You may already be a woman in some areas of your life. One thing is for sure…the area of intimate relationships is the place where most of us show up as little girls and little boys. Ironically…at the same time, we demand a man out of our partner. Or we claim that the dating market ...…
Whenever I suggest something like this, I risk a whole hoard of women hating me. Enough women hate my message as it is….and yet, it’s when I suggest this that I really feel women digging their nails in to me as if I have betrayed them and I am working against woman. Quite the ...…
I’d like to say that there are reasons you shouldn’t feel threatened by other women. Reasons why you should not compare yourself to other women. I’d also like to say that there are a bunch of reasons why you are in fact, better than that woman at work because of this reason. But you already ...…
People often exclaim ‘Why do I have to DO something to find a man/woman? Why can’t I be loved for being ME?’ – You can. The catch is, you must relax and actually BE you. Not the you that you think you should be. That’s not really YOU. You must choose to stop spending your ...…
If there was one thing I could have every woman understand about herself; it would be that our biggest fear is that we will be abandoned. With friends, this fear exists, with parents, it also exists, but nowhere is this fear more intense than dealing with men. Now, there are women in our population all ...…
This is a question from a wonderful reader who is just lovely. If you have some input for her, and if you have anything you want to tell her, it is much appreciated! Please leave your comments on the situation in the comments section below the post. “Hey Renee, I’ve been a longtime reader ...…
I’m sitting here on my couch in my new house on a Wednesday evening, with the fan blowing in my face and a little baby kicking away in my belly. As I sit here after an interesting experience I had today, I felt the need to write to you about something that is very important ...…
Do you believe in being honest? More importantly, do you believe in being honest with yourself? If you do, then I ask that you read through this article with an innocence and an openness in your heart, and for a moment, put aside any defensiveness until you have finished reading. I am not going to ...…
My question to you is this: is it true that your boyfriend or husband takes you for granted and only makes time for you when it suits him? Or is it that it’s too easy for you to feel like you are not special? In other words; are you making up the story that he ...…
When it comes to understanding men, there are two important things I want you to remember. Because I find it’s VERY easy to forget all the little details and everything else when you are stressed out and upset over your dating and relationship issues. So it’s helpful to have one or two simple reminders ...…
As a woman is it not hard at all to get stuck in a relationship with a commitment phobic man. Your task is to really see what a man does for what it is, and make your decision from there. If the man you are seeing exhibits many of these signs, it’s time to question: ...…
If you’re like me, you love giving gifts. It’s just a nice feeling – ESPECIALLY when you like and respect that person. Hey, sometimes buying gifts for someone else feels 100 times better than it does buying something for yourself. It’s nice to put a smile on someone else’s face, isn’t it? But in all ...…
When I decided to leave my ex boyfriend for my now husband, one thing made this choice obvious to me. I mean it was as clear as Day: my ex was never going to ‘take care’ of me. I took care of him, in many ways. This is the one reason I even began this ...…
This is a great question from a wonderful member named Katie G. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> QUESTION Hi Renee, Congratulations to you and David on your wedding! So. I finished both programs, Committment Control and Understanding Men, a couple of months ago. I loved them: what I learned from you took my relationship from “eh, we’re not really ...…
Choosing great girlfriends is just as important as choosing a great man. One affects the other. You become who you spend your time with. How do you feel when you get dressed up all nicely for a night out with your girlfriends and one of your close girlfriends totally ignores it and doesn’t compliment you? ...…
