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The Relationship Advice Women Should Never Take

The Relationship Advice Women Should Never Take

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 33 Comments

The Relationship Advice YOU Should Never Take I’m going to assume that you have read articles or watched videos in the past on dating and relationships, and I’m also going to assume that at some point, reading any given piece of information: a blog post, an article or an eBook on dating, relationships and men, has made you feel powerless as a woman. (Click here to download your copy of “Goddess Report”) You are not alone. The great thing about the internet is that it allows us women to go and read information, and get some free advice on things that…

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Pleaser Women Always Lose Out

Pleaser Women Always Lose Out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 243 Comments

Pleaser Women Lose out – The Difference Between Pleasing and Giving I see a huge problem among us women, especially when women are in a relationship. This problem is the problem of pleasing all the time. Most women would pass this off as ‘oh it doesn’t apply to me’, I’m a cool woman and I would never be one of those silly pleasers! However, in my experience, many women like to think they’re not acting like pleasers, but they actually are. Part of this comes from not really understanding the difference between pleasing and giving. (Click here to take the…

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The Secret to Being Yourself

The Secret to Being Your Real Authentic Self

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love | 43 Comments

If a girl has large breast implants, peroxide hair, collagen in her lips and carries a Chanel bag, is she being herself? Her friends might say, “oh, well that’s just her! “That’s what she does!” I say it depends. We’re always told to be ourselves. “relax! Be yourself!” What on earth does that mean?! How do you “be yourself”? Does that mean dress how you’d like to dress? Does it mean say what you want, when you want, however you want? Well, it could… The only problem is that nobody really tells you what being yourself actually means – and…

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Boring Women Vs Crazy Women

Boring Women Versus Crazy Women

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 36 Comments

There’s a tendency among many women to just be nice. These are the kinds of women whom we call pleasers. Boring. Pleasers are the kinds of women who are so afraid of losing love, so afraid of being judged, so afraid of being talked about behind their back (by the way, this is always going to happen – to everybody). So afraid of being alone, that they will do anything to please. Anything to be in everybody’s good books. There’s an old saying: “you can’t please everyone”. This is true, but also misses the point. Don’t please anybody. That’s not…

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Why Being One Dimensional Will Cost You

The Cost of Being A One Dimensional Woman

By | Attraction, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 27 Comments

If you want to have men attracted to you and committed to you in the long run, then you have to become more than just a one dimensional woman. In deed, you have to become “multi-dimensional”. If you want to lose commitment from a man, and lose the passion and attraction he feels for you, then the quickest way to do is, is being one dimensional. In other words, be “boring”. (Click here to download your free copy of Goddess Report.) One of the biggest mistakes many women (and men) make in their relationship is to be continually showing up…

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Don’t be a Woman Who Fits In

Don’t be a Woman Who Tries to Fit In

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 177 Comments

It’s cool to complain in a group of girlfriends. It’s cool to bitch and back-stab, because we’re so much more perfect than so-and-so, right? It’s cool to get together and complain about men, and talk about how many jerks there are out there – and then sit there befuddled, because you don’t know what to do about it. (Click here to take the quiz on “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) It’s cool to ruthlessly chase a career, and it’s cool to place your man second to said career. It’s cool to get blind drunk and fall…

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Pick Your Friends Carefully

Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love | 44 Comments

Warning: Pick Your Friends Carefully Do you have any dreams? Do you have wishes? Any desires or planned outcomes? Do you have any goals in life? And do you have anyone around you who’s pulling you away from your goals and desires? (Click here to take the quiz on “How High Value High Status Am I on Facebook?”) Do you have in mind the kind of relationship you’d like to have? Do you have a picture in mind, of who you would like to be, represent or become? Now…..who do you spend most of your time with? Who is in…

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What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams

What Most Women Don’t Know about Finding and Keeping the Man of Their Dreams

By | Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 31 Comments

There’s a myth that all you need to do is be a nice girl or a “good person”, and then, everything you want will follow, and line up for you. Including a handsome prince who adores you. This, in fact, is untrue. Don’t you know of anyone who is a really nice person, and yet still didn’t get what they “deserved” in life, their career, or their love life? I do. If I had a gold coin for every time I heard someone say: “why do BAD things happen to GOOD people?!” Do you know how rich I’d be? So,…

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How to Comfort a man

How to Comfort A Masculine Man

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 268 Comments

The goal of this article isn’t to make a man light up like Christmas lights and be all chirpy and cheerful. The goal really is to bring light  in to his life; to be the yin to his yang, and to enchant. The very purpose of this post is to help you find a way to ease a man’s tension and give your feminine gifts. But this post is written for women in a relationship. As a woman, I have found that the task of cheering my man up and comforting him has proven to be very difficult at times….

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How to Open Up to Love – Learning to be Open

5 Questions to Become Open & Receptive to Love

By | All, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 159 Comments

Learning to be Open – How to Open Up to Love… Most of us have at least small difficulties in opening up to people. Sometimes it can be hard to even know how to open up. But like many things in life, it’s hard, but it’s worth doing. In fact, the rewards can be astonishing. This is one of the single mot important posts on this blog. Please give it the time and attention it deserves, because if you do not feel like you can open your heart, either to friends, family, but especially to a man (or your man,…

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Masculine Energy

Surrendering To The Masculine Energy

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues

Here’s How & Why You Need to Surrender to Masculine Energy There’s no denying it; the masculine energy is intense. In fact, masculine energy is sometimes scary, from a woman’s perspective. Of course, I won’t neglect to acknowledge that many modern women won’t relate to this notion. Some may not think masculine energy can be intense or even scary at times. Whilst Feminism has done some great things for us, it has also made women quite domineering with a tendency to castrate men with a single look. I suppose this is partially where the term ‘Ball-Breaker’ began to tread our…

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Can You Really Expect a Man to be Monogamous?

Can You Really Expect Your Man to be Monogamous?

By | All, Commitment, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 191 Comments

There’s a lot of talk about how monogamy is unnatural and no longer ‘in’ in today’s society. A lot of people say that men are ‘hard-wired’ to spread their seed and to have sex with as many women as possible. The same goes for women. A lot of women think monogamy is not for them, and that it’s “unrealistic” for them to be in love with, and commit to, just one man for life. Not to mention that infidelity seems to be commonplace in today’s society. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?”) We’re…

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why men need sex

5 Reasons Why Women Shouldn’t Deprive Their Man of Sex

By | Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 608 Comments

1) The only difference between a friendship and a relationship is intimacy. If you have a sexless marriage or a sexless relationship, what are you? companions? best friends? If a couple doesn’t have much sex, then this generally means they lack passion, and that they could be more in love. There’s no such thing as losing the feeling of being in love. You just lose the ‘state’ of being in love, and you lose polarity/passion with your spouse.  You can be in love and have passionate sex way in to your old age. (Click here to take the quiz on “Am…

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Why Do Men Really Love Blowjobs?

By | All, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 597 Comments

Seriously… Why Do Men Really Love Blowjobs? This article is not meant to be rude or offensive in any way. My aim is to help women have close, committed, deep and passionate relationships. Part of achieving this is helping women understand more about men, what men want and why they want it. Despite this being a sensitive topic, I hope we can all approach it with a little light-heartedness and let us remember that oral sex has been around for many years. I am also not condoning casual sex or being promiscuous. I am also not aiming to tell women they…

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Depolarization: Mistakes Women Make With Men

Mistakes Women Make to Destroy Sexual Polarity with Men

By | All, Attraction, Confidence, Finding Love, Relationship Issues | 65 Comments

I will start with a definition of depolarization: To partially or completely eliminate or counteract the polarization of. Where on earth does this word come from and what does it mean in the context of your relationship with men? Most men and women, regardless of what they’re showing up as, have a sexual essence that is more typically associated with their gender. So, most women will be feminine at their core, and most men will be masculine at their core. (Click here to take the quiz “How Naturally Feminine Am I Actually?”) There are women who are more masculine at their core,…

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