I’m on my honeymoon at the moment which is blissful and I’m so happy (there’s just something about seeing my man wearing his wedding band that makes him THAT much more handsome than he already is!) A woman’s thing perhaps? This was supposed to be my private time but I have a big answer to a ...…
The upside of being very feminine? Men will be attracted to you. The downside? Well, what I’ve learned is that if you are ALL feminine and don’t cultivate masculine skills, then you get hurt a lot easier and spend too much time getting what you DON’T want in life, you waste a lot more ...…
Sometimes it’s hard and disappointing when you feel like you are dating men, but you are not finding any that you are actually attracted to. Have you ever wondered how to find a good man when you feel like you are losing hope? If you have, then maybe you will relate to this. I have ...…
I can’t put in to words how much disappointment, hurt, sadness and pain I have felt throughout my own life. I don’t know your hurts and your struggles, only you know that. Only you can speak for yourself. But what I’ve decided through my own pain is this: it didn’t really matter WHAT the ...…
Everybody knows men crave respect in an intimate relationship with a woman. But it’s not always automatic to give it. Lately I’ve been toying with the idea that respecting a man is not 100% always a woman’s conscious choice, specifically in an intimate relationship situation. Here’s why: I feel deep respect for my fiancee, and it’s ...…
You may have heard of circular dating. If you haven’t yet, I’ll let you know what it is quickly. Circular dating is: a term coined by Rori Raye, relationship author of Have the Relationship You Want. Dating several men (at least 3) all at the same time. You accept the date with the man who calls first, ...…
To find a great man and have a lasting relationship with him, you Need: ….To be willing to sacrifice the immediate gratification you might get in any man who seems available to fill your loneliness. ….To learn to love the parts in a great man that scare you the most. ….To be willing to ...…
Men need to be listened to as well. Common sense, right? Just not so common in action for us women. As women sometimes it’s in our nature to just go up to a man and try and make certain that he hears what we’re feeling and hears our words even if we repeat ...…
For a little while, several years back, I did manage to convince myself that I had too much baggage to be involved in a relationship. It’s exactly the same thing as saying: “I am not ready for a relationship right now.” “I am not ready to have children.” As for the statement that I ...…
What does it cost you to just accept the conventional wisdom that: “Men don’t like drama.” Well, I can suggest this: it costs you one or all of these two things: 1) The ability to express your authentic feelings to a man because you’re afraid he will run, thinking you are a “drama queen”. Pretending everything is ...…
Have you ever gotten involved with a man, and 1, 2, 3 or more months down the track, you just couldn’t help asking him where the relationship is going? Maybe you got involved with him sexually, and he kept coming close and then pushing you away. Well, if you’ve tried to voice your feelings and ...…
I’ve been thinking; and when it comes to bad labels, you much rather the people you care about label you a selfish bitch than label you “boring”. Why? Because boring people are last in line when it comes to reproductive success. At least that’s the impression boring people give. Uninteresting, unstimulating, “safe” people are rarely ...…
We live in a politically correct world right? In other words, it doesn’t matter how soon you sleep with a man, right? Wrong. But, not for the reasons you think. Not because men have double standards. But for your happiness and relationship success. Men will ‘categorize’ women in to either one of two categories, whether ...…
The following is a question I received from a Commitment Control member named “Angel”. Both David and I share our responses. Enjoy it. If there’s anything you feel Angel should do or know, feel free to post your thoughts in the comments section below the post. >>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION HI, David and Renee, I have been ...…
“What is Femininity?” The fact that we have to ask that question says a lot about how difficult it can be to begin letting your femininity show. Most us who are over the age of 5, for example, don’t need to ask “what is a foot?” or “what is an apple?” because it’s obvious to ...…
