completely comfortable asking a store manager or sales representative where the item may be
B) Tend to not want to ask where the item may be, but look for it until I find it
C) I don’t mind either, whichever is the quickest way.

If you answered mostly As, your sexual essence is more feminine. If you answered mostly Bs, your sexual essence is more masculine. If you answered mostly Cs, your sexual essence is more neutral.

If you have 12 or more As, then you are highly feminine at your core.

If you have 12 or more Bs, then you are highly masculine at your core.

You can find the original sexual essence quiz at http://home.wanadoo.nl/prembuddha/sexual.html. Our quiz on sexual essence is based on the same ideas, but we have added our own questions to the pre-existing ones, and refined it in a way that we think provides extra understanding and knowledge. Check out the original quiz if you are interested.

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What were your results? Do you have any questions? Has this made you more aware of your own or your partner’s tendencies in intimate relationship? Or more aware of what kind of partner you want?

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Keven

I got 8 A’s, 3 B’s and 4 C’s I know I am a male and they say Real Men can’t be Feminine but according to this Quiz I guess I can be feminine sometimes. On question 11 I answered B but sometimes it could be A as well. When out shopping with my wife I always enjoy the woman’s dept. over than the Men’s as a matter of fact I don’t really go in the Men’s dept. all that much but am always in the Woman’s dept.. I love Panties over tidy whities and if I could I would… Read more »

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Morgan

I got all A’s. Except for number 7, I’ve done all 3 of those things. I guess depending on the situation. Plus I’ve done other things too, I’ve sat there and cried before and been very submissive. And other times I’ve had a horrible attitude and gave the silent treatment. Although choice A is what I do most, so I chose that one.

Thank you for this quiz!! 🙂

Rosiebyanyothername
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Rosiebyanyothername

Neutral-ish? These are the questions I didn’t have definite answers for: Q1. Depending on how close the deadline is I might work pretty distractedly (I think looking at many different things helps with idea generation at the start). If I’ve already decided what to do and the deadline is looming, then tunnel vision tends to set in. Q6. I like to do what my friends are doing – they’re why I’m there, right?? I guess that’s a C? Q8. Option A is confusing. It strikes me that it could be an expression of concern OR an attempt to put one… Read more »

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Then you are feminine in your core.

Rosiebyanyothername
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Rosiebyanyothername

How do you figure?

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Feminine women always want men to be assertive.

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Haha! For Question 6, my answer is A because I prefer to dance to my favourite songs! Usually, I dislike pop songs, so I would rather not go to parties if the songs I dislike are often played in parties!

Super Janice
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Super Janice

I understand that my question 8 and 10 are Bs because I was always scolded by my mother for various reasons. My mother said that it is normal to answer B for both these questions because everyone hates to be wrong. (but I would say majority of us do!) I’m glad that my question 1 is B. Unlike my friend Olivia, I am able to focus when I do projects, which brings me high efficiency when working! I’m also glad that my question 7 is B. “Wanting to leave” gives me courage to end relationships when I feel that there… Read more »

Rosiebyanyothername
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Rosiebyanyothername

Definitely agree that everyone hates to be wrong, lol. I didn’t know what to answer for 8 and 10 because option A would have offended me, but B would have made me feel worse about myself…yet I know I am not happy having picked a “direction” for my life and in always trying to be right!

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Are you feminine in your core?

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Masculine people like to pick a direction for their lives and always try to be right. You don’t like it. So you must be a feminine woman.

Masked Introvert
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Masked Introvert

What if you’re equal parts feminine and masculine, but they both are more than neutral?

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Then you are neutral.

Elizabeth
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Elizabeth

Hi, I’ve taken both the quizzes you have made available and they both say basically the same thing: Neutral. More specifically, the one that emails you the results said I’m 50% feminine (which in itself brings the question of is this a neutral result?) and this quiz gave me a straight up neutral, neutral result (it also gave my fiance a masculine, neutral result). Both of my results (and the one for my fiance) appear very accurate considering how we are personally. My question is: What does neutral mean? Does it mean that I’m neither masculine nor feminine (a true… Read more »

Amber Athens
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Amber Athens

This quiz has problems. It can’t measure Masculine, Feminine or Neutral. there is another problem. When I tallied up my score it came out evenly. I had 5 A’s, 5 B’s and 5 C’s, so what does that make me? There should have been more than 15 questions. There should have be 16 questions so there couldn’t be an even amount of letters in the tally of the score. I didn’t get this: “If you answered mostly As, your sexual essence is more feminine. If you answered mostly Bs, your sexual essence is more masculine. If you answered mostly Cs,… Read more »

Super Janice
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Super Janice

You are neutral.

George
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George

Some of the questions I could answer differently depending on my mood/mindset at a given time. The First time I took this quiz I got 13 A’s and 2 C’s, and when I took it again I got 10 A’s and 5 C’s. I’m not really surprised by this though. Also, I’m not weak, but that isn’t meant to imply that I think femininity = weakness… by no means! I just said that because some people tend to consider a person who was born male to be weak if they are more feminine. It’s just that the way I tend… Read more »

Super Janice
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Super Janice

You are feminine.

m
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m

lovely quiz I scored 12A’s 3C’s which isn’t a surprise me as I’ve felt very feminine

Kira
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Kira

8 a’s, 5 b’s & 2 c’s. I suppose that means I fluctuate between masculine and feminine a lot. I have the focus of the masculine, the frustrations of the feminine and the desire for the masculine. (Meaning I desire a masculine man over a feminine man). I think that it might be a little hard to balance all that. I’ve been dappling in my feminine state a lot recently and I find her to be very enjoyable and amazing. She has really breathed some life into me but at the same time the masculine still calls. I enjoy experiencing… Read more »

Jai
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Jai

Those were my exact scores and I am dealing with finding my balance now. I don’t want to operate in my masculine energy so much because, as I reflect on it, I realize I attract more feminine energy men…which I tend to get frustrated with. Weird dichotomy

Holly
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Holly

I’m really happy and suprised as I scored 3-c and 12-a! Although I could have gone for b on some of the answers (the multitasking question and the sexual questions spring to mind), I decided that I am capable of multitasking, only in the past I’ve always put myself down and labeled myself incompetent. As for the sexual question, I know a weaker man wouldn’t interest me sexually so I’ve gone with the knowledge I know best of. Either way, I scored highest on a which would make me more feminine that I would have guessed. I guess that means… Read more »

Holly
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Holly

And I was at home on my own, realizing that I’ve lost contact with half my family . It made me feel very sad and triggered depression within me. Now I wish that I had a closer family unit so I can only hope to use the law of attraction to bring about things I would like within my life. Although getting a good job is important for anyone in life, as everyone needs to work, it’s just that a Job to a women means something different to what it would mean to a man. I’d say that’s one thing… Read more »

Super Janice
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Super Janice

It’s OK if you are incapable of multitasking. That doesn’t make you less feminine or more masculine!

Tom
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Tom

With a score of 11-A’s, 1-B and 3-C’s I would say it clearly shows that I live much more comfortably in the feminine than the masculine.

It makes sense though; when I try to live in a more masculine essence I have discovered it is like a badly fitted jacket. Sure it can be worn but you cant move around well at all. I feel inhibited, un-expressive, depressed, withdrawn, and in general not myself. I dont like it all 🙁

Thankfully I have a girl that has opposite polarity from me so we get along great! Most of the time LOL

Renee Evon
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Renee Evon

When I started this test I was afraid of that is was going to say I was more Masculine, only because I have been a strong woman, and seem to make more of the decisions in my marriage. But to my surprise I had 10 A’s and 2 B’s and the rest C’s. It made me feel much more comfortable and it just affirmed what I I believe is true.

tchotchke
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tchotchke

I am so relieved to discover that I am “highly feminine”. I really wasn’t sure because I have such a violent temper and can hate to the point of murderous thoughts. Also, I’m pretty rebellious; submission is difficult for me. I’m very mathematical and logical, love science, hate poetry. I can be pretty tough mannered and my language can be foul. So I wasn’t sure if I could use Renee’s suggestions – if they applied to me. Now I can go ahead and apply all she says and realize that the above are just personality characteristics.

Rochelle
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Rochelle

Wow! I answered A to all of them except 3 and 5 where I answered C and gave no masculine answers. I feel surprised. I already discovered that I am mainly feminine at my core but still 😉

Nana
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Nana

9a, 2b, 4c.
Nice quizz 🙂

mary89
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mary89

Wow! you can’t believe my result! I am really surprrised by it:
5 A – 5 B & 5 C …….Right in the middle.So I’m neutral. I thaught I was masculine.
Thanks

TF
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TF

Renee, I really enjoy reading your posts and find the information you share to be very informative and enlightening and entertaining 🙂 This particular one was fun, but I love silly quizzes LOL. I have done similar quizzes before and it always turns out the same for me… very feminine, a little masculine, and maybe one or two neutrals. Which just adds to the fun for me seeing as I am a heterosexual male LOL. In this specific case I had 12.5 A’s, 0 B’s and 2.5 C’s. The 0.5 is because of question 7.. I vary between C or… Read more »

Pat
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Pat

I got 7 B’s, 5 A’s, and 3C’s I operate in more masculine tendencies but I believe it has been more because of survival and being a single parent for a long time. I am allowing more of my feminine energy to emerge however, it is reaking havoc in my relationship! My partner has highly feminine energy and is not liking the change because it is requiring him to step up to the plate and become more responsible. I am not sure where this will leave us however, I am welcoming the change into my life it feels more relaxing… Read more »

A.
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A.

I don’t need to take the quiz. I’m feminine because I’m a woman and it’s impossible to be anything other than that.

Super Janice
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Super Janice

Not necessarily! Some women are masculine.
Did you take it?

Smiley Stevenson
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Smiley Stevenson

Just because you are a woman doesn’t necessarily mean you have to act feminine. That’s just close minded thinking. Femininity and masculinity is a social construct. There is a tribe where men manifest femininity while women are more masculine, another tribe where men and women display masculine behaviours and another tribe where in both sexes display feminine behaviours. Just because one is born male or female doesn’t necessarily mean that they have to act or behave in the way that society expects them to be. Anyone can behave in anyway they want despite of the sex that they are born… Read more »

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