The Dark Side of Femininity
If you consult any source specifically about Femininity, or any dating sources that discuss the importance of a woman’s femininity, you will find they teach that Femininity is soft, gentle kind, innocent and caring. Whilst femininity certainly comprises these things – most people consider only the Light side of Femininity.
Think good housewives, think princesses; we’re taught to be a good person from when we’re kids – but sometimes this is all just not enough to attract the man we want.
The reality is that there is so much more to Femininity! Traditional ideas and concepts of femininity confine women to a particular way of acting. Hence for many women, they find that they are not at home being this ‘dark’ facet of the Feminine.
To be blunt, you need to be both dark and light, to survive in this world. How many times have we heard of stories of a goodie-two-shoes girlfriend, staying at home whilst the boyfriend cheats on her behind her back?
Being a nice girl is simply not enough. It may be a pleasant experience for a while, but guys will get sick of you.
What you need to do is to tap into the darkness of your femininity. Dark and light exists in both masculinity and femininity. There is a Dark and Light Feminine, and there is also Dark and Light Masculine.
Feminine energy is an absolutely phenomenal gift – both for women to experience within themselves, and for the men and women around them to behold. As such, it frustrates me much for people to think only of the girlish and innocent side of the Feminine.
This may sound bizarre and slightly ‘new age’, but there is more to you than most of us think, believe acknowledge or understand. Many of us reject something within ourselves or within others if it doesn’t fit a particular mold, or if it doesn’t suit who they have shown up to be over the years. What happens then is that you are locked in to one way of doing things. This ultimately leaves both men and women completely dissatisfied and unfulfilled.
For example, You are never simply just a mother, a daughter or a best friend. You are also a lover, a chef (if this is a part of you), and many other things.
The majority of women are unaware of the Light and Dark Feminine and how liberating it will be for them to embrace both. They are also unaware of how the Light and Dark energies work, as well as how each one attracts and fulfills a man, or how absolutely crucial these two facets of femininity are in an intimate relationship.
Some men and women feel ultimately dissatisfied and even leave their spouse because of the very restrictions that being one ‘type’ of femininity or masculinity causes. It confines an otherwise beautiful and passionate relationship to boredom, and ultimately, either one or both partners will feel unfulfilled at best, and/or lose interest in their spouse at the worst!
Dark and Light Feminine The Program………
By the way, I am nearly finished a New Program called ‘Dark and Light Feminine’. As I approach the final chapters, I am extremely excited for the release of this new program!!
I am also interested to know what questions you may have about Dark and Light Femininity, and what you would like to see covered in this comprehensive Program. It will be released within the next 4 weeks and will delve deeply in to how to discover and embody the light and dark side of your femininity, as well as how to attract the light and dark masculine either in your current man or in a future man. I will also be releasing more information about Dark and Light Feminine – the Program, and what it will cover in each module/section prior to the Release date.
So, please leave a comment below this post telling me about your thoughts, opinions, or concerns (any concerns or confusions are welcome) about Femininity, being a woman, about men, or your relationship. I want to make this program as comprehensive as possible for you.
Lots of Love and Femininity,