Why Being One Dimensional Will Cost You

The link to you program is not working.

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Renee Reply:
June 25th, 2011 at 3:07 pm

Hi Tia,

That program was only available for a short time frame, that’s why it doesn’t work.

We now include segments in dark and light feminine and dark and light attraction in all of our programs.

xoxo

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The recent film black swan is a PERFECT example of what you are talking about….

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Renee Reply:
February 20th, 2011 at 4:39 pm

Yes, exactly Jackie!

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By that I mean paper back

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Renee, have you considered offering it in a form that isn’t online ?

I think alot of people would enjoy reading something like this with their morning coffee, etc.

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Hi Reneé,

So true that boredom sets in when a person is one dimensional.. However, (not read the chapter yet, will now!) many times, it’s the man imo that tends to get boring and do same old, same old, while we ladies are proactive, up and about, creating new habits and tying social knots.. That’s at least what I experienced!

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Thank You so much for your thoughts, comments and feedback lovely ladies. I love and appreciate that you have taken the time to tell me about your reading experiences!

Lots of Love,

Renee.

-XxX-

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Hi Renee,

Love your posts!

With regard to chapter 1, it’s been a great read. I realised that I have been dark feminine for many years which was good and bad. The good being that i always went after what i wanted and got it, however the bad side is that there are consequences to all actions. And if you are not careful, you may abuse the power you have over people and it also becomes a game you play.

I have found my light side which i had before going dark. It has been a challenge but i am getting there.

And now i am working on getting the balance. I have found that the more I work on myself and add to my relationship, the more my partner brings to the relationship as well.

Thanks for the great articles and advice. It’s been a Godsend and has helped me save my relationship as I had become very career driven and successful but lost touch with the lady that I was. Now I am a stay at home mom and much happier.

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The movie ‘The other Boleyn girl’ gives a fairly good explanation of light feminine and dark feminine through the medium of film.

My favourite sister was the ‘dark feminine’ sister played by Natalie Portman. I really loved her character even though there were times I felt she was quite the bitch…(the bitch that as Renee put it aptly is in all of us). I felt sorry she had to be beheaded, but I guess we all have to pay a price for actions and choices…

I think that presently we live in an age of predominantly light feminine. Dark feminine is fairly rare even though I have met a few domininant ‘dark feminine types’ that I personally find fascinating and magnetic.

I think we will improve our relationships by having a better understanding of the dark feminine. It holds some of the keys to our power as women. Of course and light feminine has its rightful place in the scheme of things.

I liken femininity to nature. It creates, feeds us, nurtures us and keeps us warm. At the same time it can be destructive, magnificent, frightening and humbling. Like nature femininity create a sense of elusiveness and of fleeting and yet give us a sense of security and protection as well.

The greatest impediment in becoming a well rounded woman as you suggest in the 1st chapter of your book is, I think, holding back our emotions. Somehow being emotional, changing you moods or being indirect or just letting go is frowned upon. The epitome of good behaviour these days (for a woman) is directness, being very logical and not being emotional and sensitive (whatever the heck that is supposed to mean!), attributes that I find masculine in nature.

Feminity at its best, is being multi-dimensional even paradoxical.Most of us women are already that way but have lost touch with our dual nature due to conditioning.

So thank you Renee for bringing this up in your new book. Femininity rules!! (Both light and dark, I might add).

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Hi Renee,

Thank you for this great read with my morning coffee!

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Hi Renee

Just finished reading the first chapter of your new programme and I love it… It has the answers to many questions that I didn’t even know I had…lol

Keep up the good work!

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Hi Renee

Thank you so much for the article i really enjoyed reading it and i have seen the mistakes i make in my relationship with my husband i used to think that being one dimensional was the key but i have realised my mistakes through your article and i will try my best to be multi dimensional. Your book will really help many people in relationships continue with the spirit of helping people in relationships.Thanks for sharing.

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Hi Renee!

A very enlightening article and chapter! It really resonated with me because I have finally found an amazing guy, and we have been going out for almost a year, which is the longest I’ve been in a relationship. Things are great, but I definitely want to keep our bond strong. I am concerned that we may get bored with each other, and as I’ve gotten to know him better, I’ve discovered his fascination with different personality types. Discovering different parts of myself–my dark and light sides–is definitely the way to keep him interested while still being myself.

Thank you for sharing your knowledge with all of us, and I eagerly await the completion of your book! Cheers! <3

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You explain the balance of being a woman and the whole difference/and or balance between men and women very clearly Renee. I have only come to realize and understand this later in life – but, better late than never. This probably sounds very naive, but I use to think there was not much of a difference between men and women, we are all human, only a different gender. But not so, life is so much more interesting than that!

This is where the internet is so good. You can come across some real gems, and see what other people think, people from over the whole planet, much more so than from whithin a community, circle of friends or a family- these can be limiting somethimes. So the internet really does expand one’s horizons!! Also it gives another diemension to a book/e-book -with an ongoing conversation with many people scattered across the globe.

I only noticed the copyright small print at the end of the first chapter while I was pondering upon your words – it made me laugh – something you would never expect.

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I can’t wait for this one – it really is about integrating those parts – but are some men more into one of those sides? I always felt that my ex hubby was into the dark, which was not a problem for me, – but when I showed a bit more of the light he didn’t want it. And I wanted to express that side a little more…. sometimes. I’ll be reading this!!

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Wow! I am now reading this chapter and it’s great. I am very aware of my tendency to restricting myself to being just one type of person and I thought it was important to have a well defined image of who I am… you surely know what I mean because your writing captures this way of feeling and thinking too. And it never occured to me before that it may not be such a good thing… But maybe it actually would be beneficial to me to stop this restricting myself and now this text is encouraging to me to stop being afraid of my many different and hidden sides.

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Very thought provoking! I am really starting to understand the concept of light/dark femininity the more I read. I kept feeling little light bulbs go on while I read Chapter 1!! A lot of what you were saying reminds me of some song or saying that says men want “A lady on the street but a freak in the bed” lol. They want the soft lady exterior AND the dark inner seductress. I really look forward to learning more. Thank you for sharing this!

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Thank u! i look forward to the rest of the book =)

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Hello Renee … i am reading … you are so funnY! this business about uncle sam …………………………………..

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Thanks for the great post!! I’m learning more day-by-day…

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Thank you for addressing this, I always rather feared a man would reject me for my darker side. But i think i am beginning to understand, and not rejecting it myself anymore.

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Thanks for this Renee! Can’t wait to dive in to it.

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