What does it cost you to just accept the conventional wisdom that: “Men don’t like drama.” Well, I can suggest this: it costs you one or all of these two things: 1) The ability to express your authentic feelings to a man because you’re afraid he will run, thinking you are a “drama queen”. Pretending everything is ...…
Imagine a long-lost friend you really liked but haven’t seen in years. Imagine you bump in to them on the street while you’re shopping on a Sunday afternoon. You stop in your tracks. “Heyyyy! Oh my goodness!! It’s been YEARS! What have you been up to? What are you doing here??” You guys talk and ...…
Have you ever gotten involved with a man, and 1, 2, 3 or more months down the track, you just couldn’t help asking him where the relationship is going? Maybe you got involved with him sexually, and he kept coming close and then pushing you away. Well, if you’ve tried to voice your feelings and ...…
I’ve been thinking; and when it comes to bad labels, you much rather the people you care about label you a selfish bitch than label you “boring”. Why? Because boring people are last in line when it comes to reproductive success. At least that’s the impression boring people give. Uninteresting, unstimulating, “safe” people are rarely ...…
We live in a politically correct world right? In other words, it doesn’t matter how soon you sleep with a man, right? Wrong. But, not for the reasons you think. Not because men have double standards. But for your happiness and relationship success. Men will ‘categorize’ women in to either one of two categories, whether ...…
The following is a question I received from a Commitment Control member named “Angel”. Both David and I share our responses. Enjoy it. If there’s anything you feel Angel should do or know, feel free to post your thoughts in the comments section below the post. >>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION HI, David and Renee, I have been ...…
“What is Femininity?” The fact that we have to ask that question says a lot about how difficult it can be to begin letting your femininity show. Most us who are over the age of 5, for example, don’t need to ask “what is a foot?” or “what is an apple?” because it’s obvious to ...…
Hey there, it’s Renee here, founder of TheFeminineWoman.com. Happy Valentines day! In this video, i have two important insights I want to share with you to help you find love, attraction and experience that passion that comes from a fulfilling relationship. Now, I know that, if you’re single, Valentine’s Day is the one day of ...…
On a primal level, it benefits women to pick a man who is far more in love with her than she is with him, because that FEELS like he will stick around, and so we (and our babies) can have all his resources. However, this is the exact thing many men hate about a relationship, ...…
I have always been a big fan of Heidi Klum, she’s a busy woman, always doing something, a woman with great energy and a genuine love of life. So I am sad to see Seal and Heidi divorce; I have been inspired by their relationship in the past. It is one that has been frowned ...…
I hate it when I get an email from a woman asking for my opinion on her dating or relationship problem and she says ”I’ve already tried so hard to make it WORK” or I reply to an with a suggestion, and she returns my email with “Yeahhhh I’ve already tried that!”. I hate when people ...…
This is a great question from a longtime and lovely reader of mine, Masaleen: “Hey Renee! Hope you’re doing well. I’m still an avid fan, and you and David become a cuter couple with every video. My struggle is this. Recently I’ve been feeling a bit estranged from my man because he feels I don’t understand his ...…
“What are people thinking of me?” “What if they don’t like me?” “Should I have worn that? Was it not appropriate?” “What if these men don’t find me attractive?” “Did I screw everything up?” “I feel so awful about the way I acted.” “What if they all turn against me?” “What if he doesn’t ...…
You’re single and attracting a man who wants a committed, loving relationship with you seems impossible. If you have not had a boyfriend in a year or more, or if you keep ending up in relationships where the man goes hot and cold, and the women around you are getting their happy endings, it can seriously make you ...…
Men withdraw from the relationship; they pull away. It’s what happens. Women do it sometimes, too – but with men; usually, they are only either going deeper in to the relationship with you; or they’re moving away; to do things that make them feel like men. And, when he pulls away; to you – it ...…
