‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark of a Good Woman

‘Doing’ more is Not the Hallmark_edited

When we feel the need to be enough and ‘do’ as much as the next woman, girl or mother, are we really a better woman? And do people really care anyway? No, the people who really care about you won’t care whether you do more or not. Only the people who compete with you to…

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Be Willing to Be Affected by A Man’s Problems in a High Value Way

Be willing to be affected

I can remember a long time ago, my husband and I were talking and I was feeling very frustrated, trying to tell him that I was upset about our relationship was affected when he was in a period of intense work mode. Those intense work modes can last a while, when they do come, and…

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A Woman’s Task is to Overcome the Need to Blame

Woman’s Task is to Overcome the Need to Blame

In our most basic un-evolved state, we as women tend to blame the man in our life for our problems. If we try not to, we do it indirectly anyway. Guilt is such a big emotion for most women, and it is wired in to us like you wouldn’t believe. So, subconsciously, we can work…

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Sneak Peek in to the First Chapter of my New Book

I’m not sure you would have expected this kind of writing from me. It’s not from my usual angle, and it’s written differently. But it is the way I was ultimately lead to start writing this book. In it’s finished state, this book will be written as an ‘general and thorough’ book, going through all…

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A Letter to Men: How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail

How to Understand Women

We love men here. Our intent is not to put the blame on you, as you are not to blame. We want you to know that we respect the man you are today, and honor you for being a man. If you find feminine women hard to understand, know that it’s not hard at all.…

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Should I Put More of the Blame on Men for Failed Relationships?

Should I Put More of the Blame on Men

“If the woman is being stupid and he’s being a jerk admit to both. It’s as if you’re were siding with the guy.” “Blame the men from time to time.” “Men are wrong, too!” I hear these statements from hurt and frustrated women from time to time. This letter is to you if you have…

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The Root of Ecstasy is Also Attachment

The Root of Ecstasy is also Attachment

Have you ever heard the popular quote by Buddha: “The Root of Suffering is Attachment”? It is highly possible that most of the self help books out there that have become popular, are written by masculine men, or women with a masculine essence. I feel like this quote by the Buddha is very true. BUT…

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How to Maintain Your High Value when He doesn’t Contact You

Maintain your High Value when He doesn’t Contact You

If you have been dating a man for less than 6 months, then it is likely that you are still in the process of proving your Value as a potential mate to one another, so you’ll need to be aware of how to maintain that High Value if you truly love the man you are…

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Why Men Pull Away When You Need Them the Most

Why Men Pull Away when you Need them

What’s more scary than being with a man who suddenly disappears when you are hurting badly over something in your life? This lady named Sarah left this question on the blog in the comments section: “Renee, I love your articles they always make so much sense! I have a problem with my boyfriend. Ive known him…

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How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear

How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love

Happy New Year! I have found that we are most lonely and depressed as women when we make all our decisions from Fear. Essentially, for a woman, that looks like this: being dictated by our ‘heads’; making decisions from our heads, not our pelvis, our reproductive region. Heady decisions are decisions made from old patterns.…

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He’s Not ‘Making EXCUSES’. You Just Haven’t Inspired Him to Commit to You

He’s not ‘Making EXCUSES’

The word you use to describe another person’s actions means EVERYTHING. The words you use make you do amazing things in your life or terrible things. Because the words you use reflect the meaning you place on things. This is why I don’t like the word ‘excuses’. If you say a man is making ‘excuses’ here…

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How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups?

How to Keep a Relationship After Repeated Breakups

Good day Renee, I have no idea where to start with this mail. I met Matthew when I was 18, that was 7 Years ago. We have had a very up and down Relationship. We have two wonderful little boys together. For the first two years of our relationship was a fairy tale, and from…

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The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

Women aren’t supposed to make sense. To men. We can make a lot of sense to each other (women to women); and that’s important for connecting with girlfriends. But the problem is that we deny ourselves the deliciousness that is living in our own true nature – the sensuality, the sexuality, the attractiveness that is…

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How to Attract a Man who Gives you EVERYTHING

How to Attract a Man who Gives

A diamond ring. A big set of arms to hold you tight and close with. A nice house. Marriage. Beautiful children. Why would a man ever give any woman any of these things? There are 3 reasons. 1) To keep her around and convenient until he finds ‘the one’. 2) Because she is everything. His…

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Think You’ve “Given too Much” to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.

Think You’ve “Given too Much’

“I gave too much and didn’t get anything back.” This is a common line. It’s also a lazy line. As well as an arrogant line. When we say this, we’re just angry. It’s something we say in an attempt to feel better about losing a man’s attention, or losing him altogether. (Click here to register…

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