Do Feminine Women Need Multiple Men?
On Open Relationships
This post is for discussion purposes. I just wanted to have a heart-to-heart girl’s discussion about open relationships and whether or not feminine women need more than one man.
So here are my questions:
Do you think that you cannot be truly fulfilled as a woman by just one man?
Do you feel like being in a relationship with one person for life obstructs growth?
Do you think that one woman cannot satisfy one man’s sexual needs?
Do you believe it is IMPOSSIBLE for just one man to fulfill all your needs as a spiritual, sexual and emotional being?
Just for clarification; the definition of open relationships is/are:
1. A relationship where both partners hide nothing from each other, including their past relationships and sexual experiences.
2. A relationship where both partners have agreed that monogamy, sexual fidelity or exclusivity are not expected.
If you know my blog, or have signed up for Attraction Control which was released 3 weeks ago, you would know that I am all about taking responsibility, being accountable for the results you are producing in your relationship, and truly fulfilling your partner’s needs.
I absolutely do not believe that being in a monogamous relationship obstructs growth. It depends whether you are meeting each other’s NEED for growth. I personally have no need to be with other men. My belief is that if a man worships his woman, and a woman worships her man; and they both fulfill each other’s needs and believe that each other are a 10 out of 10; and are in love – then why go with any other men?
To put this entire discussion in to context, I want to refer you to this blog: http://jujumamablog.com/
You may or may not have heard of Juju Mama and this blog. She is a lady from the U.S who has an open relationship with her husband (they each have other girlfriends and boyfriends) – and believe in the idea of compersion. She talks a lot about femininity, which is the thing about her ideas that caught my attention (hell, anything about femininity attracts my attention)!
Personally, I have experienced compersion but do not see the necessity for me to feel (or want to feel/experience this) in the form of my man having sex with other women.
Moreover, her notion of FEMININITY – is that truly feminine women love everybody, and therefore we cannot be TRULY fulfilled spiritually, sexually – by just ONE man. Furthermore, she states that women need more sex than men, and that people who are in marriages or long-term relationships and who think they can be fulfilled are DELUDED.
So – do you think (in your heart of hearts) that a woman cannot only have just ONE man for life?
You know my opinion. If you’ve read a few of my blog posts, you know my solid beliefs. But, we all have to respect each other’s opinions. (read my article about what if he only wants ‘casual’ relationship)
PLEASE NOTE: The theories and concepts behind open relationships (depending on who you speak to) can be quite complex. It is not my intention to over-simplify things. The purpose of the post is to learn something from all of us here. So please don’t think I’m saying open relationships are wrong. I respect everyone’s opinion.
So, please leave your comment below this post and tell us whether you think a feminine woman can be truly fulfilled by just one man for life?
All my best wishes,
P.S – I’m sorry about the quality of this video. It was night-time, so that’s why it may look a bit fuzzy.