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How to be Feminine | Dating & Relationship Advice for Women

Why Men Push for Sex

The Truth: What Men Are Looking for When They Push You for Sex

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love | 128 Comments

The Truth: What men are looking for when they push you for sex Sex is the thing that women are obligated to do with men if they want to keep a man around. I’m kidding. Sex is the thing we think we have to do with men to keep them around. We feel pressured. Who doesn’t know a woman friend who gave a blow job or had sex with a man to ‘keep him happy’? When a man is in love, he can have zero sex with a woman and still stick around, whilst being emotionally attracted to her and…

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How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love

How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 89 Comments

Happy New Year! I have found that we are most lonely and depressed as women when we make all our decisions from Fear. Essentially, for a woman, that looks like this: being dictated by our ‘heads’; making decisions from our heads, not our pelvis, our reproductive region. Heady decisions are decisions made from old patterns. Patterns are a survival mechanism, and therefore come from Fear. Most of us live a year after year, guided by a series of millions of fearful decisions. I would take a guess and suggest that most of us are guided by Fear hundreds of time…

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The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

By | Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 208 Comments

Women aren’t supposed to make sense. To men. We can make a lot of sense to each other (women to women); and that’s important for connecting with girlfriends. But the problem is that we deny ourselves the deliciousness that is living in our own true nature – the sensuality, the sexuality, the attractiveness that is truly US, when we decide that we should actually make sense to men, and mean everything we say and know what we’re talking about. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I on Facebook?”) (A small aside: if you told a man who…

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What is Femininity and How to Be Your Feminine Self

What is Femininity & How to Be Your True Feminine Self

By | All, Confidence | 100 Comments

Become the real you… “What is Femininity?” The fact that we have to ask that question says a lot about how difficult it can be to begin letting your femininity show. Most us who are over the age of 5, for example, don’t need to ask “what is a foot?” or “what is an apple?” because it’s obvious to us. Femininity isn’t obvious to us. And it’s frustrating. Many women find it easy to start the surface version of femininity: buy lots of dresses, wear make up, buy lots of shoes. But what does this do? It merely makes us…

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How Most Women Reject their Femininity

How Most Women Reject their Femininity & How You Can Stand Out from the Crowd

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 122 Comments

If we as women, are truly feminine at our core but reject it, we can sometimes find ourselves in dating situations where the man doesn’t commit, even after the relationship got sexual. Especially after the relationship got sexual. Wanting a woman for sex is one thing, but wanting a woman for a relationship, that tends to happen when a man perceives high value in a woman. I have a couple of ideas on how our feminine energy can help us distinguish whether we are showing up in the dating market as a ‘one of many’, or a man’s ‘one and…

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A Strong Woman

The Real Definition of A Strong Woman

By | All, Attraction | 33 Comments

First and foremost, being a feminine woman requires an enormous amount of strength. In a society where the traditional roles of a woman and things like focusing on motherhood are no longer as respected (at least in comparison to the ‘career woman’s achievements and ambitions), it can sometimes feel almost impossible to just relax and not feel the need to conform to modern ideals, and to compete to get to the top of the corporate world or workforce. Every now and then I get an email asking me about femininity and how to be feminine whilst wanting to chase masculine…

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How to Be Feminine

How to Be A Feminine & Radiant Woman

By | All, Attraction | 69 Comments

In the modern Western world, we have mistaken feminine as referring to the external appearance of a woman. Yes, this is important for achieving femininity and being more feminine, but this is all worth nothing if a woman is empty on the inside. (Click here to take the quiz on “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”) Femininity is created from the inside out, and for a woman to be more feminine, she must prioritize and work on what goes on internally. Some of the most feminine women in the world have no money for clothing, shoes, the latest LV bag,…

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What Is Femininity

What Is Femininity?

By | Attraction | 13 Comments

What Is Femininity – How to Be Feminine If a woman is really feminine, she will most likely attract a really masculine male. If you are struggling to get in touch with your femininity, or are fearing being more feminine, I encourage you to live truly in your core (again, some women are masculine at their core). Overall, most women are truly feminine at their core. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”) Femininity and “Rules” I’m not here to tell you that there are 1 million and 1 rules for being feminine. For example, you…

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How To Be A Feminine Goddess

The 3 Qualities of A Feminine Goddess

By | All, Attraction, Confidence | 39 Comments

There are 3 main aspects of a Goddess: 1. Leadership 2. Feminine appearance 3. Presence and Charisma The Definition of a Goddess: A female God or Deity. A woman of extraordinary beauty and charm. A greatly admired or adored woman. 1) Leadership No woman can ever truly be a Goddess without being a Leader. You must lead people into higher good. You cannot be a follower. I don’t mean manipulating people. I mean being absolutely untouchable in your personal conviction. It doesn’t matter whether you are religious or not, you can make people happier, and make the world a better…

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The Temperament of a Feminine Woman

The Temperament of A Modern Feminine Woman

By | All, Attraction | 61 Comments

I think we’ve all had those moments where something our man has done (or somebody else) gets the blood broiling to the max!  You’ve probably had those times when things have been particularly hard like you’ve lost a loved one, or you’re struggling for money, or your man does something you didn’t expect that really hurt you? The times that put a lot of stress on your intimate relationship? Often, these are the times which really test our character and temperament. (Click here to take the quiz “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) Also, when you’re not feeling…

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