How to Ensure Other Women Can’t Take Your Man Away from You

how to ensure other women will not take away your man

Dear Friend, When you are in a relationship with a man, sometimes you forget that he has fears too. You think you are the one who needs to be perfect to keep HIM around. (Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) And so you trust neediness. You trust your…

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How to Bring Out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

How to Bring out your High Value & Unique Feminine Energy

Each woman has many different personalities and energies within her. This is one reason why men who are not already in love with one woman (their mind and body is committed to one woman) have a tendency (key word – tendency) to want to experience sex with all different women – it is to experience…

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The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

If you’ve ever asked yourself…’what do men want in a relationship?’ What makes a woman High Value so that she can have almost any man commit to her? (Click here to register to watch the “Commitment Masterclass”) I have an answer below. I can remember the handful of times I came to the realisation that…

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How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

How Positive Thinking can Cost us our Life & our Relationships

‘I haven’t found a job in 8 months, but I know I will, it’s OK.’ ‘I’m 45 and I’ve never had children and I have always wanted them. It’s OK, there’s still time.’ Positive Thinking is thinking. It’s not feeling. It’s merely a coping strategy. And much to my frustration, depending on when and how…

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A Different Perspective on Why Male Partners Abuse Women (& how to stop it)

new perspective on why women are abused

Warning: Abuse can be a very serious and very sensitive issue for many women… If you are already in an abusive situation, the perspective of this article may not always serve you, so please take caution in how you interpret this article. If you are in an abusive situation, then for your sake do everything…

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‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark of a Good Woman

‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark_edited

When we feel the need to be enough and ‘do’ as much as the next woman, girl or mother, are we really a better woman? And do people really care anyway? No, the people who really care about you won’t care whether you do more or not. Only the people who compete with you to…

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Be Willing to Be Affected by A Man’s Problems in a High Value Way

Be willing to be affected

I can remember a long time ago, my husband and I were talking and I was feeling very frustrated, trying to tell him that I was upset about our relationship was affected when he was in a period of intense work mode. Those intense work modes can last a while, when they do come, and…

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A Woman’s Task is to Overcome the Need to Blame

Woman’s Task is to Overcome the Need to Blame

In our most basic un-evolved state, we as women tend to blame the man in our life for our problems. If we try not to, we do it indirectly anyway. Guilt is such a big emotion for most women, and it is wired in to us like you wouldn’t believe. So, subconsciously, we can work…

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Sneak Peek in to the First Chapter of my New Book

I’m not sure you would have expected this kind of writing from me. It’s not from my usual angle, and it’s written differently. But it is the way I was ultimately lead to start writing this book. In it’s finished state, this book will be written as an ‘general and thorough’ book, going through all…

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A Letter to Men: How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail

How to Understand Women

We love men here. Our intent is not to put the blame on you, as you are not to blame. We want you to know that we respect the man you are today, and honor you for being a man. If you find feminine women hard to understand, know that it’s not hard at all.…

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Should I Put More of the Blame on Men for Failed Relationships?

Should I Put More of the Blame on Men

“If the woman is being stupid and he’s being a jerk admit to both. It’s as if you’re were siding with the guy.” “Blame the men from time to time.” “Men are wrong, too!” I hear these statements from hurt and frustrated women from time to time. This letter is to you if you have…

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The Root of Ecstasy is Also Attachment

The Root of Ecstasy is also Attachment

Have you ever heard the popular quote by Buddha: “The Root of Suffering is Attachment”? It is highly possible that most of the self help books out there that have become popular, are written by masculine men, or women with a masculine essence. I feel like this quote by the Buddha is very true. BUT…

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How to Maintain Your High Value when He doesn’t Contact You

Maintain your High Value when He doesn’t Contact You

If you have been dating a man for less than 6 months, then it is likely that you are still in the process of proving your Value as a potential mate to one another, so you’ll need to be aware of how to maintain that High Value if you truly love the man you are…

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Why Men Pull Away When You Need Them the Most

Why Men Pull Away when you Need them

What’s more scary than being with a man who suddenly disappears when you are hurting badly over something in your life? This lady named Sarah left this question on the blog in the comments section: “Renee, I love your articles they always make so much sense! I have a problem with my boyfriend. Ive known him…

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How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear

How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love

Happy New Year! I have found that we are most lonely and depressed as women when we make all our decisions from Fear. Essentially, for a woman, that looks like this: being dictated by our ‘heads’; making decisions from our heads, not our pelvis, our reproductive region. Heady decisions are decisions made from old patterns.…

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