Category Archives: Finding Love

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10 Reasons Why We Should Feel and Share our Pain

10 Reasons why we should Feel and Share our Pain

Have you ever thought; ‘if I can avoid feeling pain, why shouldn’t I?’ Or even thought ‘why feel pain if you don’t have to?’ You don’t have to, really. It is our personal choice. In fact, we as humans naturally have a drive to prefer comfort over pain. Most of us in the world spend…

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The Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

Most Valuable Thing a Woman can Give to a Man

If you’ve ever asked yourself…’what do men want in a relationship?’ What makes a woman High Value so that she can have almost any man commit to her? (Click here to register to watch the “Commitment Masterclass”) I have an answer below. I can remember the handful of times I came to the realisation that…

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A Different Perspective on Why Male Partners Abuse Women (& how to stop it)

new perspective on why women are abused

Warning: Abuse can be a very serious and very sensitive issue for many women… If you are already in an abusive situation, the perspective of this article may not always serve you, so please take caution in how you interpret this article. If you are in an abusive situation, then for your sake do everything…

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Sneak Peek in to the First Chapter of my New Book

I’m not sure you would have expected this kind of writing from me. It’s not from my usual angle, and it’s written differently. But it is the way I was ultimately lead to start writing this book. In it’s finished state, this book will be written as an ‘general and thorough’ book, going through all…

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A Letter to Men: How to Understand Women & Why Your Relationships Fail

How to Understand Women

We love men here. Our intent is not to put the blame on you, as you are not to blame. We want you to know that we respect the man you are today, and honor you for being a man. If you find feminine women hard to understand, know that it’s not hard at all.…

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The Root of Ecstasy is Also Attachment

The Root of Ecstasy is also Attachment

Have you ever heard the popular quote by Buddha: “The Root of Suffering is Attachment”? It is highly possible that most of the self help books out there that have become popular, are written by masculine men, or women with a masculine essence. I feel like this quote by the Buddha is very true. BUT…

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How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love, Not Fear

How to be Truly Feminine & Be Guided by Love

Happy New Year! I have found that we are most lonely and depressed as women when we make all our decisions from Fear. Essentially, for a woman, that looks like this: being dictated by our ‘heads’; making decisions from our heads, not our pelvis, our reproductive region. Heady decisions are decisions made from old patterns.…

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The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

The Most Feminine Women Make the Least Sense

Women aren’t supposed to make sense. To men. We can make a lot of sense to each other (women to women); and that’s important for connecting with girlfriends. But the problem is that we deny ourselves the deliciousness that is living in our own true nature – the sensuality, the sexuality, the attractiveness that is…

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How to Attract a Man who Gives you EVERYTHING

How to Attract a Man who Gives

A diamond ring. A big set of arms to hold you tight and close with. A nice house. Marriage. Beautiful children. Why would a man ever give any woman any of these things? There are 3 reasons. 1) To keep her around and convenient until he finds ‘the one’. 2) Because she is everything. His…

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Think You’ve “Given too Much” to a Man? You Probably Haven’t.

Think You’ve “Given too Much’

“I gave too much and didn’t get anything back.” This is a common line. It’s also a lazy line. As well as an arrogant line. When we say this, we’re just angry. It’s something we say in an attempt to feel better about losing a man’s attention, or losing him altogether. (Click here to register…

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This Does NOT Make You ‘Wife Material’

This Does NOT Make You ‘Wife Material’

My assistant Jenny forwarded me this question the other day: “I met my guy in Feb 2013 from Okcupid. In March 2013 (3weeks later) he asked me to be his girl. In April 2013 he asked me to move in his house. Aug 3, 2013 he broke up with me.- I cooked, cleaned, washed clothes,…

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How to Radiate Deeper Femininity and Attract Men You Can Trust

How to Radiate Deeper Femininity

Listen to yourself when you are talking. To friends, to your lover, to your boyfriend. The words we speak are mostly blind to what is really going on inside. And worse; the words we speak cause the men you WANT to ignore you or think ‘nope, not for me’ when they spend time with you.…

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THIS is Why Men Don’t Call More Often…

This is why men don't call often

My man and I openly discuss relationship topics and the differences between men and women very often. We are both very passionate about it and this mutual passion is one reason I can write this blog. One day recently, my man David and I were having a conversation about why men don’t call and how…

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He Pays for His Ex Girlfriend’s Bills but Won’t Pay for Mine?

What to DO when your Boyfriend is still emotionally Attached to his Ex A question from Kira: “Dear Renee, After reading your writing for awhile now, I’d like your input on something. My boyfriend still shares his cell phone family plan with his ex girl friend, who he split up with two years ago. They…

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It’s OK to NEED a Man… really, it is!

OK to need a man

It’s ok to need a man. It’s ok because you choose to need a man. It’s ok to be a mature woman and make that conscious choice to need the right man. A good man. It’s ok to admit that you do (or have) needed your father. Or at least imply that your father is…

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