You may already be a woman in some areas of your life. One thing is for sure…the area of intimate relationships is the place where most of us show up as little girls and little boys. Ironically…at the same time, we demand a man out of our partner. Or we claim that the dating market ...…
People often exclaim ‘Why do I have to DO something to find a man/woman? Why can’t I be loved for being ME?’ – You can. The catch is, you must relax and actually BE you. Not the you that you think you should be. That’s not really YOU. You must choose to stop spending your ...…
If there was one thing I could have every woman understand about herself; it would be that our biggest fear is that we will be abandoned. With friends, this fear exists, with parents, it also exists, but nowhere is this fear more intense than dealing with men. Now, there are women in our population all ...…
This is a question from a wonderful reader who is just lovely. If you have some input for her, and if you have anything you want to tell her, it is much appreciated! Please leave your comments on the situation in the comments section below the post. “Hey Renee, I’ve been a longtime reader ...…
Do you believe in being honest? More importantly, do you believe in being honest with yourself? If you do, then I ask that you read through this article with an innocence and an openness in your heart, and for a moment, put aside any defensiveness until you have finished reading. I am not going to ...…
My question to you is this: is it true that your boyfriend or husband takes you for granted and only makes time for you when it suits him? Or is it that it’s too easy for you to feel like you are not special? In other words; are you making up the story that he ...…
When it comes to understanding men, there are two important things I want you to remember. Because I find it’s VERY easy to forget all the little details and everything else when you are stressed out and upset over your dating and relationship issues. So it’s helpful to have one or two simple reminders ...…
If you’re like me, you love giving gifts. It’s just a nice feeling – ESPECIALLY when you like and respect that person. Hey, sometimes buying gifts for someone else feels 100 times better than it does buying something for yourself. It’s nice to put a smile on someone else’s face, isn’t it? But in all ...…
When I decided to leave my ex boyfriend for my now husband, one thing made this choice obvious to me. I mean it was as clear as Day: my ex was never going to ‘take care’ of me. I took care of him, in many ways. This is the one reason I even began this ...…
This is a great question from a wonderful member named Katie G. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION Hi Renee, Congratulations to you and David on your wedding! So. I finished both programs, Committment Control and Understanding Men, a couple of months ago. I loved them: what I learned from you took my relationship from “eh, we’re not really ...…
This is a question from a lovely lady, Penelope. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION “Hi Renee, I hope you had a wonderful honeymoon! If you could spare some insight on my situation, I would really appreciate it. I feel just a tad foolish considering your last mail out. My boyfriend is from UK. I am from Spain. He is working ...…
I’m on my honeymoon at the moment which is blissful and I’m so happy (there’s just something about seeing my man wearing his wedding band that makes him THAT much more handsome than he already is!) A woman’s thing perhaps? This was supposed to be my private time but I have a big answer to a ...…
The upside of being very feminine? Men will be attracted to you. The downside? Well, what I’ve learned is that if you are ALL feminine and don’t cultivate masculine skills, then you get hurt a lot easier and spend too much time getting what you DON’T want in life, you waste a lot more ...…
Sometimes it’s hard and disappointing when you feel like you are dating men, but you are not finding any that you are actually attracted to. Have you ever wondered how to find a good man when you feel like you are losing hope? If you have, then maybe you will relate to this. I have ...…
You may have heard of circular dating. If you haven’t yet, I’ll let you know what it is quickly. Circular dating is: a term coined by Rori Raye, relationship author of Have the Relationship You Want. Dating several men (at least 3) all at the same time. You accept the date with the man who calls first, ...…
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