The Knight in shining armour: finding and attracting your ideal man

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Ah, the elusive Knight in shining armour. I’m sure we’ve all heard of this saying and I for one, have heard a lot of women talk about finding their knight in shining armour. Or waiting for a man to come and ‘sweep’ them off their feet, and take them to a magical place. It’s a lovely image, isn’t it? To be the woman being protected, taken care of and loved devotedly by the knight, or swept up in to the arms of the ‘perfect’ man, whatever he might be like

I have news for you, lovely. You CAN have this for yourself. It is possible, women have had this before, and you can have it, too! The only thing is – there are a few keys you need to possess before unlocking the door to this magical experience!

Firstly – scrap the ‘waiting’ for your ‘one’, or your ‘knight’. Waiting will get you nowhere in life. Luckily for you, I’m going to give you a key – a well kept secret that the women you envy; the ones with the most passionate, loving, devoted boyfriends or husbands already know, whether consciously or subconsciously. (By the way, I’m not talking about the men who are ‘whipped’ or answer to their girlfriend or wife’s every demand, and are, in effect a little afraid of their woman). I’m talking about a genuinely caring, strong and devoted man who takes great care of his woman.

The secret or key, is a simple piece of knowledge. To ATTRACT the kind of man you want, you need to BECOME the kind of person you want to attract in your relationship. By this I mean you need to become the kind of woman this kind of man craves to be with! A strong man who is driven, successful, ambitious, loving, caring, compassionate, fit, healthy, truly masculine and real is not going to want to devote his life to a woman or girl who is simply waiting for what he has to offer, all the while sitting in front of the TV with some comfort food instead of taking a good look at herself and thinking about adding more VALUE to the life of others, and consciously giving more and more every day. In other words, holding herself to the highest standard. Now I’m not saying you sit in front of the couch with comfort food, that was purely for illustration purposes.

To own and keep that truly masculine kind of man who all women want to be with is really not easy. The good news is though, that once you start practicing the techniques that I will be showing you, it can become a habit, and it will get easier and easier. Then before you know it, you’ll be the envy of every woman

So, what about some small action steps? These are exciting. In the next week or so, I want you to think about whether there are any women out there who are already with the kind of man you would love to be with. I also want you to think about whether there are any men or women who are in the kind of relationship that you want to be in (be careful here, what you think you want may not be what you really want, so consider this carefully in your own time). Then, I’d like you to approach these people, both the man and the woman, and find out more about their journey in finding their one. So, you could consider questions like:

(to the man):

‘What makes you so devoted to [her]?”

“What do you love about [her]?”

“What makes you so passionate about her, or what makes your relationship so passionate/loving?”

Then, to the woman, you could ask the same thing, expect of course, replacing the ‘her’ with ‘him’

Please do note though, that you might very well get more out of the woman than the man in some cases, as men are not as vocal about these things as women are. I assure you though that he DOES have feelings, and even if you cannot get much out of him verbally, just watch him carefully and take note of the way he responds to your questions and his facial expressions when you are talking about his girl. You could really learn A LOT!!

So, go on, do a case study or two (or three). It is fun and will be intriguing, and might very well inspire you to model more of the traits in the woman you speak to after all, it’s great to have something to go by!

Also, if you haven’t taken my FeminineWoman survey, please visit http://www.thefemininewoman.com/survey/ and take part so I can learn more about you!

Stay tuned for more on attracting your ideal man in the future! ‘Til then, take good care

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