I hate it when I get an email from a woman asking for my opinion on her dating or relationship problem and she says ”I’ve already tried so hard to make it WORK” or I reply to an with a suggestion, and she returns my email with “Yeahhhh I’ve already tried that!”. I hate when people ...…
Men withdraw from the relationship; they pull away. It’s what happens. Women do it sometimes, too – but with men; usually, they are only either going deeper in to the relationship with you; or they’re moving away; to do things that make them feel like men. And, when he pulls away; to you ...…
I know sometimes relationships and dating with men is scary. In your career, you have so much more control, and with friends, if something doesn’t go right – you will eventually find more friends. But in an intimate relationship with a man, rejection can feel like death. In an intimate relationship with a man, if you open yourself up, ...…
You would already know, intuitively, and through experience, that being in a relationship means you will inevitably experience pain. This doesn’t mean you should expect pain around every corner, and close up and stop opening yourself or stop trusting because of it. It just means the pain will be there. Pain is a part ...…
The fastest way to push a man away, (or to fail with men in general), is to make him feel blamed. “Oh, so you FINALLY call me?!” “How could you do that?!” “But ya didn’t pick up yer socks like I asked!” “You started it!” “You just expect me to be perfect!” “But you’ve let yourself ...…
If you stop bringing surprises to your relationship, then eventually and inevitably, the attraction and the passion will die. You will lose connection with your intimate partner, you will no longer have that fun, flirty atmosphere that you probably would hope for. You’ll live life in the “same old” ways and nothing will bring much excitement ...…
I’m going to assume that you have read articles or watched videos in the past on dating and relationships, and I’m also going to assume that at some point, reading any given piece of information: a blog post, an article or an ebook on dating, relationships and men, has made you feel powerless as a ...…
According to this trashy video, I ought to be worried about a half-naked Angelina Jolie in the shower with my man, whilst filming a scene of a movie. Clue: the point is not about her being naked in the shower with Johnny Depp (or your man). The point is the message they are sending: “you ...…
Three Ways to Fail At Connecting with People It’s a common paradox among women (and all humans, really): we want to connect, and we want more friends and we’re aching for connection and intimacy, and yet, we find ourselves lonely and even worse – scared to connect. So if failing at connecting with other human ...…
Pleaser Women Lose out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving I see a huge problem among us women, especially when women are in a relationship. This problem is the problem of pleasing all the time. Most women would pass this off as ‘oh it doesn’t apply to me’, I’m a cool woman and I ...…
How to be the World’s Most Confident Woman. Alright, so that’s a big promise, I know, to be the most confident woman in the world, but I know it’s possible for you, otherwise I wouldn’t bother writing this. Let me just ask you: what is life like without confidence? What is the quality of your ...…
Valentine’s Week Consultation Giveaway Hello there lovely lady! If you’re a subscriber to the blog, you’ve already heard the news. For Valentine’s week, I’m giving away 10 (Ten) Free 15-minute consultations with me. This is not an e-mail consultation. It will be a consultation over Skype (which is a Free service, with or without webcam, ...…
Making A Man Succeed Let’s try a quick guessing game (a game I learned from one of my mentors Seth Godin). I’m thinking of a number between 1 and 5 (inclusive). What do you think it is? Now, click on the number you guessed (only one number please): one, two, three, four, five.…
Stop Doing the Right Thing Question: Would you steal $1000 to buy medicine for your mother if she was dying and her life depended on this medicine? What if stealing the money is the last way on earth to come up with $1000? The alternative is that you will lose your mom. Would you steal ...…
Men and Dirty Socks Before I knew my man was a man and not a woman, I used to be upset by my man leaving his dirty socks on the floor. I was confused when I noticed that his idea of cleaning the house was equivalent to half my ideal level of cleanliness (if that). ...…
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